Why is my friend so conceited?

[hunnybunny81105]

All she ever does is talk about how hot she is, talk about herself all the time, etc. etc. Whenever there is a conversation she ALWAYS brings it back to be about herself...she does this with other people! She's a pretty girl but she's not gorgeous to me or anything like that. She makes it seem as if she's the most gorgeous girl to walk the earth.

She keeps complaining about how she can't find a boyfriend or husband. She'll be like "Why can't I stop looking at my picture? I'm so hot...why am I single? I don't get it"

I told her "Personality maybe" She said "Are you saying my personality is crappy?" LOL

When will she ever learn? I think this is why she's been single for years. She finds dates sure but they always leave her ass on the second date.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Tell her the truth - nothing more helpful to a friendship then a slap in the face of reality.

I told my bestie she was being an arrogant bitch because she got sucked up in this crowd of ditzy, stupid, no personality, pretty air heads.

She's pretty humble these days now lol.

Of course we talked more about it after the small confrontation so we can see eye to eye - I wouldn't recommend calling your friend an arrogant bitch - I was just epically pissed off at the time.

I'd address the issue by being like " hey can we talk about something that's been bothering me a little? "

My guess is she might pull the ' UGH YOUR JUST JEALOUS OF ME >:O" card - but then assure her your very confident and have nothing to be jealous of really.

Follow up by telling her you just care about her and her arrogance can be a huge annoyance and perhaps that's the reason guys don't date her for long.

[hunnybunny81105]

thats a good one.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

she's really insecure but covering it up by pretending she thinks she's all that.

[WoIIie]

Some people are just narcissists. Believe it or not, some users act that way on this site, where they find ways to make other people's problems about them to soak up attention. When two narcissists clash, it's a hilarious game of tug-o-war to see who can keep the spotlight and make themselves look like hot sh*t.

Just let her be, you can't get into her head and change her pattern of thinking. When she's miserable and alone, she might understand. For now, she has you as a friend and that at least keeps her ego afloat. If it annoys you enough, just stop hanging out with her. That's how it's supposed to be.

[WeaponZero]

As a friend it falls on you to be the one to tell it to her straight up.

[sephora]

ahha, I don't know what to say, maybe just stop complimenting her and don't engage when she starts talking about herself.

[ArrograntWarrior]

tell her to shut up and stop thinking that the earth revolves around her ass