I need a good way to get less stressed or I need someone to tell me what is wrong with me? Maybe I just have some sort of weird disease?

[Anonymous]

So I recently went through a bad break up and as you can imagine I have been beyond stressed and upset and crying and what not. Well. It has now been five days and I can't eat. I have ate probably twice in the last five days and when I do eat I throw it back up. I have no idea what is going on. I'm hoping it is just stress though. I've already thrown up 3 or 4 times today...
Also I get really shaky and weak feeling and sometime I feel like I'm going to pass out but I think that is just because I haven't ate.
And no I'm not pregnant. I'm still a virgin. Just throwing that out there because everyone I've asked about this assumed I was pregnant.
Anyone have any idea what is causing this or how to fix it?

[brooke_skye]

Hey hun, I know how you're feeling I have been there. Getting over a break up, especially a bad one, can be extremely hard, distressing and tiring. Like you, I lost my appetite, and this causes many problems. My loss of appetite and lack of everything caused nausea, feeling faint, dizziness etc. I have only just started eating again, and I'm so glad. There were heaps of foods I couldn't keep down, but you need to find a food that you can! Something light and refreshing perhaps. The thing that got my appetite back a little was canned pear, honestly it was the most random thing and the only reason I had access to a can of pears is because I was at someone's house and it's all they had. Luckily I could keep it down! So, you really need to find something that you can stomach. There'll be something. If not, definitely see a doctor. Because you are very stressed and upset from the breakup if you continue not eating it can lead to much worse health problems! The doctor should be able to help you! If you have medicare or a healthcare card you should be able to go to a GP for free just for some suggestions from a professional.
Once your appetite is back you can focus on other problems, but honestly not eating will cause very big problems for you.

I'm sorry about the break up to, hope you are able to feel better soon. Best of luck x

[TheNinethGuy]

ummmmm, you are sick with lonelyness

most girls after a break up they need to feel up that hole to feel better.

there are good ways and bad ways. eating ice cream (other people buy pets) is a bad way to feel that hole, a good way is to be with a really good friend or relative that you are ok talking to about this.

i recommend you to be with friends and talk to them and laugh with them only then you can fill that hole that your bf used to fill up.

best of luck [TheNinethGuy]