A lot of this is due to your age, and the age of people around you. Of course having big boobs doesn't make you a whore, but many jealous girls (not jealous of your boobs as much as the attention you get from them, or that they assume you get) will call you names or put you down so they feel better about themselves. That's THEIR insecurity at work.
As you get older, more girls will have bigger boobs, and you'll be less of an outlier in breast size. They'll also start to act more maturely. That doesn't mean the next couple of years will be easy, but it will definitely get better.
There will always be girls who will be jealous or insecure because they will perceive that you are more attractive than they are because of your boobs, and they'll try to "take you down a notch" to satisfy their insecurities, but you don't have to let them. If you never let them see you bothered by their comments, and just laugh them off, most of it will stop (it's no fun to tease someone if they don't react).
If you still want a reduction at 19 or 20, then fine, look into it, but for now, manage as best you can and don't let anyone bother you - remember it's THEIR insecurity, and that there's nothing wrong with you.
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Good. I knew a chick who had a reduction and it looked horrible. Really bad scars. Poor girl even apologized for it. But in her case she said they were so big she was having back issues.
I urge you to keep them. Not because they look great, I'm sure they do lol, but because it's you. It's sad to see a woman change herself physically just because of a bunch of morons. Maybe those people telling you to cover up should stop staring at your tits, right? You should call them pervs, honestly.
Don't be too affected by what the women say. Women are resentful, scornful little brats. They see you as a threat so what do they do? They call you a whore. They're just afraid of you. Don't let them cause you to undergo such a drastic change.
I don't know what else to tell you... I'm not a chick... but maybe blousy type shirts would help? Maybe something like this:
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I'm a teenaged girl who also has big boobs and have been told the same thing for years. My family makes me wear baggy shirts and would probably make me wear a turtleneck everyday if they could. No matter what anyone says, having big boobs does not make you a slut! No one should even be called a slut. That's such a stupid word and I hate how we judge others for their sexuality. Anyways back to the point. Unless you truly want a reduction, FOR YOURSELF, then do it. But don't get a reduction to please all those immature imbeciles who call you a slut for having something you didn't choose to have. And I think that school dress codes are stupid. They just make us teenaged girls ashamed of our bodies.
First i want to say dress code is a load of crap! At my school, the skinny, more popular girls can get away with wearing almost anything while every other girl can't even show a bra strap. secondly dont listen to them! Having boobs (which is 100% natural!) does not make you a whore in anyway, and its stupid of them to think that. Dont get reduction for their misguided thoughts/words.
However, having bigger boobs can serve to be painful later on in your life for some. They can put a lot of stress and pressure on your back and heart... so if you ever consider reduction do it for your own health and happiness.
I know how you feel when I was 13 I was a DDD and I was getting bullied and as I grew older they called me a whore because guys was talking to me and everyone knows I'm a virgin and will still say things.. It's much worse now because I'm a 36JJ and they will say it's fake and things like that.. I don't think it's good or bad because if it's hereditary it's nothing you can do. Not only it's hereditary ( I got it from my dad grandmother hers were huge ) but also I have bad hormones and it will continue to grow. But if you don't have bad hormones it will stop growing
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Don't worry about it, wear what you want to wear and feel confident and comfortable doing so. I'm a DD and I use to wear these singlets that had lace and I wore them so high that you could not see any cleavage but it was uncomfortable now I just wear whatever, you can't help how big your boobs are so just embrace it, if you have a problem with it at school then tell whoever is telling you off to look around at the amount of people wearing similar clothing and they're picking on you because of something that is out of your control.
Well, that is pretty big I'm not going to lie. If you hate it that much it might be a good idea to get a breast reduction to a more reasonable size. As long as you feel great afterwards. Because you should be happy. If you're not happy you should change things that make you unhappy. So, getting a boob reduction is a good idea if it will make you feel better about yourself.
don't let people shame you because you have beaiful pair of tits! You will get this hate because you are sexy --> Girls jealous, Guys with low self esteem think they can't have you so they will hate on you! Happens to some people who are attractive. Don't let them bring you down!
Mine aren't quite as big as yours but I know how you feel, I used to really want a reduction but I don't think I'm going to do it, I completely understand about the "she's a whore coverup" stuff tho.
they are lactating bags of fat i do not know why guys even find boobs attractive. Don't change yourself at 15 because at 30 something you are going to wish you had your teenage body back
oh shush no one thinks you're a whore they think its hot
wear em proud an shushYou sound stunning! Don't let the petty opinions of small-minded people affect your style or your smile. 36 E are magnificent gifts from whatever higher power you believe in.
If you are happy with your body then keep it the way it is. What's most important is for you to like your body. You know that you are not a whore so ignore what others say about you. Don't change your body for others.
Girl, Seriously just love your curves! No matter how small or big. But if you have problems and think it would be better if you did something, Go ahead! :)
Don't change, they're very attractive and especially if you like them. Don't waste the money. People always comment, if it's not your boobs it'll be something else
Mines are 32B and I'm 15 too.. wish they were bigger but what can I do? just have to wait don't mind them tbh boyfriend loves them
Don't get a reduction *unless they start giving you back pain later in life.* Please don't.
Be happy with your body
I call BS.
Big boobs=bad
You tell me.
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