Why do people that don't live a healthy life complain about being/looking fat, chubby or being deemed less attractive?

[Anonymous]

I mean, it's there own choice isn't it? There is this growing trend where it is frowned upon to expect men or women to look like models thus resulting in shaming of those who do have such expectations.

[ninja-in-black]

I have been in the same situation. I'm working out again after taking like a 3 month break, which I shouldn't have done, but everyday I would hear "you're too skinny" or "how can you eat that much/often without gaining weight" or "omg, you have muscles!". These were comments all made by girls I used to hang out with. They would never work out or complain about my routine and then be sad whenever we went shopping that I would find cute clothes and they couldn't find anything that looked good on them. Later they would be mad at me and make low key hater comments.
It's because when you go and workout, it takes determination and preseverance. It isn't easy if you never did exercise before or are coming back from a long break. Also, it is a lifestyle change, not something you do until results come and go back to old habits, that doesn't work. All in all, I think it may be their ego talking and the fact that it is so easy to not do anything and complain instead of going into action to better themselves.

[Asker]

Would you expect the same drive and dedication from your other half?

[ninja-in-black]

If I had one and they were serious about living a healthier lifestyle, I would. That doesn't mean that both of us wouldn't have days where we fall off because it happens. What matters more is getting back on track again.

[bubble_tea]

How do you know the ones complaining are the ones with the unhealthy life style?

[Asker]

I can't imagine that all the chubby/fat people are suffering from some kind of disease that keeps them from losing weight, which means they must be leading a unhealthy lifestyle, wouldn't you agree?

[bubble_tea]

Who said they're all complaining, dude?

[Dtegesd123]

it's like asking a lazy person to get a job. They like the benefits of being lazy. relaxing, no obligations, etc. But they want money too. you can't have the best of both worlds for most.

lol that's cause most models are size 0 and its because they got small frames. It unrealistic for a normal b6oned woman to be a size 0, maybe size 4-6

[Asker]

But it could serve as horizon to strive for, whilst knowing that you will never attain it

[Dtegesd123]

I like to strive for achievable goals :)

[Dtegesd123]

you gotta understand, most fitness models, eat, breathe, sleep fitness. they don't really have another job.

[Azara]

that doesn't give you a small frame. small frame is the with of your skeletal system not how much fat you have. the frame is what the fat hags on. some people could be skin and bones and still not be size zero bc their bones are large. im not talking about chubby people who say they are chubby bc they have lake bones. i mean actual large bones,

maybe by frame you meant 'thin' but thats being thin not having a small framer. frame is the hanger fat muscle is the clothing on the hanger:)