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Girls, how can I tell my girlfriend she should get in shape? (Page 2)
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It's odd to fall vastly out of shape that fast. Especially for a teen athlete. Is something else going on with her?
She was eating really healthy for a while, but stopped and binged her favorite junk foods. Without a sport to do she is basically just laying around and eating all day.
A lot of times, people do that because they're stressed or unhappy. Getting outside and being active could help with that, too. Try seeing if anything has been on her mind dragging her down lately, too. Going for long walks while chatting is good for this.
Thanks, I'll try it :)
If it bothers you that much - you probably only like her for her looks and should no be dating her at all if that is the case.
Or I am looking out for her health. If it wasn't effecting her so negatively I wouldn't care about it. We can't do what we love because she has no energy and is so out of shape. She helped me to get healthy, and I want to do the same for her
You are being so ridiculously defensive. I think it's clear that he's not all about her looks otherwise he would have just left her instead of taking the time to ask this. He sounds rather irritated that they can't go on the adventures they used to and for some people: excessive fat is unattractive. People shouldn't just let themselves go, fail to be healthy then say "Well you should like me for more than my looks"
@Esplorare thank you
Be straightforward with her and tell her the truth
No. That's a dick move. She deserves better. If he can't hand curves then he can find someone else.
Sooooo you love herrr because she in shaped? And you can't handle her for what she is right now? Wow
No, I love her and it saddens me to see her become unhealthy. We can't do things we used because she is out of shape. She has no energy anymore and it saddens me. Of coarse I love her, that will never change, but I don't want to see her become obese or unhealthy.
You shouldn't put words in someone's mouth
Aww sad. You should exercise with her
I have tried, but she doesn't want to. I would be happy to have a work out partner, but she isn't interested :(
how long has she not been exercising?
She hasn't excercised all summer
then try exercising together with her.
tell her to do exercise.
She deserves better than you.. enough said
For wanting to keep her healthy? For watching out for her health? I love her! I love her so much that seeing her health decline legitimately makes me sad! She has no energy anymore and she is becoming unhealthy. Should I just let her destroy herself and fall into unhealthy habits? She helped me get in shape and I'll be damned if I don't help her.
There's a difference between wanting her healthy and wanting her to loose weight and have the perfect body she used to.
Not really. When she had that other body she was healthy and happy. Losing weight, and getting that body back, would make her healthy again. Even if she doesn't become super athletic, or super sexy, wouldn't matter as long as she was healthier. She could even gain weight through muscle mass, which would be better than her just letting her health go.
Regardless accept her for her.. no need for this not good enough bullshit.. appreciate what you have
Cause one day it might not be there
I never said she wasn't good enough, NEVER. All I'm trying to say is I care for her health and want to get in shape with her. People like you are twisting it to make me sound like I think she's ugly or something!
The fact that you post about it speaks for itself.. but it's whatever you do you dude
Over-sensitive and dramatic.
If she's letting herself go, being unhealthy, and not even able to participate in certain activities then he shouldn't have to pretend it's not an issue just to be politically correct.