do you want this to work? do you think he can not be jealous? he has jealousy issues like crazy which means he doesn't trust you whether he says he trusts you or not...you need to sit down and talk with him and figure out why he doenst talk to you, tell him you want to go out more and you miss when you guys used to hang out and do things other than sit and watch movies...but that's only if you want it to work
otherwise if you want to end it you've got to be CLEAR about it, he's confused ur confused, you've got to be like look I've been thinking and it think tis best we stayed apart, I've got all these things on my mind and you're supposed to help me relieve my stress not give me stress...make it clear that you aren't interested, you don't have to tell him why but I probably would then start no contact...\
but if you want it to work and you are in love with him, youve got the figure out the underlying problem and stop "band-aiding" everything and then it leading up to a bigger argumen tor fight...identify the prolbem and fix it, or just end it but make it clear its done...take some time apart (month or so) see if you still miss him, I don't know but either way somethings got to be done, GL let me know if you need any other advice
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Hello ,
I think the origin of the problem is his energy level. This can be due to many things. Fatty diet, fast food , not working out , lack of sleep , sleep apnea etc.. etc.. . He needs to get his act together health wise . May be you can guide him on this road. He needs to start swimming and working out regularly and also loose all the fats , sauces etc.. Let him get a College student cook book that has easy healthy recipes .
When he has been working out for lets say a 2 weeks or so , he will feel better on all fronts. Sometimes relations are affected by hidden stress or worries . Have a straight but compassionate and supportive talk with him . If you really love him and want it to work , I suggest you give him a couple of month leeway . Try to go out with your ''girlfriends '' instead in this grace period .
If he has no will to better himself and try to understand you . Then I guess you should move on .
All the best for you ,
Meedo
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