"Your thighs can't touch!" is this thing that bad like people make it?

[Triss]

a group of chicks ended up saying that my thighs can't touch in a bullying way and i couldnt even say a word bcs i knew it was true but is that bad?

It's bad

It's not bad

It's good (i dint think so)

[Saoirse_Nua]

As far as I know the "Thigh Gap" is bone structure and probably genetic - To me it is inconsequential as in say breast size, do a girls breasts have to be a certain size to attain a beauty standard. You could meet a million pairs of women but you will have no way of knowing in advance who is the prettier if the only information you are given is their bra size. The saying goes "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", one person might prefer slim legs with a gap , others might like a toned fit pair of thighs that fit snugly together.

[Cosytoasty]

To most people
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Is nicer than
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[Ephemera1]

This what I see when I think of thigh gap vs no thigh gap
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[Ephemera1]

Lmk which one you prefer

[Cosytoasty]

@Ephemera1 Both your examples are perfectly acceptable to me, it would come down to her other features.

[Triss]

Thanks thats a self esteem boost haha❤💋

[WhaChaChaKing]

Both you showed a gross. One has stick legs and the other is just in terrible shape. A lot of fit girls have thighs that touch.

[Cosytoasty]

@WhaChaChaKing Stick legs, seriously? To most of the world that's a perfectly healthy slim girl.

[WhaChaChaKing]

Looks like she has no muscle! I like fit people.

[Cosytoasty]

@WhaChaChaKing So do i, but when it comes to women's fitness i prefer they look like this
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Compared to this
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by the way, i'm not disagreeing with your point - I know plenty of attractive fit women don't have a thigh gap. I'm just saying HAVING a thigh gap is not a negative (your own actual comment seems to say its fine to be bullied for having one though, not sure if i'm reading it right).

[WhaChaChaKing]

The girl in the very first pic does not look athletic at all though. And I do think the second one is too much but I also think that one is too skinny above her. I prefer this:
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Oh honestly I didn't understand what she was saying. I have no problem with girls that have thigh gaps.

[Triss]

@WhaChaChaKing i am fit and i have a thigh gap
They fat lazy asses and bullied me. I didn't know anyone hated my body until yesterday

[Triss]

And that last pic you posted shows a man not a female

[Felinegirl]

It's not bad. Some would say it's good - everyone who wants to look like a fashion model wants that. But it's not very healthy as it usually correlates with being underweight.
Most high school girls I knew were jealous of the girls with tigh gaps. These bullies probably were just jealous too.
You're fine the way you are, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

omfg!! This is the second time I laughed out loud today!! xD first Ephemera1 and now this! HAhahaaa you better shut the hell up and pass that pint of Ben and Jerrys with their skeleton ass! (I am literally chuckling like crazy my ma thinks imma weirdo now! XD)

[Hopefuldreamer8]

It's not true. It's not about weight but about your body structure. I'm quite thin but I would have to lose a lot of weight just to make sure i had a thigh gap, and I can't afford to lose anymore weight. Those girls don't know what they are talking about.

[archiz]

lmfao
girls are jelly you have a rockin' body
they re just being nasty
you should ask them what difference would that make in their lives? XD
to point it out
unless they re interested in getting between your thighs for real haha

[Triss]

Thanks lovely ❤💋

[Yumix]

for some it goods, for some its bad. the same way for some blonde hair is good or bad. or a big ass can be good or bad. it's all about personal preference. I personally like tights gaps (even though they are not necessarily at all to look good), someone else might think differently. Either way, it shouldn't matter much and doesn't make you look good or bad. If someone bullies you for it all it does is showing how immature assholes they are. Nothing else. In 3-4 when they are more mature no one will give a fuck about it anymore

[Yumix]

in 3-4 years*

[Omar5881]

A group of chicks are hatin , self confidence means you don't give a fuck about ppls opinion, OP you rock

[Triss]

Thanks ❤

[AleDeEurope]

It's difficult to have thick thighs and have your thighs not touch... and thick thighs always win.

[Sara413]

Fuck them.

Seriously. What a stupid thing to make fun of someone for! Just ignore girls like. They do it to make themselves feel better - it has nothing to do with you at all.

[Braindead11]

wtf is wrong with people? UGH, don't even take them seriously! They probably said it in a bully-like way to make themselves feel better... That's what people do, they make others feel bad in order to boost their self confidence... The only thing that matters is for YOU to love your body and take care of it! :)

[FakeName123]

These girls were just out to bully and apply a social hierachy. If it wasn't for your thighs they would have picked whatever possible attacking surface. Too small boobs, uneven nose or whatever perceived flaw.

[CyberToothTiger]

It's not bad i like thick thighs on girl

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[Wonderer89]

Of course it's not bad - everyone's body is different!

[lumos]

Those girls sound insecure and are trying to drag you down with them. Ignore them.

[fauchelevent]

It's generally not what I prefer but it's definitely not a bad thing. People are just arseholes :/

[Ephemera1]

Thigh gaps are yuck. Meaty thighs us where its at. #MeatyThighsAreKing

[hannahbanana11]

Like @PizzaGuy22 said, it doesn't matter. My thighs touch, lol. And I've seen girls whose thighs touch and girls whose don't.

[PizzaGuy22]

Yea exactly

[femail101]

Who cares? don't listen to them. Be happy with yours not touching. Nothing to be ashamed of. Why does it matter if they tpuch? Iv been around for a few years and have never even thought about anything like that when I see a girl

[Sjeggy]

No? More guys are into thighgaps! And to many it doesn't even matter! Fuck them for saying that

[Sjeggy]

Also sorry I accidentally pressed "it's bad"

[FýrdracaDócincel]

It's bad if you're on the john and you drop your phone but other than that no.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Ultimately no one cares except for them because they have low self esteem and think bullying is okay.

[spoons]

you know you're hot. who cares what some bullies have to say

[GoldCobra]

It's not bad. They are probably jealous! Make sure you beat them up

[WhaChaChaKing]

Thighs usually touch even if you're in good shape so I don't see the problem.

[hotstuffSRD]

Idgaf
You shouldn't either
Show your swag to them !