I'm on a weight loss program, should I ask her out now, or later?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl I like, and I noticed she isn't that really physically attracted to me. Most likely because I'm hugely overweight.

I was curious, should I make a move now, or later?

The reason I'm a bit hesitant is because I don't think I'm at my "peak" of my physical attraction where I can offer her as much as I can at that peak. So it's kinda like cheating her(IE: sleazy dresser tries to ask a girl out instead of fixing up his look first)

Yes, ask her out!

No, don't ask her out. wait till you look good!

[rockalong]

dude you should ask her out... she's supposed to c the man inside you... or else just as you said , she might go along with the date only because of your looks ... don't wait ask her out now... after that tell her you had wanted to postpone the date because of the weight loss program...may be then you two will truly fall for each other... Good luck buddy...Remember this , you could ask her out again even if get rejected once...

[smokeadmiral]

never ever sit by and watch life go by...soon you'll find that you are preparing to do..."{you fill it in}" and you'll never end up actually doing. Then you'll wonder back and wonder if only or what would have been...jump on board life and ask her out. Go for it. Good luck.