What to women think of guys who wear diapers for medical reasons?

[Isaac01]

Hey everyone, I have a question. I am 22 years old and I have had bladder issues since I was little. From a young age, I have had to deal with bed wetting, but in the last several years, I also have had to start wearing diapers during the day because of incontinence. My question is this, do women think it is weird for a guy to wear diapers? For me, looking down and seeing a wet diaper bulge and the plastic sticking above my waistline, it is embarrassing to have to wear diapers at my age. Sometimes I feel like women would not like me because of my incontinence issues and because I wear adult diapers. Would any women find me attractive because I have to wear incontinence products?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, don't sweat it. Any girl worth your time isn't gonna care about something that's out of your control. Medical issues happen and it's part of life.

The right woman will like you for who you are - your personality, sense of humor, how you treat people. Wearing diapers won't define you to someone cool. And if it bothers someone shallow, then screw 'em, ya know?

Just be confident. Own it. Don't be all weird and apologize for it constantly. You gotta keep your head high even if that's part of your daily routine. If you act embarrassed and like it's a huge deal, others will pick up on that.

When the time's right, you could mention it casually just so they know the real you. But let your awesome traits shine through first. I'm sure once people get to know the awesome dude underneath, it won't matter one bit that you wear diapers sometimes. Don't ever change who you are just to please others. You'll find someone who accepts all of you. Chin up man!

[Isaac01]

Thanks for the encouragement, I appreciate it!

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem man, that's what we're all here for - to lift each other up. Dating with any kind of medical issue can be intimidating, but don't forget you've got tons of cool qualities that have nothing to do with that.

Your sense of humor, passion for your hobbies, how well you take care of the people close to you - those are the things that'll really make a great girl fall for you. Don't be too shy to put yourself out there too - she's missing out if she can't see what an awesome dude you are past any superficial stuff!

Hold your head high, my friend. This is just one small part of who you are. You've got so much else going for you. I'm sure when the time is right, you'll find a girl just as awesome who sees you for you. In the meantime, maybe try some online dating sites too if meeting people organically is tough - that way you can be upfront from the start. But bro to bro, I believe in ya! You've got this.

[Tim2nice]

I’m gonna be honest with you, most women will probably avoid you as soon as they hear about your condition. The good news is the right girl won’t care. There are women who marry men who are wheelchair bound. So think about that. Your dating pool will be small, but you only need one person in your life and I’m certain you’ll find her.

[dustybiker2]

More people have to wear them than you realize. I almost had to have a surgery once and this was a genuine hold back for me. I went online and asked around. Was shocked how many people who have botched surgeries being forced to be humbled like this.
Be honest and open to answering any questions and I think you'll be just fine.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I wouldn't hold it against him for sure. It's not like he can help it, right? It's would be like not dating someone because he has arthritis or some other medical issue.

[DrPepper12]

Many women wear them as they get older due to child birth issues so I think they would have some sympathy. I have congenital one kidney and suffered with bedwetting forbabLONG time. Have you tried Gemtesa Rx?

[Iron_Man]

We’ll see what they have to say

[In_Trance]

They don't think about this