So fat = lonely ? or is there hope

[Anonymous]

okay yes, I'm fat okay I'm not even gonna beat around the bush and say I'm think or I'm chunky or whatever, I'm fat. but I'm not lazy I work out everyday I watch what I eat it just turns out that I have a condition called pcos that makes it difficult to loose weight, but anyway guys never seem to try and date me, I get compliments on my personality lol and guys have told me I was pretty before, so is the only reason I'm single because I'm fat? I'm just so over guys telling me how cool I am and how they like hanging with me but never liking me romantically, I've tried being the one who makes the first move and I've tried glamming myself up and the whole"be yourself" sh*t so what the hell do I need to do to have someone want me back. ( please don't tell me that one day the right guy will come, cause its not helpful at all)

[taken2notforu]

well its hard to say babe sence I'm a guy that likes women of your kind.im not into skinny women at all and if I was were you are I would ask you out no lie..theres nuthing rong with you babe. maybe there a frade you would turn them down if thay ask or maybe there afrade to f*** up a good thing with you sence thay are your good friends.im shure there somthing ..but from what I can see there's nuthing rong with what you have tryed couse I would have bean all over you if you would have did that to me...so don't be unhappy babe some one will come along ...do you chat on yahoo? maybe we could chat on there some time. I go by the name taken2notforu. I would like to keep in tuch with you on this matter if you would like...

[yengesi]

I've dated fat chicks. I've dated skinny chicks. Fat chicks are better in bed, hands down. I married a fat chick, too, 'cause she's beautiful and I love her fat ass. There's no doubt, most guys have bought into the barbie story, but there are guys out there who find you attractive and who will appreciate you for more than just your looks. How do you find them? I don't know, but I do know if you give up, you've lost the battle. Feeling unwanted sucks, there's not doubt about it, but hang in there. Life ain't hopeless, and neither is love.

[Asker]

Thanks

[ravingprincess01]

I know a lot of guys who goes on dates with big girls. As a girl, instead of thinking of yourself as fat, why not emphasizing your assets? Like if you have pretty eyes, play it up. When I go out, I notice fat people because of how tight their clothes are but not if you wear the right clothes. There are magazines or websites to help with that. I suggest look those over, go out with confidence because nothing is sexy as hell as being confident in your own skin.

So no, I honestly believe that fat does not equate to loneliness. Guys who only look at the physical appearance of women, are not even worth it. So smile, go out and stay positive.

[madmisskelly]

Look at it this way, there is no ideal body type that all men chase after. One man's definition of skinny, is anothers definition of fat, and is another's definition of perfect.

If a guy isn't going to date you just because of something superficial as your weight, you probably wouldn't want him as your boyfriend anyway. I mean, if a guy is going to be judgmental about that, imagine what an ass he would be about other unimportant things. YOU don't need people like that because YOU are better. You are more than your appearance, and the right person will see that.

[Asker]

Thanks

[ThaJazzyt1415]

yea ther's hope. first of all self confidence is key, and God made you the way you are your weight breakthrough wil happen soon, there this thing it a diet but it a good one it called the sonoma diet. my mom tried it and she lost 7 pounds in the first week. but other then that, get out there go to little clubs ...such as chess and etc. anything that you like you will find people that have things in common with you. then make yourself feel the way you want to. if that's all dressed up and cute go for it. if your having a bad day dress the opposite. Bright colors and so on. God loves you! And you have a purpose in life go for it!

[Anonymous]

Aw, you're cute. If there's one thing you can never lose in your life- It's hope. Never ever lose that. Be optimistic and something wonderful will come your way.

[Benson01]

Nah no hope I know I wouldn't date a fat chick.

[Asker]

At least you were honest

[Benson01]

You might have a chance though I seen ugly fat girls with some dudes I guess its cause they buy them everything some guys are after sugar mama type you might be the one.

[Asker]

? wow