Why don't girls seem to notice me?

[Anonymous]

I know the most likely reason is that I lack in the looks department (body, height, and maybe even face), but if I were ugly then I'm pretty sure girls would stare at me in disbelief instead of just ignoring me. So maybe I'm just average looking or something?

[TC123]

Well, the thing about looks is that you're either really handsome (they will chase you all over the place) average looking (some girls will like you, others not) ugly (nobody likes you) or hideous (you belong in the circus).

I'm ugly, and when I got tired of being ugly I started working out, paying attention to my hygiene and dressing up whenever I went places to meet girls. I learned how to tie a tie, bought some nice dress shirts and a few pairs of slacks, etc, and it did help. Another thing you can do on the clothing front is wear outrageous stuff. Not super outrageous but instead of a white dress shirt try a blue one or a red one, that sort of thing.

[Asker]

I agree with all except about the handsome guy getting chased by girls. Most girls (not all) rarely ever persue a guy. Even handsome guys have to do SOME work...

[TC123]

Not really, a friend of mine is super handsome (f***ing bastard got the good genes hahaha) and girls have followed his car from the parking lot to his work to talk to him. It's just the way it is in our society - girl, guy, doesn't matter - if you're good looking you get better treatment. It's just life.

[Asker]

That's ridiculous! Believe me, he must be extremely good-looking, because guys don't normally get girl stalkers.

[TC123]

Yeap, 100% true - that happened all the time too. Unfortunately for him God forgot to give him a brain to go with those good looks so now he's twice divorced with 3 kids and a lot of angry ex's. Last time I talked to him he said "my wife is mad, my Girlfriend is pregnant, and I spent 42k on a truck that I can't afford - what should I do?"

[TOXiCLOV3]

Guys don't get girl stalkers? that's a lie hahaha My current boyfriend loves it that I have always told him I am his stalker lol! and about most girls rarely persuing a guy! that don't fit me! I havnt ever persued a guy until I met this guy Chad and he asked if I wanted to go home and I just started kissing him! out of no where lol girls persue guys! you just have to make it easy for them! and that is fkn hilarious about wife mad Girlfriend preggers and 42k lmao!!! hahaha

[TC123]

Well, at the time it wasn't really hilarious but now it is. He had a really good thing going with this one girl too (and his kids are all great kids) but he couldn't keep it in his pants. I kind of felt sorry for her but then she didn't have to choose him and bend over backward, deal with his BS whatever. Sort of the bad boy thing where they think they will be the one to finally make him change - HA HA, not happening.