I feel like when I act like how guys act I never get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

If I'm watching a sports game and try to strart a conversation with a girl it never turns into anything. If I'm drinking a beer and try to take it to the next level with a girl it doesn't work. If I talk about my being on a football team nothing happens. My mom used to tell me when I was a kid that a women is very deep and that men could not match the deepness of a women. And I admit it is extreamly hard. Do women want men to match there deepness? Are women on such a deep level that men come off as to flat or boring? There hast to be some giant difference between men and women because I've been trying my whole life and never had a girlfriend. How can guys better match the deepness of women?

[Aditya]

The deal is to act natural.another things girls don dig is "fibbers"

You should pay more attention to your environment, when you go for gals. For one thing they know we like foorball/sports/gettin drunk; so its not kinda hard to guess that when you start a conversation you get brushed off; cause when talking to them.they feel the concentration should be on them, rather than on the game/beer.

The difference is not huge, they pass the signals all the time.all you have to do is watch them and catch them. They are mysterious in some respect.but towards the end of day.they are lookin for companionship too

[berubek03]

If you've been trying your whole life and nothing works. stop trying! I mean just be exactly who you are. If the conversation doesn't turn into anything or rarely anything you say interests her, then chances are, she's not the right type of girl for you.

One can not generalize that all guys can not match the "deepness" of women. The only reason why women appear "deeper" is because they listen, they pay attention to detail, and they care just a wee bit more than guys. That's all. And you know what the most funniest thing about life is? When you desperately want something it rarely comes, but when you less expect it, it just surprises you out of no where.

[Thorzilla]

There is no deepness on them come on, they are human beings. You just gotta focus MUCH more in them and MUCH less in you in a conversation. Ask her about HER, and try to keep the conversation about you in a minimum.