+1 yI’m older and I understand mental illness. It’s our culture that looks at mental illness poorly. We have a taboo about it because like all our human imperfections it’s seen as something that would be passed on to our offspring. Thus it’s programmed into our genes to as a flaw that wouldn’t help the species survive.
In addition we as humans try to down play our own flaws. So to pretend it doesn’t we don’t have flaws is one way of subverting our misgivings and preventing others from judging us.00 Reply
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause their generation were not taught about mental illness, except that it was something to be ashamed of and that you should hide it. If someone had a mental illness, there was something wrong with them and they shouldn't be around other people. They were also taught that if someone was behaving differently than normal, they just wanted attention or were unruly and should be either punished or ignored.
What you learn early in life often tends to be the view you hold for the rest of your life.00 Reply
+1 ySome do some don’t.
Also there is a difference between mental health and mental illness.
usually people really mean mental health issues and not that they have been diagnosed for a major mental illness.
A lot comes down to what people have experienced, it’s not that mental health is anything new, it’s just the impact of mental health issues are recognised more.42 Reply
Asker+1 yThank you for explaining the difference.
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No problem.
www.mcleanhospital.org/.../yes-there-big-difference-between-mental-health-and-mental-illness
hampshirecamhs.nhs.uk/.../
wearewellbeing.co.uk/.../
It’s important people recognise the difference.
+1 yBecause most mental illnesses aren't actually mental illnesses. People are just abused a lot and don't know how to heal or cope with life now because of the abuse and trauma they experienced. Most people who have been diagnosed with the common mental illnesses such as bpd, depression, anxiety, etc. Don't actually have those. They just had a lot of trauma and learned poor coping skills and mindsets.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIt's because what is considered mental illness has changed. 40 years ago a 6yr old boy that wanted his dick to be chopped off and identify as a girl was seen as suffering some type of mental illness. In today's society he's glorified and seen as a hero. 40 years ago a 6yr old boy that played with toy guns and got overly aggressive with friends on a play ground was seen as a normal boy. In today's society he's seen as suffering from "male toxicity" and has a mental illness.
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Asker+1 yIt wasn't that type of mental illness I was talking about but I agree with you.
+1 yBecause when i was depressed i was told "keep busy to keep happy" or "you have to make yourself happy dont rely on other people or things" or "decide to be happy". These things worked for me over time. Today there is a sad 12 year old and all they do is give them drugs and allow them to use it as an excuse to play video games all day. Smh. Then the depression gets worse instead of better.
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+1 yWhat older generations think of Mental illness and what my generation thinks of mental illness if vastly different. Also the social norms and circumstances have changed. Giving rise with Social Media more teens depressed, Anxious, insomnia, etc. So not that they don’t understand as time have changed and so has the rates and what is considered a mental illness.
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+1 yBecause it was something that was viewed as detrimental and difficult to understand, so as a result were told to bury it and not acknowledge it because it was very stigmatized back when it was getting recognition. That's why lobotomies were a thing back in the day as a form of treatment.
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+1 yFrom my experience, it is largely due to the fact that little research in the field was done, and so it led to things like depression, adhd, and anxiety, etc, being chalked up to how you are or that is was a choice. And back in the day, physical labor was all that really mattered, if you weren't fit to be corporate, you were in labor, and you didn't have to be mentally healthy or sound for that so long as you could do the physical work, thus mental illness was often ignored
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+1 yI wasn't allowed to have mental illnesses. Our parents had mental illnesses and would hit us for anything we did.
Accidentally spilled my juice at the dinner table and my mom slapped me across the face.
If I was annoying my older brother he would pull my pants down in front of everyone and spank my bare ass. My dad grabbed me by the collar and threatened to hit me because I moved his stuff.
Most of my family had issues so I just learned to be strong mentally.07 Reply
Asker+1 yI'm so sorry you had to go through all that, I hope you feel better now and that you get the love you deserve.
Again I'm so sorry that's terrible :(- +1 y
Thanks. It was just how it used to be.
I raised my own son differently and I never hit him ever. I always talked to him about things and I try to give him respect.
Asker+1 yThat's good! I'm sorry though that you had to go through all that. I hope your son knows what a great man you are!
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I know he loves me, he lives with my ex wife most of the time now because it's closer to his highschool.
I miss him a lot. Getting cheated on and going through a divorce when you have kids can really cause mental health problems. I hope you never have to do that.
Asker+1 yI'm sorry life is so horrible towards you. You don't deserve this at all.
Everything will be ok in the end, God has a plan for your life and you were created for a reason. You have a purpose!
Feel better soon:)- +1 y
I think my main purpose was to raise my son. Now life goes on and hopefully I'll start a new relationship soon and find happiness.
I hope you're doing good as well. Thanks.
Asker+1 yThank you, good luck!
930 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. i think we understand it only too well actually. i might ask you why you think none of us have ever been through stuff?
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Asker+1 ytoo many reasons
+1 yBecause they know mental illness can’t be treated locking someone inside psychiatric hospital and sticking a needle in their arm to “calm them down” aka go to sleep isn’t treating them this is something I fucking hate about my country we have the worst healthcare and justice systems in the fucking world not because we’re not able to have one of best we choose to be one of if not the worst
10 ReplyBecause most "mental illnesses," like depression, are obtained by allowing oneself to be that way. True mental illness is when there is a testable chemical imbalance in the brain, disease within the brain, or birth defect present. Otherwise you chose to be, let's say, depressed.
Older generations had more mental discipline than folks today, IMHO.11 Reply- +1 y
What a load of bollox.
A lot of it is how socially acceptable it was to have mental health issues, older generations discounted it as people wanting attention. Whereas those same reasons for depression etc have been there for years.
It’s just older generations could not deal with it, played ostrich and pretended it did not exist, they did not really look in to what counselling could do, they were not aware enough about this stuff, they would just shove people on medication.
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+1 ywell cause people thes days are mostly self diagnosed and not actually mentally ill. back then "mental illness" meant you were suffering from shell shock or ptsd after a war that crippled you mentally and left you unable to live a normal life. not just "a bit sad sometimes".
compared to back then, "mental illness" seems to be a joke. it makes our generation look weak as fuck.00 Reply
+1 yBecause it was demonized to them. It's now more widely understood and seeking help is encouraged, but there's unfortunately still a stigma to it in many generations and environments
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+1 yOlder generation justified:
-incest relationships
-rape
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+1 yThey do. Look up PTSD in regards to Vietnam vetrans.
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+1 yBecause the older generation didn't have the same amount of luxury to wallow in their self-pity.
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u +1 yWhy do you think "the older generation' doesn't understand mental illness?
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Asker+1 yEndless reasons
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So you can give some reasons. . . or you can't?
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Endless? You never even began!
+1 yWhat makes you think they don't? Unfortunately, many kids your age exaggerate mental illnesses for attention and have made up new mental illnesses, so it is hard to find out the truth.
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Asker+1 yI have body dysmorphic disorder, all symptoms and it has ruined my life to a point where I don't go outside.
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Then you need to get some help for that. If I were your parent you'd have gotten help and gotten outside already.
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And what does “body dysmoprhic disorder” even mean to you?
374 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Because they are the cause of most of it. They don't want to understand something if its their fault.
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+1 yIt's hard to take young people seriously when universities have to supply kittens and coloring books to help the students cope with disappointments.
00 Reply They do but i i guess they're too mentally strong to relate.
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+1 yCuz many of 'illnesses' is the result of one's delusion. Mental state is evaluated by psychiatrists.
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Asker+1 yThank you
+1 yBecause most boomers were themselves mentally damaged by the fallout from radioactive testing during the cold war...
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Because they were taught to bury it and keep going.
10 Reply349 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc
Because it reflects negatively on the genetics of the family.00 ReplyBecause 50 % of it is done for attention and they've been through worse considering the length of time lived
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Mental illness hasn't increased or decreased; but the self-diagnosis and reporting and whining about it has gone up significantly. The older generation had the same problems, and their friends, family, everyone also did. But they just dealt with it instead of wallowing in it and feeling sorry for themselves.
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More people I know have a mental illness than don't, at least to some degree or other, inclusive of all generations, back to my grandparents and their friends.
+1 yBecause Boomers are almost all mentally ill. They will die off before they look in the mirror even once.
00 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Mental health had a big stigma attached to it. Nobody ever talked about it. There really were no real treatments for it either.
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+1 yI was just about to agree with you and start ranting about the older generation but then I realized I am the older generation now.
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Asker+1 yWell kind of. I mean you're 1 year older than my mom and she doesn't understand my mental illnesses.
But that's ok, and just because you are apart of the "older generation" doesn't mean you don't understand mental illnesses. There was and still is people your age with mental problems, it's just not that common.
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🤦♂️ I’m older than your mom? Day. Ruined.
No, but it is difficult to understand mental illness in general and I know a lot of people my age who do have mental illness and it was only diagnosed within the past couple of years even though they’ve had it for 15-20 years already.
Asker+1 yI'm so sorry I didn't mean to ruin your day, I hope you find something that cheer you up soon!
Aha ok, well I don't care you can still agree:)- +1 y
It’s ok. I’m kidding about my day being ruined. 😂
Asker+1 yOHH ok, sorry!
A lot of people in general really don't
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Asker+1 yI agree but specifically the older generations.
377 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. because in their day there was no such thing... At least not thought of as it is today...
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWhy do younger generations have more mental illness or not?
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Asker+1 yThere's an endless list of why.
+1 yThey still see it as a taboo Lord knows why.
10 Reply906 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Cause its probably not a mental illness
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Asker+1 yOk so thinking I'm too ugly to be seen, have friends, for my family to see me, to be loved, to be alive is perfectly normal?
Never existed back in their day? Lol
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+1 yWasn't talked about
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