What is so bad about me that men generally end up fucking me over or leave?

[anonbrunette99]

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[ohshee]

To be honest I dont know you so I can't really say. For sure.. I can tell you what j think and I have to say just because I think it doesn't mean I'm right..
Something I learned about people along time ago. You have natural beauty and that is Beauty from the inside that is where true beauty comes from real beauty comes from and a person that is a beautiful person understands this we all care what we look on it like on the outside but a woman with natural beauty is focused on who she is on the inside first and it's just natural it's beautiful

And then there are girls that somehow forget about that all of a sudden guys are giving them attention because of what they look like on the outside so when guys start doing that it's for all the wrong reasons and the girl starts using that because she's never had that attention before it is fake it's not real it's not even Beauty and with all your pictures that's what I kind of see is look at me look at the outside of me well that's all fine and good but it means nothing if the person on the inside isn't that same person they both have to match up you have to be the person on the inside before you can be the person on the outside because the person on the inside is the real person that's the only person you can be the outside person is what we get from our parents are jeans whatever it's a mask that we wear and if the person wearing that mask is it in time with the person wearing the mask you're off balance and things are just not going to go right I hope you understand what I'm trying to say that's my opinion anyway

[TonyV]

Well you seem to be an insecure 4 out of 10 that happens to have great tits that look like a lot of fun. You really want attention from guys so you dress skimpy, your big boobs almost falling out, guys can tell you would be easy to win over for a quick lay.

Basiclly you look desperate and willing to fuck anyone who talks to you, so desperate and easy.

No offense I'm just telling you what I see that could be causing your bad relationships

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I think women who are attractive like you are (I'm speaking from a general sense not as a lesbian or anything) tend to have jerks asking them out. Why? Perhaps they are the ones confident enough or cocky enough even to ask you out. If that's how you meet men anyway. It could also just bewhere you meet men.

[SnakeBoop]

meh, could be a many great reason.
1) this is you fishing for compliments and attention, hence the focus on your tits.
2) this is actually a how do i look question, which isn't difficult to select.
3) maybe dudes don't want a girl so obsessed on point 1.

[MCheetah]

I remember you. Your standards are too high and your criteria is a bit shallow, so you only ever end up dating Chads (the men perfect enough for you to accept as "worthy") but because they're Chads, they have many options and aren't looking to settle down, so they leave you or any other woman once they've had sex.

You want to meet relationship material? Stop going after Chads.

[Mark987]

nice stop acting like a badass lol...

[Anonymous]

Most women are attracted to toxic men... you've simply been picking the same ones. You are addicted to the drama, the ups, the downs, the uncertainty. A nice, pleasant, respectable, predictable man does not get you going. Few women dare to admit this, but most men know it's true. Put you in a room with hot toxic men on one side, and average nice guys on the other... even the attractive decent guys would not interest you.

[anonbrunette99]

I honestly date average guys more because the ones that are “hot” according to society statistically are more likely to be cheaters or big headed. I’ve tried maybe two and one was very narcissistic, and the other had very bad depression and could never decide what he wanted from me. The rest where average guys which first where amazing then their personalities would shift, and eventually f me over. Maybe I just picked the wrong ones or I did something to make them act that way without realising it

[Anonymous]

It could be that a lot of guys in their early 20's take way too long to "grow up." I was a real retard in those days. And a lot of guys that age are looking for an easy hookup, just for the sake of it.

On the other hand (and I don't mean to judge), but it also could be your judgement of character. I hope you don't just let in ANY guy into your life.

[spartan55]

Oh my... from what I've observed here you have horrible taste in men. Like every. single. one that you mention on here is a Hall of Fame dickhead. That and you can't/won't set boundaries with those cavemen so you get screwed over.

[MCheetah]

Fully agree with you. She also doesn't date men under six feet tall because she's about 5'10".

[spartan55]

That's probably way down the list of reasons, but one for sure. 5'10 with those cannons...😳

[megabamse]

Basically it's the way you dress and do your makeup. This Kardashian look is not doing you any favors. Men will never take you serious because of that.

[anonbrunette99]

i love the kardashians but i didn’t necessarily mean to give off that vibe or aura with my look and style i mean the kardashians never seemed to have great luck with men so i wouldn’t expect that to work… maybe I’ll try tone it down and see it the outcome changes, if not then I guess I don’t have to change it

[megabamse]

No one with that style has good luck with men. No men takes people with this style seriously.

[anonbrunette99]

I’ve seen girls like that or even more revealing in relationships though it’s not totally unheard of for them to have boyfriends

[megabamse]

Not unheard of no. But more often or not the boyfriend is a complete dick, and the relationship is weak

[MCheetah]

@megabamse
I agree with you. Her makeup is too much.

[anonbrunette99]

Well makeup is one of my biggest hobbies lifelong! and I have actually toned it down a lot baring in mind all of these photos where taken before a party or event… on a daily basis I do not show cleavage

[megabamse]

Still

[FunkyMonkee]

I've been asking the same question for decades but it's not JUST women and it's not JUST in loving relationships! I must have a fucking sign on my back, "Kick or stab here".
By the way, cute face!! Nice hair!!

[anonbrunette99]

Nope for me the sign must be on my forehead haha! Sorry to hear that, maybe a lot of people just suck.. and thank you

[Mark987]

It is most probably your choice of men. I hear this a lot from the women I know and I've seen their selection of men and it's deplorable.. maybe try and switching it up and try dating someone you normally wouldn't

[anonbrunette99]

I meet a lot of them online maybe I should try seem more open when I’m out and talk to someone out there instead but yeah maybe I’ll try that I mean I have nothing to lose by that

[Mark987]

See don't meet them online.. ( too many weirdos lol). A lot of attractive women love the bad boy or the guy with muscles or money ( not saying that is you). Maybe date a guy more reserved.. and maybe somewhere you never looked before

[Wester1967]

Women pick horrible men. It never fails. It's not you specifically. But the last thing most women want to do is settle down with a nice guy who doesn't treat them problematically.

[anonbrunette99]

I honestly never was overly picky if a guy shown interest in me and he seemed not creepy decent kind and clean I would start of as friends and see if there was potential for us to be compatible. Maybe I ignore red flags

[Cowboy6666]

I think you should not sleep with guys and don't let have sex with you quickly
Try to make them friends first, know them well before sleeping with them.

by the way You look stunning and sexy ;)

[anonbrunette99]

If I say I don’t want to sleep with someone I don’t have a connection with I want someone I can build something with eventually they ghost me

[Cowboy6666]

Its better for you if they ghost you, it means they wanted sex and nothing else.
Keep trying until you find right guy for you honey ;)

[TheMajesticKing777]

I feel like you are just jumping head first into all these relationships

[anonbrunette99]

everyone says that but I don’t mean to it’s not intentional I try to make it seem like I don’t care but in the inside i totally jumped head first and put all my eggs in one basket

[TheMajesticKing777]

Yep, you are putting too much trust on these men, you should spend more time reading them out first before jumping into a relationship

[CJT13]

Definitely nothing physically. Probably going after the wrong guys. A lot of us do this at one point or another.

[garykingg]

I want you to look at your photos really closely, and then think about that question for a while.

[garykingg]

If you don't get what I'm trying to say: You look cheap, not worth the commitment.

[anonbrunette99]

How do I look cheap? On a daily basis i don’t dress like that I wear boots jeans knitted tops or v neck tops skirts long coat / blazer type thing

[garykingg]

It's the vibe that you give off from what I can see. A tip would be not give signals that you want sex on the first date.

[anonbrunette99]

I honestly barely even kiss on the first date lol if that’s what they think when they’re meeting me boy I must have them disappointed

[anonbrunette99]

I get what you mean but I don’t think the first or last pic gives those vibes maybe the rest do though I would see your point on that if a guy had a certain motive

[Jamie05rhs]

You're putting all of the focus on your looks. It isn't about your looks, honey.

The problem is your selection process.

[Iron_Man]

You’re dating the wrong people and dressing the wrong way

[anonbrunette99]

Like too revealing or what

[Iron_Man]

Yes and when you dress like that you draw in party guys

[Anonymous]

Nothing physically. So it is either, personality, poor choices, or bad luck.

[anonbrunette99]

Try all three I meet the worst types of guys you can imagine and the worst part is at first they genuinely seem like really good choices

[Anonymous]

Pretty simple. It's the guys YOU choose. Until you decide to change that you'll keep having this problem.

[jjj101010]

Well it’s definitely not your looks, u look gorgeous

[Anonymous]

Nothing is wrong with you sweetheart. You just have to be smarter when it comes to choosing a man.

[Anonymous]

If I was dating you I would treat you with respect.

[Shamalien]

Don’t know how to pick a mano

[anonbrunette99]

Is there a crash course on how to lol

[Shamalien]

watch stefan molyneux’s videos where he does call in shows with women who have the same issue

[Shamalien]

He’s on subscribestar

[Anonymous]

Men don't know what they want.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

The problem is they no what they want but women aren't ok with it

[TallAnon]

I think it's your choice of men!

[Waldoe]

you look lovely