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Most stage 4 cancer is deadly and can’t be cured. Some girl posted on here that her mother has stage four cancer and she believes her mom can fight this. I’m glad she had that positive mindset BUT she won’t accept that her mother is dying and can’t accept that it isn’t curable. I’m no sorry for what happened but I feel bad for her but she should have her mother suffering. She can’t get upset at this stuff because shit happens for a reason and she had to accept death is part of life. How can I get her to accept that stage four is terminal? She never mentioned about that. I’ve never heard of someone surviving stage four cancer. Sorry to sound harsh but it’s incurable.
Brutally honest question: Stage four cancer terminal (death stage)?
Anonymous
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You wrote:
"How can I get her to accept that stage four is terminal?"
That's not your fucking business. I am deadly serious that you not fuck with someone's grieving process.
This is an example of "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it."
You wrote "Sorry to sound harsh but it’s incurable."
Stage 4 cancer isn't "incurable".
Stage 4 cancer is not good however there are people who have come back from it.
From Medical News Today:
www.medicalnewstoday.com/.../is-stage-4-cancer-curable
"Stage 4 is the most severe stage of cancer, but it is not always terminal. Doctors use a wide range of factors to classify cancer’s stage, including the size and locations of tumors and the person’s overall health."
"Stage 4 cancer is not always terminal. It is usually advanced and requires more aggressive treatment.
Terminal cancer refers to cancer that is not curable and eventually results in death. Some may refer to it as end stage cancer. If a doctor determines that cancer is terminal, this usuallyTrusted Source means that the cancer is so advanced that treatment options focus on controlling rather than curing the cancer. More severe cancers are more likely to be terminal."
End-stage cancer is incurable and terminal - that's what end-stage means.
From cancer. gov:
www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/advanced-cancer
/* "Advanced cancer" is generally Stage 4 */
Advanced cancer is a broadly used term that can mean different things. Often health care providers use it for cancer that is unlikely to be cured. However, some advanced cancers can be controlled for many years with treatment and, in some cases, cured. Those that cannot be controlled with treatment are often called end-stage cancer or terminal cancer.
...
end-stage cancer
Cancer that cannot be cured and leads to death. Also called terminal cancer.
So, while you may be brutally honest, you are also potentially brutally wrong.
>>>>>>> Mind your own business.
My stepmom has stage 3 breast cancer and I thought she was done for. Thankfully, the cancer is shrinking due to chemotherapy. Now, if the doctors were to say it was terminal, she would definitely be gone.
@Sasha0426 well that’s great she survived it. 😊
Okay okay you made your point.
Oh. I thought stage four and terminal were the same. I guess I didn’t think about that. Look I feel so bad for the poor girl but she needs to accept the reality. She has got to stay positive because I told her if she keeps having negative thoughts, she will just make shit worse. I’m not trying to be a blunt bitch but it’s the truth and I’m not sorry for what I said!
@Asker Then I hope your family treats you as if you meant nothing to them. Because I know damn well I would if we were related.
@Sasha0426 😳😳😳
Wow……I can’t believe you said that.
So that nice comment I said about your mom means NOTHING?
@Asker Well, now you know how it feels when someone says the same thing about you. Doesn’t feel good, does it?
Maybe next time don’t say shit about anyone on here who is going through a hard time. Especially, if you’re going to post it as a question just so people can agree with you. You should be very ashamed of yourself that posted this.
Besides, you don’t even know this girl and you do this shit? Shame on you!
I hope to God she doesn’t see this. Shaming her like you did, I hope you’re fucking proud of yourself. Stupid bitch.
By the way, my stepmom lost her mom due to cancer a couple months back. Are you going to tell her she can never upset because it’s part of life?
@Sasha0426 so mean! 😢😭
@Asker Good! That was my intention. Maybe that’ll teach you a lesson to keep your trap shut next time when someone is going through a hard time.
@Sasha0426 yeah but you didn’t have to be mean about it!! I feel bad enough
That’s what you get for blasting that poor girl on here when she just wanted nothing but support. If you truly feel bad, take this question down and go apologize to her.
All I gotta say is…. you’re a cunt.
Hey it isn’t my fault that people can’t accept the truth. Is it a crime that I’m helping this girl to accept reality. Her mother isn’t going to make it. I know it’s harsh for her to hear this stuff about her mother but she’s an adult and she needs to accept that her mom is going to die unfortunately. She’s too dense to see the truth and ignorant thinking her mom will fight this when stage 4 cancer is terminal. Sorry to be a bitch but it’s the truth. Reality doesn’t care about your fucking feelings.
People are allowed to grieve. She knows her mother is going to die, but you have NO fucking right to tell her she can’t be upset. You’re basically telling her to never be human with feelings. I hope to god your family won’t be shed tears for you when you die in the future.
*shedding
I hope they’re so heartless that they’ll pretend you never existed.
😳😳😳
Maybe next time don’t post shit like this ever again.
FINE YOU WIN! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I hate you
You hate me because I called you on your shit.
😭😭😭😡🤬
Well…. that girl should not have posted that! It’s her fault.
Oh, so you’re going to bully her?
No! I wasn’t bullying her in the first place. I’m done with this conversation. Thanks for making me cry 😭
You roasted me