Something I've been thinking about in the last few days, as finally my father's widow admitted something that everyone in the family suspected - that my father had cancer - lung cancer for the record - for at least two years before his death.
This explains why he had degraded so much physically and why he had become a shut-in. The widow and my paternal aunt knew, but apparently they decided to keep it hush-hush as to not alarm me and my sisters or cause any panic. They kept the news even from my half-brother, which I honestly find questionable.
But thinking on it, I can see their reasons and I too could consider keeping a cancer diagnosis a secret if it happened to me.
Thoughts?