Any good home remedies for TMJ?

I have horrible TMJ. It isn't really chronic, I've only had it a few times, and only in great stress, but right now it's really bad. I don't want to waste money on a mouth guard for night time, since it's expensive to only use for a short time and gag on it anyway. XP I have some soothing muscle rub that I am going to try. Any other suggestions? The pain is killing me. :(
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I did some research, and I think in my case the mouth guard might actually make it worse. I clench down when something is in my mouth, so it would have the opposite effect. And since I only clench my teeth during times of high stress, The websites say to take pain killers and watch myself relax my jaw in a mirror.

Any good home remedies for TMJ?
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