If a girl you are dating, but not calling girlfriend offers to bring you baked dinners to work...

[Anonymous]

What would you make if it? If you worked long hours and often ate dinner at the office, would you like it if the girl you were dating brought you in some baked dinners? Or, since you were not calling this girl your "girlfriend" would you think it was a bit too much...?

In other words, I dating a guy who I'd really love to bake some dinners for, but I'm not sure how he will take it. What do you think?

[martyfellow]

Hell take that as you wanting to be something more to him. If he's not open to that, he might be embarrassed about this happening at his work where everyone will notice. He might tell you to stop doing it.

How likely is it that he'll accept you doing this? Will this cause jealousy with anyone else he's involved with, for example?

[Asker]

He is not involved with anyone else and I'd do it after everyone has left for the day... Do you think its Still not a good idea?

[martyfellow]

Ah, what happens at work tends to become quickly known to eveyone there, count on it. So think twice,whill he feel embarrassed?

[Asker]

Hmmmm I don't know if he'd be embarssed. I've done stuff with him in his office after hours before ;) and I'm pretty sure no one knows about it. I'm more worried that hell think I'm over steppinng the mark in term of our relationship... That baked dinners are too "serious"

[martyfellow]

Yes, theyre a serious move, they are a request for an LTR basically, and he might therfore be 'put up agqainst it' so to speak. That's a risk, if he isn't ready for that, he could break off with you totally.

[Asker]

Ok good to know. So baked dinners are out then. No baked dinners for him!

[martyfellow]

it depends on how much risk you are willing to take! If you're pretty sure he'll be willing to accept your gesture and call you girlfriend, that's one thing..but if you're uncertain about that, it's a hgh-wire move!

[martyfellow]

How about a Best Answer then?

[Asker]

:) thank you martyfellow.

[martyfellow]

Thank you sweetheart, and good luck