Do guys really hate fat girls?

[Anonymous]

Do guys really hate fat or big girls ? & if you found out the girl your with use to be kinda heavy what you do you or think ?

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Thanks for the answers. Least I now know why people are so F***ed about there self image ( In anything not just weight). Somtimes people change & get heatlhy. Fat isn't sexy, but people never think that maybe there was always a reason which lead them to bad habits. I can say bad self image or being mocked or feeling unwanted only makes trying to improve yourself harder. THANK GOD people tell me I look attractive & I always been at healthy weight or people would probally be like F U.

[FutterwackenMcSappin]

Well, there's a difference between big and fat. Big girls can be heavy but they also have a waist. Meaning that the front (the most important trait in this explanation) is not hanging over their belt buckle or grotesquely muffin-toppin over their waistbands.

Fat girls are just fat..everywhere. Flab for days. Flabby arms, flabby neck, stretch marks that make them look like they've been waltzing in a bikini with a giant wild wolverine. There's the "back boobs" created by fat and a severely under-sized bra that fit once-upon-a-Krispy-Kreme-ago. Oh and let's not forget the cellulite ridden thighs, under-sized calves, or small hands that fit a smaller them in high school.

And if you can't believe all of this then here are a few general rules of thumb:

*Big girls' boobs will not rest ON their stomachs...or their sides.

*If you can hump them behind the knee or under the arm and get the same result as if you were in the missionary, then you're f*%$#king a fat girl.

*Big girls do not get winded by walks or stairs.

*If she's not interested in sex because the two of you ran out of food...then you're f*%$#king a fat girl.

*Big girls will watch what they eat and take steps to keep their weight in check.

*If you can get out of trouble by suggesting the two of you talk about it over dinner, then...you got it. You're f*%$#king a fat girl.

*Big girls will not wear heels that look like they were made for a model in Cosmopolitan. (this is iffy because most women are pretty freaking irrational about comfort when it comes to fashion) but to stay on point, common sense usually wins out.

*There is a difference.

Hope this was helpful! :) Ciao!

[Phoenix1991]

I highly doubt that they hate them, just a good portion of them probably don't find them attractive so they don't make a move or flirt with them.

If my girlfriend used to be big and no is in shape? I wouldn't think much of it other then congratulate her on her hardwork.

My girlfriend was always in shape all her life from what she told me, while me on other hand, I used to be big, but I don't mind telling her, she's didn't care or mind, even if I was still big.

[Phoenix1991]

Thanks.

[xHellotherex]

So, just think about it. If the guy only likes you on how you look, they are a jerk. If its about personality, they are kind or a perfect guy for you. Sure a *super* skinny guys and a porky girl or the other way around are together, its a little weird. But otherwise, just get to know the person before judgeing their looks. One day they might be the person helping you survive. *cough* *cough* that goes for all the boys who are jerks *cough* *cough*.

[caniaskyousomething]

I agree with most of the below comments. I highly doubt that they HATE them, I guess they arn't attracted to them. Some guys are but most are not. Just because they are fat doesn't mean they don't have an amazing personality.

[Anonymous]

no. It's a matter of you need to care about your self before you expect someone else to there are exceptions tho.

[MrScorpio]

I don't hate a person based on looks. I don't find fat girls physically attractive though. If she use to be fat so? It's not where you're from but where you're at. You made positive life style changes to get to where you are. That's good. I wouldn't judge you based on your past when it comes to something like physical fitness.

[Snar2]

I don't hate them, I just don't want to have sex with them. If she used to be fat then that is in the past and I'll let it go. I'll be proud of her since she put in the effort to lose the weight unlike most (seemly most) heavyset American women are either plain lazy, make excuses, or don't care and think they are entitled to get decent looking men (like myself) who at least try to be healthy/look good.

Just speaking from my thoughts. Feel free to thumbs it down. :)

[honeyltsme]

It does not matter how fat she was if she's maintaining a healthy weight and a balanced lifestyle now.

I used to be 40 lbs fatter then now - I was never heavy, but definitely on a porky side. I can tell you that actually having a "fat past" makes you appreciate the value and importance of properly taking care of yourself.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Yes, I find fat people (not just girls) disgusting.

However, chances are, what you consider to be fat is less than what I would consider fat to be.

[uberjugs]

Can we see a photo of you sweetcheeks?

[Paige90]

Yes guys dislike thick girls but girls also dislike fat guys

[Xx_DRE_xX]

I find fat people atrocious, sh*t I use to be one. I don't mind if she's healthy an in all good shape but don't talk to me if your like 20+lbs overweight.

[ROTFLMFAO]

don't talk to me if your like 20+lbs overweight

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHA!

[uberjugs]

You curvy big girls - your boobs are ALWAYS going to get 100% more attention than any guy's cock.
And that won't change no matter how old you get - unlike those cocks when they go into retirement.
Worth thinking about. ;-)

[ling123]

It will when they sag like socks...

[Hades]

I can't speak for every guy, but I really dislike them. Just like the majority of girls dislike fat guys. It's just an unattractive trait.

[dressed2kell]

Women hate them too.

[Fpsrussia]

Some do ..