Be careful...if he got upset over this question, and you wonder about other things (weird co-worker, etc), this could explode...so...
At a point with no deadlines, stress and all, sit back with a drink, talk...in general terms, see if he is happy. Open by telling him what you like that he does to you, for you. Try to get him to open up a bit.
I know, most guys don't like this, to touchy feelly, girlie. But try...you need to decide where things are headed if you want to put in more time.
Yea, trite, but it works lots of times.
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Add some makeup hickey on your neck and if he gets mad about it, he didn't cheat on you
it really could just be some sort of weird mark & he's upset with you not trusting him
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Something is definitely wrong. Do your research but please please please keep your emotions in check. An emotionally abusive partner will always make you feel like you’re the problem when you question them. Ask friends and family about your situation and don’t spare any of the little details. Make sure you talk to people who aren’t immature in personality because they won’t be able to give sound advice. If they are all saying the same thing as what you suspect then you should consider just leaving. Sometimes it’s better to not even let your lover get under your skin. They’ll try to make it like you’re the problem and that you’re crazy. Don’t take that abuse. And the problem with trying to dig deeper and deeper into the issue might leave you more scarred than you’ll ever know. Sometimes it’s like having ptsd finding out all the nasty details and they carry into your next relationship. Spare any pieces of your heart that you have left. Your partner may try to make you believe that he’s the most loyal man ever but it’s already a fact that most men cheat mentally and most act on whims. So do your research and talk to all of his co workers to see if he’s been acting differently. If he has, do yourself a favor and leave. Don’t turn in on yourself and contemplate on if you should or not.
Maybe he’s bi? It could be a passion mark from his lover?
Hmmm...its a hard call I'd say.
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