I have some problems with myself..

[Anonymous]

I am suffering from bulimia, anorexia, and self harm. I like this guy and he knows I do these things except for the anorexia and bulimia. Should I ask him out and would it ruin our relationship if he found out all of these problems?

[taster]

Eh...well..if he knows about the self-harm..that is the worst of the three...imo anyway...are you in therapy I hope? Do you think that he wants to go out with you? I am reluctant to advise you...I mean life has to be lived...is not a spectator sport...but I would hate to find out that you two quarreled or something and caused you to hurt yourself more...all because I advised you to "go for it"...o.O

[Asker]

Hes like my best guy friend.. You know how it works, right? lol

[taster]

Sigh...go ahead and ask him...the faster you do, the faster you can start having fun with him...or get into rehab...O.O

[crookthings]

Are you close to him? Like, are you good friends? If so, if I were in your situation, I would share these things with him or wait until you get closer as friends and then share them. Explain that you were hesitant to tell him because you like him and didn't want to scare him away :) It puts everything on the table, but it prevents a sticky situation...