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Where did you get a sperm test from? I heard as you get older your sperm decreases.. I'm turning 28 this year and I have been thinking more and more about getting a test done but for most I see online only married people get them if they are having a hard time.
I wonder what my count is.0
my dad couldn't have kids because of a side effect of medication he took when he was 11.
my parents went to a sperm bank and went through that route to have kids. So I'm genetically linked to my mom but not to my dad.
The man standing in front of me is WAY more important to me than the little details like being able to have kids. I'd love a man for who he is and what he means to me even if he wouldn't be able to have kids.2
when you find someone don't keep it a secret and if they really ;liked you they won't leave you and maybe you'll end up finding true love with someone with their own children that you can care for or if you feel comfortable you can adopt and take care of a child or even more than one that doesn't have a family1
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Now, I'm not a medical person, but I know all it takes is ONE sperm to get pregnant. So you may be able to get your girl pregnant eventually, after probably a few tries and fails. I wouldn't completely give up! WIth all the medical advances right now that little problem probably CAN be helped. did you try changing your diet too? some things, such as mountain dew, are known to lower sperm count. Don't give up friend! Someone will stick around I'm sure. Best of wishes.10
That is tough. Talk to a doctor to get more info. And keep in mind that a woman who loves you would not leave you because of it. Some women prefer adoption anyway, and some don't want to have kids at all.0
Are those tests even trustable?1
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Next you should be scheduling an appointment with your physician to confirm the results of the home tests.
The goals of a wife and kids have a lot more to them then your sperm count.
This is a topic that should come up before engagement, but it can take you time to reach that point with a compatible partner.
Slow down, get your perceived medical issue checked out so you know all your options.
And good luck with dating, it can be daunting.