Anyway, the thing is, I don't have great hair, I don't have a great face and I don't have a great body (to all I described above, add that I have small breasts). I don't think I'm ugly because I get some attention from guys and many people tell me I look good, but I still know I'm so far from being hot...
And on one hand you have people insisting on the fact that guys don't really care about looks as much as it seems, but then (especially here on GAG), all guys want a hot girl! And in real life I always see guys going for the hot girls first, so I feel very inferior.
Then there are people who say feeling bad about the way you look is "first world problems, think of starving kids in Africa", and I agree, I've been blessed with better life circumstances and looks shouldn't matter, but I can't overcome my problems... so I also feel bad about that, that I can't get over such a silly problem and it makes me self absorbed (I do care about others and volunteer, but still).
Sometimes I think I should just save money and get a ton of plastic surgery, but is there a better way to overcome this?
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