Is it my weight? Or something else? I need help!!

[Anonymous]

Im 6'3 325 pounds and I played high school lacrosse and football and also played a year of college football. On a scale of 1-10 id say my confidence is about a 7.5 so I don't think that's the issue but I can't just go up to a girl at a bar and talk to her per se but when I see a girl I like I'm more than likely to talk to her. I'm outspoken, I'm a nice guy but not too nice. I Haven't had a girlfriend in a while so what do you think is my issue? or what should I do? Am I chasing women who aren't "in my league"?Or is it my weight? I just need to know what to do

[Anonymous]

Slimming down some would probably give you a wider range of women who are attracted to you, but some women are in to heavier guys. As far as women not "in your league" ... that's tough to say. Women have different turn ons, so I don't think there is a universal set of standards. Also, if you can't go up and talk to a woman in a bar, then I don't think your confidence is a 7.5. Talking to people in a bar is no biggie. You might need to put yourself out there more. Waiting to really get to know a woman well enough to "like" her suggests that you are only hitting on very few women. Dating is all about meeting as many people as possible to find the best fit. That doesn't mean you have to hit on everything with t*ts, but having conversations and flirting with women you aren't already friends with will help broaden your prospects.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's all in your weight. Try working out a bit.