"How can I leave a person who I care for a lot but is not good for me at all?" You just do it. You go to the police station get a restraining order, send him a copy with a letter stating that it's over and if he comes within 50 metres of you he will spend some time in jail. Then change your cell phone number and tell your friends and family what is happening. Actually you should do this first and have htem go to the police station with you. Support and love is what you need to get you through this, also a huge wake-up call.
What part of him is it that you care about? The part that he uses you? Degrades you? Dismisses your thoughts and feelings, everything that makes you who you are?
This isn't just another case of bad boyfriend, thiis guy sounds emotionally and mentally unstable, a dangerous combo when you are romantically involved with someone. Please don't become another stat*tstic that shows up on the 6 o'clock news. Get out now and the future, happier, more confident you, will say thank you someday.
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Write a list of everything he does that upsets you. Read it a million times. Dump him. Read it whenever you miss him.
I don't mean this in a harsh way, but unless you want people to look at you and say, "thats the desperate girl whos seeing that control freak of nature. She's so desperate that she allows him to live off her and do nothing, not even pay her the respect she deserves, and not only that, he has no respect for her family or friends either, I mean, how desperate can you get to want to stay with a bloke who treats you this way, and that's just naming a few things,
Is this you, or do you move on and get the life you deserve? what's sounds better, I know what I would choose in a heartbeat,x
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Care about yourself more than the asshat who is abusing you emotionally.
It's quite clear that he's so manipulative, selfish and very controlling. You need to break up with him.
You're a retard. Just leave him already. I'm surprised he doesn't beat you.
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