Am I a crazy girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are still in high school both upperclassmen and I am his first girlfriend--also I popped his man cherry.

I don't expect/want "us" to last forever but would love to be with him for a while, he just makes me so happy! Anyways I feel like he's finally become very confident, Often he is invited to parties and other high school gatherings with his friends. he invites me too but I am really shy and feel awkward and like I don't fit the scene. I also don't really like drinking. (smoking is fine)..so I would rather spend time with him in a small group or alone together. The problem is that since I don't go out to parties I'm really afraid he will find someone else ...More like mortified. I am paralyzed vocally about this because I feel I have no right to tell him what he can or can not do.

He also has a total wandering eye and it kinda bothers me. chicks complain and say he is creepy and a "weird pothead"... My theory about this label is Is they secretly find him hot--regardless of his asymmetry facially, lankiness/goofy awkward demeanor and general "good guy vibes" ...because hell, I find him so adorable! And I also enjoyed how early in our realtionship he would stumble over in my presence and check me out constantly and blush. He's everything I want in a boyfriend (at this point) and never have I felt so utterly protective, it's really concerning.

Also I noticed he was texting a freshman girl (very young) who is rather pretty...and I didn't mention it to him because I didn't want to sound too naggy, instead I asked him if he would ever cheat on me. After hearing this he discussed how "amazing and smart" I was and how he would nor could ever do that to me.

He "loves me".

And respects women...

I don't buy it... He's a teenage boy, but I can accept he cares for me regardless.

I care for him a lot too.

Probably more than I should.

I guess what I'm wondering is if my behavior is abnormal and am I a good girlfriend, (from what information you know)...also, is there a way I could try and relax more, I try focusing on my friends and life, but I always miss him. I always want him. I feel so pathetic...:(

Also he's going out tonight and even though I told him it doesn't matter...He promisedddd he would text me today;

he hasn't yet and I'm feeling a little neglected.

Should I even care?

[Anonymous]

To me your behavior is not abnormal. I get worried when my boyfriend hangs out with other girls (I even asked a question on here about it). It's just a natural thing to be jealous. I would just tell him if you are uncomfortable. So far I have told my boyfriend when I don't like certain people so he doesn't go out with them.

And from what I know it seems that you are a good girlfriend. You are worried and getting jealous which is normal. Do not feel like you are pathetic. You aren't pathetic at all. Maybe it will help you relax if you maybe try going to a party with him even if you are shy. So you can get an understanding of how he acts there and if he is trustworthy. And if you are satisfied by what you can tell then it might help you relax a bit. And focusing on your friends to try to ignore that problem will make you think about that more.

And if he hasn't texted you maybe he is just busy. I would care but maybe text him and see if he replies. If he does then you won't need to be worrying as much.

Hope this helped :)

[Ellaaababy1]

Aw it sounds exactly like hs love :) I went out w my hs boyfriend for 5 years and he cheated on me the first year but didn't find out till after we broke up... I know exactly how you feel.. A lot has to do with being each others first. Your not being crazy, you're just in love. I'd say try and go to hang out with him and others to show everyone he's with you. You don't have to go to every invite but make an effort. I hope you guys last long:)

[Anonymous]

You're not a crazy girlfriend.