Being More Confident In Myself?

[Anonymous]

What are the best ways to be confident with myself overall. I'm just no that confident with women as well. I suffer from teeth that are white but have some yellow on them. My doctor says its because when I was born the enamel on my teeth weren't fully developed but besides that MY teeth are strong and healthy.

Also I'm a African American male with a light complexion dealing with shaving problems such as a few razorbumps on my face and dark spots from razorbumps. Last weekend I went clubbing with my cousin and a girl we met at the club asked why I'm shy. I also think I need to work on my conversation skills.

[katiebug12]

I'm assuming you mean more confident with girls, since this is in the dating category...so I know you've probably heard this before, but it really is true: most girls care a lot more about how you treat them than what you look like. Lots of people have a physical feature or two that aren't super attractive, but the more people get to know you, the less they notice it. One of my best friends in high school had a burn mark across his face--fairly large, very noticeable. But after a few days of hanging out and getting to know him, I didn't think about it when I looked at him. (He was a very nice guy, and by the way, he ended up with a very pretty girlfriend.) And if you're at a club, between the low lights and crazy atmosphere, I really doubt people will spend much time looking at your teeth anyway :) oh and the razor bumps? Trust me, us girls can TOTALLY sympathize with those, we've all been there!

[Asker]

Thanks For This:)

[katiebug12]

No problem :) good luck!

[Cromartie]

The more you accomplish the more confident you are and the higher your self-esteem. So go do sh*t.