I'm with someone who seems to care too much?

Alright here goes nothing, ill sum it up and hopefully you can help. I've know my boyfriend for many years, currently have been together about 9 months, but I'm not sure if I'm in to him anymore. I am SUCH an easy girl. I work my ass off for my own money, I love sports, Xbox , my daughter.. And an occasional beer-but he just never seems happy. Unless I'm with him, and go to bed hen he does he's upset, at even the slightest mention of plans changing or

My friends. It's pushed me so far away lately, he also just makes the face like he's about to cry-but in my eyes I am NOT that horrible or hard todeal with..he's partially moved into my house.. What do I do? I do love him, I just don't know if I'm in love or feel remotely the same way I use to
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I actually have stated this all to him in sit down conversations, but he doesn't get it. He thinks he's not.. Possessive but the only time we fight is if I have ANYTHING planned that doesn't involve him, or if he's ready for bed and I'm not.. I work all the time and when I'm not working I have my daughter-so yes some nights I love to see my friends for the hour-2hours before the bars close, but I'm not a huge party girl either.. I just can't handle the whining and arguein anymore.
I'm with someone who seems to care too much?
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