I'm not the only girl who can burp loudly, right? And how should I think about this in terms of guys?

[nirvana1996]

So, I grew up in a family where burping contests were the norm. I have a pretty extraordinary belching talent and I think a well-timed burp is hilarious.

However, I've often been called "gross" or "unladylike" when I flaunt my, erm, talent, and I'm afraid it's hurting my chances with guys. I won't blast a burp on the first date or anything, but if I have to burp I will and am generally not the type to say "excuse me."

I'm having a bit of a crisis because I'm in college now and am one of the only girls I know who have not been in a seriously committed relationship. I'm wondering if I should change fundamental aspects of my character in order to meet a guy?

Ideally, I'd like to meet a fun guy who is fine with the burping and would even take me on in a contest! So, this is a two-part question. 1) Girls: Do you like burping, and have you struggled at all with something like this? 2) Anyone: Do you think I should change some of this behavior in order to meet a good guy? P.S. Completely cutting out burping is out of the question hahaha.

[Anonymous]

Nobody is asking you to stop burping. It's a bodily function.

However, burping out loud or treating it like it's humorous just isn't a trait many of us have. To me, it's similar to toilet humor and I don't see what is funny about all of that stuff. Whether it's a guy or girl, I just think it's rude and gross to sit and listen to someone pass gas or burp loudly.

So you can choose to do whatever you wish. But you can't avoid the consequences of choosing to do what you wish. That's the flip side of that coin that you're going to have to accept, or change so that people don't get the wrong idea about it. I'm not sure how much you decide to belch or pass gas in front of people, because it almost sounds like you're making it into a character trait by this question. But if you do it enough, it just comes off as classless and people don't feel like they're missing out if they don't associate with you because of the way you present yourself.

[Kiekuhmgoan]

Haha nice i would have a burping contest with you any day of the week. Think i would beat you:p

[ryanarcher1998]

It's good to know I'm not the only one who still values manners. I went to a small high school and the girls there burped out loud all the time. It was disgusting. There's nothing worse than a girl who might otherwise be hot degrading herself by belching like Homer Simpson.
I get that some guys who are immature and boorish themselves might like that sort of thing, but I'd rather be around girls who have self respect and class. I prefer dating real girls, not belching frat boys disguised as one.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Haha... well you're already pigeon-holing yourself by refusing to give up belching, outright.

It is unattractive to most guys. I refused to kiss a chick once even though she was on my nuts. She had been giving girly burps all night long and it just turned me off. It also got me thinking about how disgusting her other lady parts must be.

I'm sure there are a handful of guys that would be cool with your desire to burp... much like Sugar Bear, Honey Boo Boo's dad... but keep in mind that you will probably not find him at a university setting. If you have nothing going for you like those Honey Boo Boo girls then that just makes things even worse. Except for the eldest... she's kinda hot but still gross.

[cuddlycub]

I burp weird because I do it with my mouth closed so I guess I produce a weird sound? and my family has been telling me to change it... but I haven't.
I don't see why you should change a natural occurrence in order to please others (like farting... u can't just not do it. I know it's not a good example but you get my point). I know a lot of women who burps loudly and they are in relationships. Their boyfriends accepted that trait and some of them said it's cute (which I don't understand), so just be you.
Hope that helps.

[Anonymous]

Hey, I am a loud burper too! I can let out some really loud awesome gross burps :) better than most of the boys ;) I mean some guys think it's gross some are jealous some you are better than them and some will adore and worship you. Find a fun guy who likes it because I talked to one who said I was awesome and even thought it was attractive :D so stick to your awesome burps and find a guy who will take you on in a burping challenge and pulverize him!

[Futurerocky]

Really man girl I want you! I love girls that burp like a trucker.

[skoozi]

yeah... girls can't burp

[skoozi]

lmao

[Zirion]

Thats so cool!! I would love such a girl haha you have to be very self conscious to do that. Dont stop being that!

I would even ask you to teach me , my burps are always ultra weak...
And its always funny to interupt silence with a massive burp :p

Greetings from switzerland

[Sweetlindacoolturds]

If a guy doesn't fall for girls’ personality , if she's fun, how she looks like, compatibility between personalities, etc; but instead seems disgusted by some funny sounds — because that's what they are — then he is probably dull and not worth your time. Although I am sure that the majority of the guys do not care if you burp loudly, there are lots of them who do like it and are even sexually aroused by it. While I don't have a boyfriend now, I have had my share of boyfriends who loved my burping skills and even had burping contests. None of them (3) was able to beat me, though.😉

[Anonymous]

1) I love burping and farting, and it’s definitely been a source of struggle for me in the past. I’m the same way as you. I have burping talent and think it’s funny, but I have more farting talent and my well timed farts are comedy gold. I’m the same way as you with all of my gas. I let it out when I feel it and I don’t excuse myself because it’s natural. Don’t change yourself for a guy. A real man knows that real women burp and fart.

[Ferlim]

Hello My mother is a very attractive person who is not ashamed of such things, every time I sit with her she burps very loudly in front of me and let me tell you that even though she is a woman when it comes to burping, she can burp better than many men

[Sean972]

I think it depends on the guy. I really like a girl who burps, it turns me on. I'm from a family where no one likes it but people are different. Just wait to find the one who can appreciate you the way you are. I would give a lot to meet a girl like you. You can't make everyone happy => be happy yourself and life goes on.

[timleer]

same here...burp fetish

[Anonymous]

You should not change, just make an effort to be polite around people and stuff ya know. I mean, sometimes it just comes out. Oh well.

[Futurerocky]

Date me I will love you for who you are especially your burps. A hot girl that burps like a drunken sailor is a huge turn on lol.

[Tmoney12345]

Changing fundamental aspects of your character is a great way to end up miserable. Someone who is right for you will appreciate your burping talents.

[IAmJoe1985]

Hello. I think that gassy girls are very sexy. I find burping erotic. Never change for a guy. Id love to chat with you

[Bootidharma69]

Find a guy who likes it

[metaljesus]

I thing it is awesome when girls burp

[BurpingJet337]

We like it! Do it!