Why did his EX Put THIS after Ten years of their Breakup?

Influencer Master Age: 39

Why did his EX Put THIS after Ten years of their Breakup?

My fiance always Gets a Christmas Card from his EX since they Split up over 10 Years ago. She has Always just Signed her Name. This year Though, She put her Partner down with her on the card. This was the Guy she Cheated on my Fiance with. Was it to Hurt Him Perhaps because He Has me now and She may Feel Jealous and Territorial? I found this Strange Out of the blue. She has Known about Me from the Start Nearly 3 Years ago. Any thoughts? xx

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Apulu_3 Follow
Yoda Age: 15 , mho 43%

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I think that she wanted to show that she is also in a relationship or is jealous as you said. Or it could have basically no reasons at all. Whatever just ignore this and celebrate Christmas, don't let this ruin your mood. She can't do anything else than this so there is no problem. Think of it as a simple card and ignore it. Tell your fiance to not mind it too.

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- Paris13
  
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  I am Happy she Included her ToyBoy finally. lol!!! xx
  
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- Apulu_3
  
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  Lmao 😂😂
  
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- Apulu_3
  
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  Thanks for the MHO 😊
  
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Gwenhwyfar Follow
Master Age: 33

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You could be right

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- Paris13
  
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  lol I love Youuu, girl. xxoo
  
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- Gwenhwyfar
  
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  Love you too girl xoxo
  
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OlderAndWiser Follow
Influencer Master Age: 69

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Maybe she mentioned her partner so that either your boyfriend or her boyfriend will view this as not being an attempt to rekindle the relationship with your boyfriend. Or maybe she does want to rekindle it and did this to try to convince herself to not try.

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- Paris13
  
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  I think She now Realizes She is Not his Love anymore... xx
  
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- u
  
  OlderAndWiser
  
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  There is a little bt of sadness in that, but when you get involved with a cheater, what do you expect?
  
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It sounds weird that he would be getting cards from the person who cheated on him. Why does he choose to keep contact with such a horrid person? If I had to guess, she believes she never really did anything wrong when she cheated, and has been hoping all this time that he would accept it and be friends or something like that (or that time should heal all wounds). Adding the name of the other guy in the card may be a tentative attempt to move in that direction (your boyfriend's acceptance) since he's been with you for a few years now.

I think there might also a manipulative aspect; she did that to make your boyfriend upset, which might make you upset that he is still thinking about her cheating after all this time being with you. Maybe then you'll help her by forcing them to make up (as a show of having moved on).

Sounds a bit crazy yes. I overthink things.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol She is way over On the Other Side of God's World and is Happy with Toyboy. xx
  
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AviatorTom Follow
Master Age: 57

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Sounds like she sends the same card to everyone on her Christmas list. Since she's in a relationship with the other guy (maybe they're living together now), why not sign both names?

Don't read anything into this.

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- Paris13
  
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  He lives 500 FT and Been Together for 10 years. xx
  
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Jaximus-Lion Follow
Guru Age: 39 , mho 31%

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My thoughts! She is a sophisticated basic bitch 🤷‍♂️. This is what i call (face rub) behaviour. (How you like me) or (look at me now). That is not what a mentally stabil person would do.

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- Paris13
  
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  I thought so!!! xx
  
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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 34 , mho 33%

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I would wonder... why is he receiving them in the first place, or you...

for someone to get attention after 10 years you actually have to give them any, so why bother... lol

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- Paris13
  
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  lol!!! Scat Cat!!! xx
  
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t-8900 Follow
Yoda Age: 34

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she can't let him go. Think the old gal is having buyer's remorse and realized she picked wrong. Let the jelly and salt flow Paris. You got the prize. >:D

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- Paris13
  
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  lol!!! Nah, Ali says SHE would Never Go Down the Bad Road again and Him N neither. lol!!! xx
  
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whosDmann Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37

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I just think you might be reading into it a little too much.. if she's been always reaching out and knows that he also has u , then maybe she believes they have put the past behind and can be grown !! You just might be overthinking it hun..

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- Paris13
  
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  Could Be, dear. xx
  
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Cherry234 Follow
Guru Age: 26

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I think you could be right. The fact that she even cheated on your fiancé and still sends him Christmas cards is absurd. She sounds immature.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol She has Cut us Some Slaxk. lolxx
  
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Alwayreckles93 Follow
Yoda Age: 31 , mho 37%

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Tell him you are not okay with about sending cards. That woman she is history to him.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol I Have Fought on This. She Knows We are One. I Won. lol!!! xx
  
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Sevenpointfive Follow
Master Age: 44

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when you play psychological games you get killed paris

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- Paris13
  
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  I'm ALIVE, @Sevenpointfive lol!!! xx
  
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- Sevenpointfive
  
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  my card is still en route hahaha!
  
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jshm2 Follow
Master Age: 46

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You're just overthinking things as usual, Paris.

Probably nothing to it.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol!!! Yikes!!! xx
  
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douride2 Follow
Master Age: 46

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Sounds very strange to me @Paris13 . If my ex was sending cards 10 years later I would simply throw them in the trash unopened.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol He is a Kind man. xx
  
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Jamie05rhs Follow
Master Age: 37

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Maybe she assumed that he was over it by now? It was still very rude.

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- Paris13
  
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  Family Friend but Has Lessen this Now. xx
  
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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  Okay
  
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Yourfriend2021 Follow
Explorer Age: 56

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Tell him to stamp it "Return To Sender" You could be right Paris.

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- Paris13
  
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  lol!!! @Yourfriend2021 I doubt it but I got Thinking about her Motive. xxxxxxxxxx
  
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- Yourfriend2021
  
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  Well good luck and have a Merry Christmas :)
  
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Likes2drive Follow
Master Age: 57

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For your benefit it seems

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- Paris13
  
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  She has Been really Great about Not Bothering to call Monthly too for a long Time. lol!!! xx
  
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- Likes2drive
  
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  Yeah she is trying show him and you that she has someone too and not trying to interfere knowing he will show you the card
  
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- Paris13
  
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  You may Be Right, Big Guy. xx
  
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Stoner710 Follow
Guru Age: 30

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Yea that’s weird maybe to make your finance mad

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- Paris13
  
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  He is Not Emailing her a Thanks. lol!!! xx
  
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- Stoner710
  
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  Fair then he’s not taking the bait
  
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PositiveNote Follow
Xper 6 Age: 45 , mho 33%

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That's called "cruel and unusual punishment," my dear.

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exitseven Follow
Master Age: 53

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Damn, the world can be a very messy place, Paris.

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- Paris13
  
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  We just Now @exitseven Exist... xx
  
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KatherineJ Follow
Master Age: 41

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Or maybe she thought enough time has passed.

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- Paris13
  
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  Yes, I would Think after 10 Years... xx
  
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- KatherineJ
  
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  @Paris13 yep. And since he now has you, right?
  
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- Paris13
  
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  I think She has Accepted it after 3 years. lolxx
  
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- Paris13
  
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  Before Me, He had No One for 10 years. She may Be Territorial too. xx
  
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- KatherineJ
  
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  @Paris13 well, she was the one who made that decision. So just hope for her happiness with that guy. And celebrate your happiness with your guy.
  
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msc545 Follow
Master Age: 37

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ask her if you really want to know

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- Paris13
  
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  lol!!! He won't. xx
  
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- msc545
  
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  then he won't really know.
  
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