How to spend Christmas with your partner for the first time?

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Do you have any suggestion for spending Christmas with your partner for the first time?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For me, it would have to be serious. Alone time - maybe in the morning. One or two gifts. Maybe church. Then go to a family thing, if there's family around. Maybe TRY to get everyone together, but knowing my family, that may not be possible, so it would probably either have to be both sides in a day, or maybe celebrate each side of the family around Christmas, but not on the day itself. This depends on weather, how far away they are, whether I'm working (or she's working) the next day.

If I was staying in the area for more than a day, I'd probably want a decent hotel room. I don't know if I'd want to put up with relatives for long, whether I know the dynamic or not. I'm currently living with relatives, and it can get to be too much a lot of the time, so I think I'm about done with the 24/7 thing.

BCRanger10 · Accepted Answer

Let's see, we drove to visit the farm where she grew up and where I met her family for the first time. We stayed there for a couple of days. Then, on Christmas Eve, we drove to Chicago to meet with my family and promptly got my car totaled. So yeah, that was awesome.

Labokachulaa · Accepted Answer

I loved it because I was able to focus only on them, it sounds selfish, but the both of us cams from big families. So, it was definitely nice to be able to only focus on each other.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

If things were serious, it would be take to the family for the usual Christmas get together... ofc he may have family things too, so we'd have to work it out.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

In the month of December, I have a huge holiday party which I host (about 175 people in attendance.) I have choir performances at my church (I sing tenor.) I organized a Christmas luncheon at my work. I attend a Christmas jazz concert, and a performance of the Nutcracker. I go out of town the week between Christmas and New Year. And I share all of that with her.

Guy13 · Answer

I always speak less (control tongue), smile more, and be obviously more attentive to them than Normal. That’s me though…get them talking about themselves or politics then you are good 😎

Massageman · Answer

If it was a first Christmas together, I would spend it very low-key with her. If she had a family around, a visit would certainly be in order, and vice versa. But still in quiet moderation - still getting to know each other.

SnowedIn · Answer

Movies, baking, board games, walk in the neighborhood, cards, popcorn.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well I wish you the best. I don’t know find stuff you both like and enjoy doing totether

NathanDavis · Answer

be genuine, do not pretend unless you're awful as a person, then behave

Avicenna · Answer

Alone or with their family?

BJP21 · Answer

My tradition started by waking up Christmas morning, make a breakfast for you and your SO.

Do a gift exchange.

Make some love. (If happen to married)

Head to Starbucks and go for a nice romantic walk.

Visit the family or find a Christmas party to go to.

Agape93 · Answer

Make it a chill home affair. I got my girl a gun, some games and food

Anonymous · Answer

I would spend time with their family and then take a trip with them to Europe. I didn’t grow up celebrating Christmas so I wouldn’t mind spending it with his family.

Nominal · Answer

A simple cozy evening at home, warm lighting, which is very cozy and elegant, as well as romantic. And the most important thing to me personally is cosy Silence, is When u enjoy being around your partner, but u not talk much.

ByNature1986New · Answer

Family traditions of both then romance in the evening. Gift idea - mutual feet massage

annabananna · Answer

Get a Santa suit for him and play mr and mrs clause

Justneedtokno · Answer

Nooe the guy decided he wanted to be friends

poneglyphs · Answer

Never did that ever in my life. So, I wouldn't know

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't want to get ahead of myself. I don't even have a girlfriend yet. I don't want to jinx it.

Lexina · Answer

Joining our families spending wonderful time together

Jennz6 · Answer

I wish I had a partner to share Christmas with today

Cassie2002 · Answer

Depends on when you met. 6 months. Anything under or you have it invite family.

OG956 · Answer

My biggest dream is 2 watch stars with her, but it doesn't have 2 be on first date.

1cuteblackk · Answer

Going to a nice place together and doing something you both enjoy doing as a hobby.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

“Four Christmases” is a PERFECT example!

WhitneySnow · Answer

Buy each other a special gift

CateM · Answer

I'd watch movies

cth96190 · Answer

Snuggling with her and my cats.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Drink heavily, then discuss politics.

Anonymous · Answer

We both never celebrate Christmas.

ZenJen444 · Answer

With my coworkers it was really nice

Twalli · Answer

It's not anything special.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just be yourself have fun and enjoy it

krin_m · Answer

Enjoy the company as any other day!

Anonymous · Answer

Cook a nice dinner together (:

Anonymous · Answer

Under the covers.

JohnK123 · Answer

Cuddle

In_Trance · Answer

However you want

CubaPirate · Answer

In bed

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