Struggles Of Being Very Hairy Guy

[Anonymous]

Body hair in general is a creepy thing. Unless it's minimal amount and what and average human gross it is fine and is worth fighting against.

But once you are in the category of overly hairy man , the never ending pain struggle starts.

1. Having so much hair makes you feel so weird and abnormal to begin with.

2. It effects your self esteem, self confidence and self worth especially in terms of women and sex.

3.It reduces the chances of women liking you and finding you hot, appealing and attractive.

Most of the time you are merely a good friend since they don't want to be sexually physically involved with a very hairy bodied man.

4. Every time you take your clothes off you feel like a naked beast.

Not aesthe pleasing site at all.

5. It's a long lost life time battle.

Anything you do goes in vain since its the hairs that wims the battle in the end. You choose any mods of hair removal and it's back staring at you within some time depending upon the method you choose. You keep it , and your repel women , you resemble half beast half man. You trim/ shave and still you repel women since you get stubbly prickly growth and no woman wants rug burn on her body. You ALWAYS end up loosing.

[LuvYouAll]

I don't understand why body hair seems to be such a big issue in todays world. People want women and men to be pretty much hairless and if they aren't they are "abnormal"? It isn't abnormal to have body hair but rather very normal and it actually has functions like protecting the body and showing one is at mature age and not for example a preteen.
I think rather than trimming in fear of being left out and pressuring others to trim we should all learn to love ourselves and each other the way we are. Once we learn to love ourselves, even the parts that are possibly the ones that go with the norms, then we won't be as condemning of others.
Personally to me it doesn't matter if someone has body hair or not and I don't think it should matter to anyone else either, the only thing that matters is that they feel comfortable in their skin. If they don't, help them with it.

[myTake Owner]

So maturely answered it , WoW.
But just one thing, isn't having a lot of hair looks too gross and dirty and when it is on weird places like the back , shoulders or upper arms ( see the guy in pic) then doesn't it look abnormal and creepy?

[LuvYouAll]

Nah. That looks pretty normal to me. As long as you shower often enough it won't catch any bad scents. Also body hair helps letting out pheromones so they can heighten arousal during sex.

[sparkles10]

Totally agree with opinion owner.

[Avenuewriter]

Yeah, it sucks being a hairy dude. I know, I am one. I've bent over backwards both literally and figuratively trying to get rid of every single offending hair, yet it never seems to end. And yes, it's probably one of my larger insecurities because it's that, on top of everything else wrong about myself. Like the final insult on a long string of degradation. Because it wasn't enough that I wasn't good looking to start with, but I'm also hairy to boot. It's not fair, but what else in life is?

Which I why I refuse to let it get to me. Why I won't stop shaving, won't stop waxing, and will eventually have it removed completely. I REFUSE to allow the shoddy hand life dealt me screw me over. At this point it isn't about looking good, it's about outright rebelling against a life that has constantly tried to bring me down.

[myTake Owner]

Seriously man I agree and totally feel what you are thinking and going through. It seems so painful and so cheated downright by life. I mean other people might not feel how seriously it affects us, to them oh it's just hair get rid of it blah blah , bit here we feel what it is to be so fucking weird. And sorry about just being plain simple normal what other people have naturally been blessed with.
Yeah it is a fight.

[myTake Owner]

Have you ever been with girl? Their views and comments?

[redeyemindtricks]

Dude, just get a groupon for some laser hair removal and get it over with. You should be able to get yr whole body done for a few hundred, if you shop around for a good deal.

If you amortize that over a few years, you are probably at least breaking even vs. razors+cream+aftershave lotions and all that... not to mention the opportunity costs of all that time you have to spend shaving.

[myTake Owner]

@redeyemindtricks but still it is a struggle an added struggle in itself which you naturally blessed with minimal hair won't understand.

[redeyemindtricks]

Eh. It is what it is. What is "ugly", exactly? Who gets to define that?

Some girls LOVE hairy men. I have a girlfriend who has only dated Middle Eastern men, partly for other reasons (she kinda likes that whole stereotype chauvinistic personality type), but partly because she really likes all that body hair, and those are the men most likely to have it.

Yeah, so there are other girls who don't like it. Who gives a shit?

I mean, I could walk around bitching about how most guys hate my height (6'2"), and there'd be some truth to that, but... uh, I don't. Because there are plenty of 'em who don't.

Srsly, after a certain point, this just becomes a matter of "shut yr trap and deal." I mean, I'm sorry, but this is a total non-problem.
First of all, it's not a problem in the first place -- it's not a disease or disability or affliction.
Second, YOU CAN GET RID OF IT ANYTIME YOU WANT. Can actual ugly people make themselves un-ugly? Can I make myself a foot shorter?

Srsly.

[myTake Owner]

@redeyemindtricks why would you even dare to think of hating your height and wanting to be a foot shorter? Many poleople including Me would even die to be your height :/
This female friend of yours has a real liking for really hairy men, ya, seriously? Has she openly admitted to it? She even like lot of hairs on chest abs and stuff as well?
Well it might not be a disease but it obviously is aesthetically a curse, whenever I see my body while showering I fucking wanna cry out loud.

[Avenuewriter]

@redeyemindtricks You do make some valid points, but I could argue that height is just as small a problem (fyi tall women drive me crazy, in a good way I mean). I think we can safely say we all have our hangups, and ultimately they're just that: hangups concocted by our minds. It's best to just accept them or deal with them in whatever way is best.

[laurapalmer]

Men and women all have body standards set by culture. Does it suck? Yes, but there's only a very small fraction of the population that looks the way they "should". Even the people you find perfect in every way has things about themselves they wish to change.
As for the hair, everyone has it. And just like the hair on our head it varies dramatically from person to person. Anyone who likes you for who you are as a person is not going to mind how much hair you have. Many girls even like their men to be furrier. I think you've had some bad luck with girls who have unrealistic body standards. I'm sure you'll accept your partner for their body just the way it is, as they will do the same for you.

[DivaMonae]

Dude you're nowhere near that bad! But if I have to be honest I just couldn't deal. I know its sounds harsh but I literally have a motto stating "Hairy is Scary"... I'm really sorry :(

I'm just personally not a fan of hair unless its on your head/face and I've forced myself to accept the fact that arm, leg, pit, and pubic hair is normal for guys and I have to accept that but there's only so much I can take and believe me if I was that hairy I would spend every hour of the day in the bathroom removing it 😕

[myTake Owner]

Yes spend every moment removing and cursing my fate.

[lunddevtapart2]

if the guy in the pic is not hairy then i am a freakin lady or sth, i just have slight hair on my chest and that treasure trail, not even back hair, i am jealous of this guy, i feel like i didn hit puberty or sth

[myTake Owner]

@lunddevtapart2 she didn't meant that the guy in pic isn't hairy,

[DivaMonae]

@lunddevtapart2 I didn't say the dude in the pic wasn't hairy I said the guy that asked the question isn't as bad as the guy in the pic... They aren't the same guy.

[FilthyPervert]

I have very hairy ass and basically i even have hair up my shaft itself, I also don't have the money for laser treatment, just shave ti and get on with life. If your girl can't even take a bit of hair, what will she think of your kids (who will inherit your genes too)? To be honest, if someone truly can't stand it, they aren't a good match for you.

I admit I'm nowhere near super hair in other areas of my body but that's why I don't go for body hair lovers. Each person has their type, even physically, a match both mentally and physically should be your aim.

[myTake Owner]

Can I say that you are very lucky that you don't have excess hair on rest of your body? Damn, it would have been worse if you had excess hair on chest and stomach as well.
That's why I don't go for body hair lovers? What do you exactly mean to say by this?

[FilthyPervert]

since i don't have hair on the rest of me I don't seek them out, but you would be wise to, they'd fucking adore how manly it looks.

[myTake Owner]

Ha-ha who? Who would adore excess hair on rest of a man's body? I doubt anyone of that type exists.

[FilthyPervert]

many, especially those who had dad and male relatives like it.

Greeks, Indians and most arab women are your safest bet but women of all races can have this fetish

[myTake Owner]

Fetish!!! Lol

[FilthyPervert]

@Bethany-Louise meet asker, asker, meet Beth.

[myTake Owner]

Lo why? She has fur fetish?

[Bethany-Louise]

😂 I appreciate body hair haha, I think it's attractive

[myTake Owner]

@Bethany-Louise wow cool, overly hairiness?
As in LOT of hair on torso? Hairy shoulders?

[Bethany-Louise]

Much prefer that then to no hair at all

[myTake Owner]

@Bethany-Louise awww so sweet of you.
I wanna PM you, follow me back pls

[myTake Owner]

@Bethany-Louise how is this old man here in pic in this take? :p

[FilthyPervert]

I think she has blocked you because her name is blacking out.

[myTake Owner]

@Bethany-Louise heya,
What's up?
Hey, how about hairy shoulders, upper arms and a LOT of hair on full of front torso?

[Anonymous]

Stop wining and be a fucking man.
I'm a hairy guy and only manscape very little.
And you know what? I get tons of girls and have been with tons of girls and they love my hair.
I've had girls lay on my chest and run their fingers through my chest hair.
And whats more, I have a beard too. Because yes I am a beast and a MAN. Being soft and smooth and delicate is for woman.
You know what your hairiness means? You have more testosterone "the male sex hormone" then most men. You should be confident and proud.

[spuitkaas]

My boyfriend is naturally also quite hairy, but he shaves it all. Chest, private area and trims arms and legs. He still does has some hair on his back and butt, but I don't really mind.
It's unfortunate you have that hairy gene, but it's not like there's nothing to do about it and you've just gotta accept it or deal with it.

[myTake Owner]

yeah its extremely unfortunate , you less hairy men and women are so lucky and blessed.
you like the shaved stubbly look? Why dont you look for a naturally less hairy man?

[spuitkaas]

Because I like him for who he is. He shaves more for himself than for me.

[Anonymous]

I love hairy guys. Im hairy for a girl so it makes me feel less gross? Lol Like, im not super hairy, I am just not a hairless and thin haired girl :(... ughh

[myTake Owner]

You love hairy guys or you like being around hairy guys since then you would feel less hairy?
If you were thin haired as an average girl then you would have hated them?

[Opinion Owner]

No id prob, find it manly, honestly I like bear like guys though. Like tall sort of chubby (not seth rogan chubby but like sort of thinner than that, average) with lots of hair.
I love it.
And if I was a hairless girl, Id like it cuz id still feel extra feminine, i think its just attractive, very manly lol

[Opinion Owner]

Like I was with this guy who was so insecure about it though, you seem like that type, and i loved his super hairy chest, like he was just hairy... or better yet? he was FUZZY!!!
And he got so insecure when I said omg you're so hot and big I love it. I meant like big like how a basket ball player is big in frame, I dont like small hairless men... But he was so insecure ugh. He was the best kisser and everyuthing too though too bad he was insecure, and had to marry within his culture, ugh. i hate everything.

[myTake Owner]

But I am not extra tall or chubby. I am of average height and thin built and in addition to a very hairy full front torso I also have lots of hairs on my arms, legs and thighs.
Oh, how about hair on shoulders, upper arms or sides of back? I have those as well.

Am pretty sure your ex bear guy wasn't this hairy and you won't be able to like this amount and hair on those places!

And oh, just curious , which part of the world do you live?
Just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

he had hair EVERYWHERE! He was very hairy everywhere, I am form the U. S na dI am attractive, stop being annoying and insecure, you're like that guy i loved his hairiness thought he was sexy af but he was sooo insecure.
IO would like an average height hairy man over a hairless average height man. I am from the u. s.
You'll grow into it, women like manly, if they are man looking rather than hairless

[Opinion Owner]

some women like hairless too ** no t ALL and not a few! Like guys like hairless feminine women

[chrisrockwingstop]

some thoughts from an ex-wookie (i lasered it all off):
laser it all off. It's 2017 it's not that expenisve with a groupon. You can laser your entire body for $1000, sticker shock, but seriously, if you want to do it YOU CAN, get an extra part time job for a little while.

[Scrambledagain]

Dude, I'm hairy too. You just have to maintain that shit. We have it easy. Women have to shave their legs and arms all the time, and it's also seemingly mandatory in today's world for women to shave downstairs. I just shave my chest, and wax my back. Look at my profile pic. I'm actually a very heart dude but I look like that due to shaving

[myTake Owner]

Wow man if you look so smooth despite being very hairy then you do a great job man!
Which hair removal method do you adopt and doesn't it feel stubbly and prickly when the regrowth sets in?

[Scrambledagain]

Man... I just buy a women's razor (that one with the soap around it) and shave my chest. Done. Yes it does grow back and is prickly when it does, but that makes me want to shave it again. It's actually so uncomfortable when I don't shave. What do you think women do with their armpits and legs? They shave it all the time, it's a lifestyle. Just do it. I wax my back because I can't really reach it and there's only a few patches. But yeah. It's just maintenance.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

That can be true but I personally think it all depends on the women, some women like hairy men (some women acttually do exist that like hairy men) and some women don't

[myTake Owner]

But to summarize it sucks for the guy.

[myTake Owner]

@hairydudesrock is one such self proclaimed woman who likes average hairy but still excess is not nice.

[hairydudesrock]

Im not self confessed, I actually do like hairy men and I'm not the only woman out there who likes the more hairy man. Perhaps you should just embrace the fact that you are hairy and live your life rather than wasting it with fretting and stressing other what others think. Believe me when I say women want more than physical perfection in a man, we want humour, integrity, compassion, loyalty and faithfulness. If you are so unhappy then wax the areas you hate and keep the rest shaved or trimmed. Just be grateful that you're a healthy man who's in the prime of life and grateful that you're not physically disfigured or disabled. There are people out there who have been born with severe disfigurements and disabilities who are out living their lives to the fullest and have found love. I suggest you go and do the same before life passes you by.

[oldanddecrepid]

I am a little hairy on my belly and chest but I groom it. I wax what little hair I have on my back and arms and I maintain my private parts by shaving.

However, I am not excessively hairy like in the picture. I do it on my own accord and my girlfriend likes tearing the wax strips off, so it is all good! LOL

[Gamecube]

It repels women that are looking for someone just for looks. I have someone in my family and he is hairy as a gorilla.

Honestly a man that looks like a half man / beast is kind of a turn on for me.

But then again I am a freak in some ways...

[myTake Owner]

Half beast!! That's more than enough to depress me more.

[tiffaniesamone]

There are some women that love hairy men... and matter of fact I am one, I love a hairy man;I would prefer it... just live life, be positive and don't worry about what others think about you, everyone has their opinions and it shouldn't matter if you're hairy or not your personality, sense of humor etc... matters more

[myTake Owner]

You "love" a very hairy man and prefer that as well? I doubt.

[Nachtmeerde]

Wow, so you're like the guy in the pic? I really, really feel for you, man. :/

How about this? You do minimal hair removing AND find a lady who appreciates hairy dudes. Sound good?

[myTake Owner]

What made you assume that I look like the guy in the pic :o
Well at least for now I look mostly like Nev Schumann but add some hairy shoulders and hairy arms to him.
I am glad you are able to feel my pain.

[Nachtmeerde]

Well, I thought it would take an extreme case like that to make your relationships with women as problematic as it sounds. Otherwise, I believe the adage 'there's someone for everyone' holds true.

I don't think Nev Schumann looks too bad. In fact, he could use some stubble or a beard, although some of his chest and stomach areas look weirdly uneven... is that a natural condition for men?

[myTake Owner]

Who knows by the time I get this old I might look this extreme case hairy :(
Nev has uneven chest and stomach areas? As in?
Generally yes the chest is a bit more hairy while belly is less while the top part of chest is lesser hairy. And yes it varies from person to person.
Does it look weird to you? Would you want it to be evenly equally hairy on while stomach and chest?

[Nachtmeerde]

Who knows? You might have either less self-confidence issues or have found a woman who doesn't care by then. (*pats shoulder sympathetically)

I was looking at some pics of him where he had these thick chunks of hair on the stomach and nearly bare skin alternating in a very amorphously-shaped distribution. In other words, it didn't look like a natural treasure trail, but a very bad shave job. What you describe as a general condition sounds very acceptable though.

[myTake Owner]

You wouldn't call that a treasure trail, it's not trail bit whole belly hair :(

[Nachtmeerde]

Now that's not necessarily a bad thing, as long as it's not too thick.

[myTake Owner]

But I meant it as a thick carpet and not mere dusting of hair.

[Nachtmeerde]

Okay, that would be a liiittttlllleee bit awkward in terms of practicality, but I don't see how it can't be worked out between 2 people who are serious about dating/ bedding each other.

[ProbablyTooMature]

Men are supposed to be hairy. Hairless guys are the gross looking ones in my opinion. Every woman I've been with has loved my hairiness, most would lay with me and just run their fingers along my chest and stomach.

[SuitAndTie]

I didn't know it was such a big issue for some people. One of my closest friends is a complete hairball and sleeps with tons of women left right and centre. If you don't let it affect you I'm sure it won't hinder your chances with the ladies.

[myTake Owner]

Glad that you now know how much of pain and curse it is to be furry man.
So, you have a closest friend who actually is a furball? Has he got himself waxed or lasered off before sleeping with women?
You sure he gets women, or maybe he just boasts about it , and the fact is women just wear clothes and get off once they get to see him naked as a furball?

[SuitAndTie]

Everytime we go out he's pulling women and taking them home. So yes, I'm sure he gets women.

[Zaffiiiiii]

I like hairy guys, hair doesn't put me off. It's just hair, we all have it. Even I have it. It's not at all creepy, it's very natural and normal.

[Ovidiu-Nicolae]

Can you please tell me the parts where you don't like hair?

[Meezy96K]

i'm the type of a guy that search for solutions more than the problem so how about next time you post some solutions my friend and body hair isn't that bad we have enough gays in this world

[myTake Owner]

Sorry? What are you trying to say?

[Meezy96K]

i mean there are many hairy guys out there that you just wrecked them off by posting such a negative post

[myTake Owner]

What else is there in being super hairy?
It's no fun

[Meezy96K]

i want you guys to feel like you are hairy and come read this post what i said to my frie, d that wrote this post to give us solutions and it's not that bad to be hair god you are making a social out cast

[myTake Owner]

Which article are you talking about?
And well I personally feel like a curse

[Meezy96K]

sorry guys you just don't understand

[myTake Owner]

Make me understand then

[Meezy96K]

i mean what is the point of hurtin the emotions of hairy guys instead make some new solution on how to get girls ( hairy guys edition ) i think that would help i mean like if someone who is hairy and read that post it will corrupt his emotions and self isteem

[myTake Owner]

Aww yeah. , nice suggestion dude
But I have never got any solution as well, maybe you normal men suggest something?
You write some post?

[Meezy96K]

i'll try and make some people happy at least

[myTake Owner]

Sure do, and post. The link here as well

[RicanEyes]

I don't think you look as bad as you make it seem. Try to build self-esteem because who ever loves you will even love your body hair its that simple. Best of Luck my friend! :-)

[Anonymous]

I find facial stubble kind of hot. And it's a intimate feeling when I touch/rub the stubble with my face/hands.
Just saying, not all women are against stubble.

[Anonymous]

LoL, I know how you feel. I'm a pretty hairy guy also. But I also like being hairy, and since getting women to like me isn't my top priority in life. I at least have good hygiene and trim my facial hair a lot.

[myTake Owner]

Why and how do you "like" being overly hairy?
Why would you like having thick coarse hair all over the body when an average male doesn't have that?
Why like having hairy shoulders, hairy back, hairy neck when most men have it smooth naturally?
Don't blame women for hating this as it's obviously IS creepy and gross.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I guess it makes us more unique than other guys. Plus if your an outdoors-man like me, the hair helps. Instead of wishing that you were like everybody else, why not accept yourself for who you are, and just be your unique self. If you keep wishing to be like everyone else, that will constantly bring you down and not allow you to be happy or find happiness. Some of us aren't meant to fit in, we're born to stand out. And you have to embrace that, and try to look at it as an opportunity to be something different, and show your unique talents. In other words, if your not doing something to hurt or offend people, then don't care what everyone else thinks about you. Be you and do you thing, and let them be them and do their thing.