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How many of you would relocate for a relationship?
I did, but in my case it was to a different country. I wasn't that nervous, I was more excited. But it did create a whole host of issues over the many years. But we are still together, married, 22... Relationships
Ladies, how do we make you happy?
Be a good listener (but you do not have to listen indefinitely! There are limits to that. It's just some guys really zone out right away.) Be playful. No matter your age, don't forget how to, or... Relationships
Is complacency fixable?
It is an immutable law of relationships that women want more from their men, and men want their women to accept them as they are. You should do some serious thinking about that, and not just... Relationships
Watch this video starting at 9:49. How does it make you feel?
The video was interesting, Jamie. I think it's quite a good video, and the host is all right, and the stories she chose to feature are touching and a bit sad. Very heartfelt, anyway. I do have a... Dating
Why can't I get someone, whom I have just talked for 2 weeks out of my head?
Two weeks? It's neither love nor obsession. It's natural to be attracted to some people and want more of them. But you blew it, lost her trust, so you'd better just move on. Learn from whatever... Relationships
Men fall for a woman with their eyes, Women fall for a man with their ears... your thoughts?
Fairly true, yes. But "fall" is a general term, and what does it really mean? It's not about love, commitment. Maaaaybe lust? In the early stages, yes it's pretty much mostly true. Dating
Why do people start off by saying “you’re gonna hate me” before saying something that will upset you?
They feel it needs to be said, but they know there's a high risk of the person not receiving is happily. You might equate it to 'tough love.' Not pleasant, but important to be said so that the... Dating
When You’ve Hurt or Offended Someone, Do You Say You’re Sorry?
Well done, your first question being one of such substance. I salute you. And it was a damn good apology too. I hope the person referenced feels better, and reaches out. Those men who have said... Relationships
Girls, Would you date a Ph. D. student even if they don't make much money now?
I love smart people. But hopefully the PhD is in something useful and they're not just indulging in being a perpetual student. I've also seen that. Dating
Are Indians allowed to date and marry outside their race?
Many/most parents would prefer that their adult children marry within their race. Indians seem more on the traditional end than some other races. But I have a very good friend who married outside.... Dating
Is it better to settle (be content) or do you still try to find what you’re looking for?
There are two truths that are both equally right. Don't settle. Your expectations are unrealistic. If you're 28 and still haven't had a meaningful relationship, there's a lot more to it than just... Dating
Can I fix our marriage?
Men wanting two wives is disgusting. "He blamed me for all the problems in the marriage when he is the one started everything." No one person is responsible for all the problems. That right there... Break Up & Divorce
How can you get control back when you're dealing with a narcissist?
You can learn a lot from this psychologist who specializes in narcissists. https://www.youtube.com/c/DoctorRamani Relationships
Are you big on Halloween?
No, I'm not. I get why some people are - they love to play, the fantasy of it, the excuse to scare people or be sexy. But it's not my thing. It's probably a combination of me not caring about... Holidays
Can mental and verbal abuse be just as damaging as physical?
Of course. And remember that physical abuse is one element but it doesn't occur alone. There is always an emotional/psychological component to it. Listen to you therapist, and continue to go to... Relationships
Do you personally know anyone who's happy in a long term relationship that started from cheating on the last relationship?
Of course. Some people have this idea that if a relationship began this way, it is doomed to fail. That is absolutely not the case. It is the wish of the person who was slighted and left in the... Relationships
Lack of intimacy because of anxiety. How can I help him?
Beautifully written. No, I haven't experienced this. But I do have a lot of experience with people with anxiety and panic attacks. I don't mean to diminish your experience, or the logical... Relationships
Will a man really distance himself from his girl because he feels like he’s not good enough for her?
It's his issue, not yours. Sounds like you've been telling him otherwise (how you feel about him), but he just isn't accepting it. Maybe try writing it down in a letter. Give your heart to him,... Dating
Do you agree that men are providers?
I agree that civilization seems to function optimally, at its best, when the men are. It's certainly not the only way to do things, but... Dating
Is it worse to lose a friend who had feelings for you or lose a partner?
It hurts more to lose a partner. That one feels chemical, and like a part of your heart is now gone. Relationships
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