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I'm sorry that she dumped you or treated like crap and I'm sorry that your mom didn't give you the right amount of attention. But the rest of the world isn't so bitter or depressed.
A lot of these can apply to both genders. I don't really see the need to get married
Both genders? How often do men get alimony when the woman is the breadwinnner? Far less often than women. 80% of women get custody. Tell me something else that has an 80% rate of success... that pretty much makes it a rule or law. Meaning by de-facto law, women by virtue of a uterus get custody and child support with it. It is the lottery for women to marry.
All these women who aren't taking you seriously in the comment section will never understand. They never realise that they actually benefit from marriage and divorce. You'll never know if the person you're marrying will eventually turn into something that is bad. That's why people in general should be careful about marriage.
That's interesting you say that because my coworker's sister is going through a divorce and she's on suicide watch. The dude won't leave the house, even though he filed for the divorce and the house is in her name but she can't kick him out, even though she owned the hosue before they met. He's making more money than her but as it stands, she's expected to pay alimony. On top of that, he abuses her verbally and physically. She tried filing for a protection order but the law said she can't because they live together and he's not allowed to leave the house. She has two kids with this man and as of now, when their divorce is finalized, he gets full custody. Oh and she loses the house. And her cars. I've met this woman and have seen her with bruises a few times, but never said anything to my coworker about it. She just now opened up about why she's been missing work. Its to protect her sister.
Tell me again how women benefit from marriage and divorce. I'm waiting.
I marry to love, not for benefits. The take owner thinks we marry to take and abuse, but fails to realize that some of us marry because we sincerely love the person.
Would**
@RainbowFanGirl Not all women are like that. Marraige isn't for everyone. That is true. But I hope to get married someday to someone. I am a very caring person. I can honestly say I never hated someone in my life and I like to always put myself in other people's shoes.
@Grungenoreos Agreed. It isn't for everyone but the reasons listed are just bizarre.
Dude, sometimes it's the men controlling the women. And oh well if you can't have sex that much coz you have kids, kids are a gift!
yea specially if you're a woman because filing divorce after having them will entitle you to child support
This is sadly true today:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4I'm not religious... So why do I need to register my relationship with the government?
Marriage is a type of business partnership for some people. This partnership, if done right, it will benefit both party financially, physically, and etc
Fucking good mytake, Please for GOD sake send this mytake to president Obama so that he can read it and learn something.
My Saiyan instinct detects another Mgtow in the vicinity. Excellent post. You have my respect.
Pffft. What stupidity. This is like saying "Humans should never drive cars because you will crash and die." It completely misses the bigger picture.
Great take and you have touched a nerve with a lot of women on here because it is all true. Even my lawyer and a marriage counselor have said to me men shouldn't get married in this day and age.
On number 6 "You save a lot of money" is true. It would be way cheaper just to get a high quality whore for companionship for a lousy $150 if you need a release OP... lol
My elderly high school physics teacher used to say women want men for their wallets. He wasn't trying to be negative. But now a days, that's all they look for besides looks. They don't care for the brain.
Some do care for the brain, and more importantly, the heart
Young naive people expect idealism. I seen enough betrayal and favoritism to realize that this is not true.
After, I seen how the corporate world treats the hard working and gracious to slobs. This isn't just about relationships. Selfish favoritism spans into the work environment.
I am not counting on finding a loyal companion in a lifetime.
I was listening to Doctor radio Sirius XM. A British woman complained that in 20 years in Canada she couldn't find one friend that wanted another friend. Everyone had there high school friends and didn't want anymore. I was in REI. They didn't have my size jacket so I was taking a pic of it to order online. A girl noticed me and turned away when she noticed I was taking a pic. It was obvious that I peeked her interest in an expensive store. But was turned off the moment she saw the cell phone camera. I was in Walgreens dressed nice by chance. Cashier tried to start a conversation. I don't mind women who are practical and need financial stability in a man. But I think that people are too fast paced busy to make quality friendships and would rather add rich people to their group.
"3. Marriage basically lets women control you"
You sir, just sold the idea of marriage to me.
Interesting take, some truths but also some gross over generalisations.
Only 7 and you still had to use "Let's women control you" ?
What are you, a man or a mouse?
No woman controls you unless you let her. God damn...
40% to 50% of marriages in the USA end in divorce. What rational person would risk half of everything with those odds under current no-fault divorce law?
so you're the glass half empty kinda guy. half of the marriages survive. and what do these statistics have to do with you? it's not law
Don’t fall for the prenup either, they get thrown out all the time!
MGTOW!!
Just stay in a relationship and don’t live with them either as it can become a legal battle as well depending on where you live.
do you have a mom and if so are you parents divorced?
why the question? i've been raised with my mom and i fully agree with him.
@Takyon did she hurt u
Yes, but i don't care.
@Takyon ok so there you go, there's the answer to the reason you don't agree with marriage you were hurt by the woman who was support to make you a man and tech you about the world and what goes on it in and when you get emotionally, or physically hurt by that person you don't look at them or think of them as the way a child should, because you no longer have any imagine in your head of her except the abuse/hurt you went through.
I have 20 years and i have never seen a good marriage or even a good relationship in my life.
@Takyon you have never seen one, or have you never wanted to see one