Top 10 Rules to Finding Your Husband (Page 10)

[dudeman]

And yea if women are having sex with men in the past sooner she treated them better and it makes it worse that she treated them better and they didn't mean anything to her this is like the women who have had threesomes but won't with their husband because she doesn't want to share him when she had no problem giving a guy she didn't care aboit a great time with one of,her friends. Like I said I agree with rule three if she is a virgin if she is not she is setting herself up for failure

[dudeman]

And I fully understand what you are saying but for that logic to work out a women has to put less value on a mans nature and therefore sees him as less of a humen then herself which is why its insulting. She wanted to sleep around now she wants to play good girl and ma,e a deserving man jump threw hoops its a ridicoulous mentality

[dudeman]

Ok the thing is I don't care what her intetions are I care about facts like he psid less for a better product and most men will see it this way. Its one of those hard facts of life the only thing I care aboyt are the numbers I don't care about how she justifies it

[dudeman]

On part of male nature you forgot is that men don't like being ripped off and if a man has to put more energy in the other men he will feel cheated he is essentially paying more for a product others got cheaper an now the product is older less attractive and more used therefore its a rip off I imagine the guy that will be OK with this is also the guy who will marry a single mom

[dudeman]

@the christiam it would be bad advice to tell women to wait for sex till marriage if they have already been having sex, this will back fire with most men and most would feel insulted and like he meams less to you and you desire him less as well I have left many women for things similar to this and no mamy men who have as well

[dudeman]

W enforcement the next logical thing will be social programs. It seems somewhere atound ninteet sixty feminost convinced women to have free love and just forgot about the fact that women have nabies and men do not. Women are the gate keepers and a man should prove homself wortjy to obtain access to a womens womb sadly about forty percent of children are now born to single moms

[dudeman]

Happy apple sex isn't something people shate at least fore yhe last few thousand years it hasnt, do you know why religions made it a sin to have sex out of wedlock, no I didn't think so but I will tell you. It was necause of all the dead bastard babies dead in the trash sn in the street yhat yhe mothers couldn't care for on their own we don't see it today because of abortion and welfare systems but this is going to change in yhe coming future seeing they already cut spending in education and law

[Jay-Man]

First of all, thanks for your well wishes. Ditto. What I'm trying to teach women is that they're going to make mistakes, in this part of my life I've already made too many. Life is all about learning. If we don't learn we stop growing. Obviously your plan worked for you, congratulations. However, let me ask you this: how can women achieve equality with men if people like yourself want to tell them how to avoid pain? The things that do not kill us...

[MaskedSanity]

You should seriously stop writing articles, because you clearly have no idea what you're talking about.

Just stop. And stop imposing your personal life as an example for how to do things "correctly". Your conceitedness is staggering.

[TheChristian]

@RedSmartie...thanks for reading and commenting. I'm glad it helped and I'm glad you told me it helped. This site can be very discouraging with some peoples comments but if I help one I feel better. Thanks again. Wish you the best.

[happy_drifter]

Its interesting that after having sex, a hormone is released that strengthens the emotional connection between the two people. What is more interesting is that this hormone stays in the girl's system for a few weeks, but only a few days in the guy.

[Hidden_P]

I'm not sure I agree with this.

I read it, but I can't help that feel what worked for you might not work for someone else. Have you discussed them with another girl and agreed or is this just what you feel went right?

[TheChristian]

@Andromacha...thanks for your comment. You and I are both on the same page :). I definitely agree that God provides you with your mate. he brought me someone that was a better match for me than I myself would have picked out lol

[Andromacha]

This is good.. but I would add praying and asking the LORD to bring our future man to us. He is the maker of all of us. He would know who is compatible with who and I even go as far to believe that God has made a guy out there for me :)

[kholland65]

Don't agree with the sex part. How are you supposed to know if the two of you are sexually compatible. Using your analogy, what if I buy the food without sampling it, only to find out I hate the taste?

[TheChristian]

@relationshipDNA...I wish it was easy to explain lol. I can't say that I understood it myself until it actually happened so I can't be too mad at other women. I guess I just want them to know that it is possible and it should be the goal.

[TheChristian]

Stated, if your only concern in this world is yourself then you will be just fine not getting married and probably is best that way. Marriage is a selfless act in various ways so I agree its not meant for everyone.

[TheChristian]

for your comments and wish you all the best. I am sure you will remember at some point in your future as this will come up again with someone lol. Thanks again. Hope you read and comment on my future articles, you're a great discussion partner :)

[TheChristian]

@dudeman...thanks a bunch. Completely understand your opinion. Believe me, when I wrote that rule I didn't think that there would be a man that would agree with it lol so no worries on our difference of opinion. Thanks again

[TheChristian]

@jayman+dudeman...its like your future wife getting jealous of all the things you did sexually with an ex fling and saying that because you did something with the past fling you have to do it all with her too lol.