First off bro, take a deep breath, relax, clear your mind and sort through this mentally for the challenges ahead. While this is difficult, you can overcome it and make lemonade out of the lemon. First off, talk with her and get her thoughts, then a paternity test at some point. The baby should not pay for the mistake both of you made. Agree to keep the baby and prepare to team up for parenting with her - this is where you have to man up. If it's yours, you financially support the baby either with her or without her (preferably with her as a child deserves to have two parents actively in their life). Tough times don't last but tough people do. Also, pray a lot and that will help you through the upcoming rough spots. You can do this!
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Well, maybe she'll leave him for you. Suck it up... you need to take responsibility...
Remember this rule: "wrap it before you tap it" Although, it is too late now.
You need to make First After Five here, dear, that she is telling you the Bare Truth and Not be Lying to you as an Excuse To... Leave him and hook up with you.
Make some arrangements to meet up and talk alone. Tell her you have to Have proof in the Semi sweet Pudding that this the Fact and go on from there.
And even if it is a Reality, Make certain too that You are the Daddy, for One never knows what Goes behind closed doors after the job is done at the end of the day, even when living under the same Rough Roof.
Good luck. xx
Well firstly the option of having safe sex clearly got thrown out the window, secondly you have to own up to what you have done, doesn't necessarily mean you have to talk to her husband however you two will have to figure out what to do and find something you both agree on. Doesn't mean you have to go and date her and or marry her.
sounds like you got yourself a girl and a kid. Congrats
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She should leave him and have an abortion. Then reasses.
first thing are you looking to have a relationship with this woman
look you need to find out if the child is yours and step up if it is that's on you for not using a condom. support her for leaving the bad relationship as a friend she will need this.A big fat mess... thats what youve gotten urself into. If she leaves her husband and keeps the baby you should support her and maybe start a relationship with her and see where it goes. You made the choice to have sex with her and knew the possibility of getting her pregnant. There is always a possibility when having sex with any women. Bad decisions have consequences and the poor child shouldn't have to suffer without a dad because you couldnt keep it in your pants.
Be very careful, you don't know for sure that it's your baby.
Fool, why you no use protection?
You reap what you sow my friend. You sowed your seed and now you'll have the fun of watching it grow for 9 months. Good luck.
Ask her to abort the baby ! If she keep the baby to tie you up, threat her that you will hit her with a car. Never have a kid from a cheater, be crazy lol
You embodied this quote:
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We go 0 to 100, nigga, real quick"You've made your bed, now lie in it...
Your ass is getting fired, bitch
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'Rescue' her. Make her your wife then...
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