My first and true love was star crossed back in high school. Truly a woman who caused music to play in heaven. Even today I melt at her voice. For some reason she never saw me in her life even though we dated in school. We are both divorced today but she does not want to be with me. I know I have changed from who I was then but considering what her life has been through, I have no idea how scared she is or deep her wounds go. I tried to break through but she only talked to me as a means of politely catching up on old friends. A block of ice when romantic or flirtatious conversations occured.
I messed up probably the best relationship I could have had. I ended up marrying someone else years later, but still wished I'd had the other girl. If the option arose, I would have left for her.
It took almost twenty years to get over her.
In my case if I've had someone else in mind; but it didn't work out, then someone else comes along, he would eventually have become the top of my list if I married him. It wouldn't be fair to him if he would always be thought of as my second place. Bitch move there.
My fiance is the top of my list. He's the sun, the moon, and all the stars.
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I never settle. Ever. I make sure that I'm good enough to be considered girls' first choice, and I don't pursue girls as fallback options.
Of course you marry your first choice. Were you *right* or *wrong* in your choosing is the better question.
I think realistically most people do. I mean honestly who actually gets to be with the person they are most attracted to?
Even worse- I ended up marrying my third choice, with predictable results...
i not marrying my sloopy seconds or the same for me its a insults and a downgrade im only settling for the best
The first guy I imagined marrying died.
She isn't even on the list.
I am never getting married.
I have married my second choice
no i have not married anyone yet
Second choice?
No...
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