Girls, what are your plans for if nobody asks you to marry them?

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one aspect of the redpill that is undeniable that marriage is a bad deal. The redpill is the cause of much shame, since it shines a light on the worst parts of intersexual dynamics.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

That has never cross my mind.
nor was marriage. I am not the type who have my wedding plan out at a young age.
the Right time, right maturity, right standards, I met the right men who will want what I want.
looking back, the 4 serious relationships I had/have all wanted marriage with me and told me I am a marriage material. Not the type boys want to play with.
they told me I make a good mom. They saw how I cared for my little sister at that time.
my college wanted to marriage me.
didn’t work because he came from a culture that would not allow... so we had to end.
I took some years to grow. met my ex husband. 2 kids
didn’t work out. Took time to heal.
met my ex boyfriend. He wanted to marriage me.
a good guy from a good family but I can’t marry a man who is a functional drunk... don’t want my 2 kids to be in that environment.
no kids, I would have stayed with him.

now my boyfriend... soon to be husband...
long story... he was forever single till he met me.. now he regret not meeting me sooner in his life time... to have a family with me.
now I am done with having kids but, he changed his mind being single to wanting a family.
so no I am not a cat woman or to stay single or alone.

Deimy · Accepted Answer

I will try to live the best as I can.

modelUN242 · Answer

Well, I'm very lucky that my boyfriend wants us to get married next year (I'll be 22) even though he's redpilled af. He did vet me a lot which was exhausting but I understand why men don't want to get married because of trust issues. I wanted to get married as early as possible just because most guys prefer younger girls.

If let's say I never met him and I become older and no one has still asked me to marry them, I'd find that weird. Because, I date towards marriage, so obviously the guys who want to date for fun wouldn't be my choice at all.

LogicalGal123 · Answer

I have been asked so many times and I said NO.
Here are my reasons... I grew up with divorced parents. Each side has gone through 3rd or 4th marriage 🤦🏻‍♀️. One thing that is still stuck to me till this day. He said "marriage is sacred, make sure to find someone who U can see urself in the future with for the rest of ur life." So far I see no future with any guy I'm with. Also, marriage is expensive, and divorced is also expensive. NO one can make u happy but urself, and no one can love than urself. I am happy where I'm at, no need to worry about anything and living my best life.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Live my life. Make my money. Buy a dog. Travel. Basically everything I'm doing now but the travel would be half as expensive lol

Siren777 · Answer

I've been asked a few times. I've accepted thrice and none of it worked out. I wish everyone the best nonetheless. There are no guarantees in life. It's pretty much a gamble as you never know the outcome. Personally it's their decision. If they're happy to be single and free of commitments thats okay, if someone wants marriage and commitment thats okay too. Either way, let people live their lives. I choose to be happy whether thats on my own, buying a farm with so many animals and living in peace or sharing it with someone. Regardless il make all my dreams happen and desires come true. We have free will. Whether we want to conform to societies standards or not.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Well thankfully for me, I don't want to get married, so that's not an issue for me regardless! LOL.

So if I never find a relationship- which is very plausible, I'm just going to continue living my life like I have for the past 35 years. That's it. A relationship status does NOT define me, or anyone, as a person.

I've been single all this time, thriving, and living my life just fine... and not to gloat, but I'm happier than most of my friends and coworkers that are married or in relationships! Why? Because I'm able to do what I want, when I want without stressing over accommodating a partner, or scheduling my life around other people. Is that selfish? Maybe. But that's my choice! So my plans are to just continue living life, work hard, travel, and enjoy being awesome.

Oh, and get a dog. I'm not a "cat lady," but I'll happily be a dog lady, LOL

Screenwriter · Answer

Everyone should have a life plan. It'd be nice if you could find a longterm partner and do all that entails, but FIRST, FIRST, plan what you'd like to do on your own.
THEN, include the other person who might come along in those plans.
If no one comes along, you STILL have a plan for your life.
If someone arrives, they can share your joy in your life plan and meld your two plans together.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I've been married & divorced, it honestly isn't the end of the damned world to never get married.
I'm in a great relationship right now, & I would love to spend as long as possible with him, regardless if he asked me to marry him or not.
If I'm single, I'm going to live my life happy I can do whatever I want.
If I'm in a relationship, not be upset that he doesn't want to get married. Be happy with my life with him.

HOAAH · Answer

When i was 23, i had a pet fish!! I loved him so much. He was soo beautiful!!

If i never married... I would love to make close friends and see each other daily... Maybe even live together. We could travel together and hang out all day every day. I did kind of do that before getting married! It was kind of fun.

bobalife · Answer

Living my BEST life and continue to make it meaningful like I am right now. Spoiled myself af. Continue to devote my precious time for my family & friends as I already do. Traveled around the world and volunteer across country. There's just so much more to life that I can say :) Definitely be a fur mama, turtle mama, and rabbit mama hehe.

amadimal · Answer

What is the ”redpill”?
Anyway, I'm already in my 30's and I don't plan to marry or have children. I would only consider marriage if a right man would come along. I'm mostly focusing on health, career and hobbies and not forcing anything like a marriage in my life.

Hidden_P · Answer

Pretty much as is now.

Look after my dad. Try not to die from auto immune conditions. Cuddle my cat. Remind my brother he’s a huge twat. Etc.

I’m 28, nobody’s ever been interested in marrying me. I can’t see that changing with age.

mstranger · Answer

Just enjoy life. I have such a long wish list, I don't think marriage is there in it.
I have passion for learning new things, so I will focus on it after getting my CA degree.
I am myself thinking of not marrying anyone because I have seen the worst marriages while growing up.

sheikalana · Answer

I'm already in my 30s so I don't like to waste my time. Before starting dating someone I ask them if they have plans to get married and have kids if he says no, means we are not meant to be and don't have the same goals in life. That's when I move on and find someone who has the same goals as me in life.

Anonymous · Answer

I’d go to a sperm bank so I can have children. Never marrying won’t stop me from having a child or two or three. I have thought of having one of my own children from a sperm donor and then maybe adopting children and not babies but any young child or even a teen! Either way I’m having kids may they be biologically mine or not😊

justonequestione1892 · Answer

Well I really hope that happens eventually. But if not? I'll probably go do some crazy shit like make my own company or play around a bit and then yeah buy cats :)

Bee-Hatch · Answer

Cool propaganda for a minority way of thinking dude. What next flat earth or vaccines are bad?

No woman with self respect pins her worth on a marriage. That's quite a demeaning way to think about women.

MzAsh · Answer

That’s not easy to imagine since I’m already married, but if I didn’t know my man, I’d live my life as usual with an abundance mentality. Men shouldn’t be the center of a woman’s universe.

Alpha09 · Answer

Live my life lol. I'm considering forgoing marriage actually anyway. If I don't end up with someone long term I'll just make my money, travel, have a sweet house with pets and maybe a few friends with benefits. Who knows 🤷

Agape93 · Answer

As I always have, just live my life. I don’t need a marriage to feel happy and be with a good partner.

Ninani · Answer

I have been married, it's overrated. I'll live my life the way I want, and should someone show up with the intention to marry me, he better not try to change me.

fonduegirl · Answer

Buy a mansion where nobody would judge me for bringing a different man every night. And for screaming.

With a lawn, plus a little insurance and also, where I live lavishly with my best friend, an aroace.

Daisy007 · Answer

Hmm well that's the furthest thing from my mind at the moment. I'm in no rush for a relationship or marriage. I am just enjoying the time with the people I care about the most :)

Bratsondanielle · Answer

I'll happily go without marriage and just have boyfriends

rodeschaap · Answer

I don't care whether I marry or not. Marriage isn't necessary to live together or have kids.

Kas19 · Answer

If I'm in love with them, I don't care. I'd like to get married, but if my boyfriend decides he doesn't want to, that's cool with me.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Ask him myself, if I have a partner that I want to marry. If not, just keep going on with my life. Work, travel, spend time with my family, friends, and so on.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Adopt* cats and live with my boyfriend because marriage is stooopid

aliali8 · Answer

I'm just gonna have my own children. Marrying someone you do not love just for the sake of being married will only result in divorce

nevernevernever · Answer

my plans don't include marriage, if the right guy comes along I'd change my plans for him

IveGotNoName · Answer

I won't be married, and I'll live my life? What are you trying to get us to answer?

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