Do people from my generation not care about the vows they've made?

[Alwayreckles93]

I notice this with my experience and other people my own age. My husband he is a year older then me. My marriage didn't worked out. One of my friends in the other hand her age (27) her husband's age (43). From what I've seen they love each other very much. At first my friends and I tough thier marriage wasn't going to work out but we were wrong , They are going on 4 year anniversary. My friend had an accident her husband was extremely worry, The two communcate very well , Yeah her husband truly loves her. We were wrong. Compare that man to my husband he calls me names , Everytime I try to have a serious adult conversation he covers his ears and says lalalalala like a 8 year old would or he would yelled OMG shut up and lives. He would spend hours playing Xbox. The rest It's a long story. I have been thinking now do people from older generation have true love

[Siren777]

It depends on their set of beliefs and how much they value and respect their marriage. I don't think people should marry if they're not willing to make that type of commitment but each opinion to their own. Everyone is not like this. Some people do take marriage seriously and are mature enough for the type of commitment but everyone is different. I wouldn't be able to paint people with the same brush. Lots of this generation is into hook up culture and others more traditional. So it would be best to choose wisely and compatibility is important. Also having the difficult decisions before making any major commitments.

[Anonymous]

your friend has to tough if out for the money security of her older husband... it's only been 4 years, doesn't mean it can't go wrong in another year...

in my opinion, this doesn't have to do with generations. it has to do with you choosing an immature guy and knowing how he acts around adult conversations and still agreeing to marry him...

[Alwayreckles93]

He wasn't like this when we dated

[Alwayreckles93]

Just so you know my husband he is Hispanic and he left me cheated on me with a illegal woman. There is only one thing she wants from my husband is that visa. I am calling ice because why should illegals be here taking our jobs and money?

[Alwayreckles93]

Now mind you my husband left me for a 40 year old illegal woman.

[Opinion Owner]

sorry that happened. and i agree about the illegals.

[Alwayreckles93]

Trump should have stay president , I am going to try to send her back to whatever place she belongs. An illegal is going to take my man and disrespect me. I don't think so. They expect to come over our country and have people speak Spanish. I am not trying to be rude over here. My experience with these people are horrible. I am not racist. Just the way this people act disrespectful thinking they ruler the world. I pay tax and each of my pay check it gets taken of now this woman has the link card. Now how he hell is this fair. About age this woman is 40 and I know she is after my husband for just for the visa.

[Alwayreckles93]

About my friend and her husband they're both legal citizen they are both republican.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thanks girl, I'm alright. Hey I could be wrong the generation is not the issue maybe it is because I choose a man outside of my own.

[Alwayreckles93]

You there?

[Iron_Man]

I didn’t know that you were married? Not everybody but there’s a lot of loose people out there that are shady and sneaky they don’t care about the true traditions of a marriage through God and they like to go out and cheat. But a marriage through God is for life to honor each other and not to cheat.

[Alwayreckles93]

I'm separated now , He left me for a Hispanic woman.

[Iron_Man]

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re such a beautiful young female that’s disappointing

[Alwayreckles93]

Thank you

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[Exterminatore]

Your generation is the most morally bankrupt of all that are alive.


Vows come down to the individual as to whether or not they’re kept. That said your generation seems to place emphasis on what makes them happy as opposed to keeping their vows.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes Sir, I agree as I have notice this behavior with people my age or close to my age. I feel like people my age were raised to be spoiled brats.

[Exterminatore]

That’s because they were. They were force fed self esteem psychology, never held accountable for their actions because everything is child abuse, were held to increasingly low standards, and were given vast liberties and privilege often undeservedly.

[Alwayreckles93]

I was having a conversation with my friend the other day about this. Now a days especially people my age or younger neglect the rulers or have forgot what is like to have consideration and respect of others. An older woman can't call out a younger adult because they label her as a Karen when the sweet lady never said nothing just trying to teach the kid a lecture. now a days mostly people my age take things the wrong way.

[Exterminatore]

I’m not sure it’s they take things the wrong way so much as it is they don’t like being told they’re wrong or shouldn’t do something. It wounds their pride and people on the whole are rather prideful.

[Alwayreckles93]

Now a days my generation just do not care about reading the bible and fallowing the Lord's commentments.

[Alwayreckles93]

Following sorry Sir spell check

[Exterminatore]

Yes. It’s a tragedy. May God grant them and all of us repentance.

[nella965]

Studies have shown that large age gaps have much higher divorce rates compared to couples with a smaller age gap.

[Alwayreckles93]

My soon to be ex husband he is 29 Iam 28 we are heading for divorce.

[nella965]

you're looking at exceptions hun.

The reality is, your 27 and 43 yr old couple will end up with a lot of challanges as the yeras go by. She will reach a point where her husband can't sexually satisfy her in bed. There will be a point where even going on a walk will be unpleasant for her because her husband cannot keep up with her pace. There will be a time where she wants to explore on a whole new country while her husband (who doesn't have her energy level) prefers a quiet cruse with his fellow retirees. There will be a point where she feels more like a nanny than a wife.

These are all things that will strain their marriage and she will be the one to endure it. Frequently many people do not divorce in old age because they know that nobody else will marry them at 45

[nella965]

give her another 15- 20 years and then ask about how happy she is with the marriage. I can guarantee you that her marriage satisfaction will go down

[Alwayreckles93]

Good points you got there.

[RickDavis766]

There's some from my generation who don't care about vows either.

[Alwayreckles93]

I've noticed most people your generation take things more serious and mature.

[RickDavis766]

I do, but I've definitely encountered women my age who cheat and think rings and vows are just for show basically.

[Alwayreckles93]

They don't go nuts like some people my own age would.

[DaveToo]

This one's a toughie. He's obviously obsessed with everything but what was his marriage. Are children involved? Do you have your name on any property or vehicles with him? These things can complicate a breakup. For sure you would be well to be ride of him entirely.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Ol the people from your next generation are not even ready to take those vows and just fuck and forget.

In away you had somethings better and somethings worse than the next Gen

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Hmm so the thing is you know people used to marry women younger and men 5-10 years older to sync the maturity.

And since he has more experience in life and your friend is younger she would listen to his advice and he would expect only love from her so it becomes match and that how things roll he takes care of her and her needs and she does take care of his and that its

[Anonymous]

no the older generation is just blind

I can see it
I have a step dad
and even if he is not a bad guy

HE IS AN IDIOT
I look at the men of the past and they were not as smart
men are just realizing you women are not worth it
and you do not love us men

so we are opting out

[worldscolide]

Sounds to me like he was not grown up.. And he likely never will grow up..

[Dchrls78104]

This is why little children should stick to playing with toys, and not meddle in grown folks' business. Marriage and sex are not toys; they are for adults only.

[Alwayreckles93]

Interesting when he left me for a hispanic woman that is way way older then him seriously.

[Alwayreckles93]

I didn't mean that in a racist way.

[LiamSawyer]

Oh my, your husband is a bastard and doesn't truly love you. A wife is to be loved and cherished or at least that is what my parents taught me.

[loveslongnails]

Think more about getting a divorce, or do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this loser?

[Alwayreckles93]

Divorce is on its way , He cheated on me and more things. Not sure if I can't deal with pain any longer.

[loveslongnails]

Physical pain? If divorce is coming, get the hell out to someplace safe.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the individual. I've known guys in their 60s who treat their wife like complete shit and 18 year old guys who would literally give their life if it made their wife happy.

[FilmGuy93]

People our age are extremely self absorbed.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes I agree.

[Sabretooth]

Important values have lessened over time--with em, success.

[Ellie-V]

I don’t think the issue is age.

[clampfan101]

I will take them very seriously.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

The men do; the females don’t.

[COMMODOREII]

I am single 😎