Yeah, a lot of American women simply aren't interested in dating, so men have stopped even trying. The women want to have careers and have spent their entire lives being told that they have to make money to be desirable, so they go through life believing that they can hold off on having a family until later in life.
They are under the heartbreaking impression that their career will lead to an emotionally fulfilling life, but the reality of careers is that there's a lot of luck involved to being successful and you can fail really easily. So these career women are trading something that will definitely give them happiness (at least, having a family does for most women), in exchange for a chance to roll the dice on an extremely unlikely chance of financial success and an extremely likely chance of wasting the best years of their lives to become a mid level employee at a job that doesn't make the impact they were hoping to make.
Cus they party in their 20s on up to their 30s and by the time they’re 40, most finally have money.. they don’t have to worry about their biological clock.. so marriage and kids can wait for them
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If he joined the military at the age of 17 ? instead of party..
Some are more focused on the career early and they become successful. Marriage is not really a concern for them when their career is their top priority, and like I said, their stern doesn’t die as fast as a woman’s eggs.
Not this kid, there’s too many women out there that just want sex with no commitment to settle down with 1, and the nanosecond you get married the blow jobs stop the sex stops, you go to work and she’s screwing the plumber, no thanks
@rcljr Yes, and I thunk its relevent the ethnicity of the asker, her country and culture and the assumed ethnicity of the Americans she's interested in. In America, Blacks rarely marry, hispanics marry young and have a lower divorce rate along with muslims and other Semitic proples. Whites are all over the place depending on their particular community and political beliefs. There did used to be an "American culture" because there was only one dominate demographic. The question is just not relevant to a multi ethnic Empire.
@BlackBeauty90 , geez, that’s not very nice. What happened to give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses? Mind you I’m Conservative , never have and never will vote for a democrat, but America is the great melting pot.
@rcljr No one want to actually take on poor and tired masses of people. Couldnt make it where they were, they're just going to live off the work successful people here. Send em back!
@rcljr No I replied to the right idiot American. It was you who said this > What happened to give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses? Mind you I’m Conservative , never have and never will vote for a democrat, but America is the great melting pot.
White Americans have their own culture that has been given to them by the mass media. African Americans have rap and hip hop, some is authentic but most is corporate crap. White Americans have "pro" Wrestling and Big trucks. There is also a lot of pressure from the Corporate media to change peoples normal behaviour. Its way better to have 1-2 children but have the generations close together. Even after the lifespan went way up at the end of the industrial revolution people were still having their children close together. You see all kinds of social changes from no fault divorce, abortion and lowering wages so women had to work too as well as all sorts of propaganda telling men and women to have children later or that their is no reason to at all. White americans were the most numerous and wealthy people in America so they were the early adopters for all of that from fast food and frozen dinners with testosterone lowering ingredients, to buying their daughters teen vogue and sending their sons to college. Their also the early adopters of organic and local. You would be likely to find a young working class person who has seen through the media manipulation would be wanting to settle down whatever their race.
hahaha that what it seemed like to me as well. I need to get married to lower my tax liability. the problem is divorce, I dont want to give split my money after that.
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WHY ARE YOU YELLING? I'm guessing it's because either American women like older men or men don't want to settle down that early on.
so American men love young girl
I mean I don't know, I'm not American
oh okay
Many time American women just don't want to settle down. So the guys will just focus on their careers and such.
like soldiers..
Yeah, a lot of American women simply aren't interested in dating, so men have stopped even trying. The women want to have careers and have spent their entire lives being told that they have to make money to be desirable, so they go through life believing that they can hold off on having a family until later in life.
They are under the heartbreaking impression that their career will lead to an emotionally fulfilling life, but the reality of careers is that there's a lot of luck involved to being successful and you can fail really easily. So these career women are trading something that will definitely give them happiness (at least, having a family does for most women), in exchange for a chance to roll the dice on an extremely unlikely chance of financial success and an extremely likely chance of wasting the best years of their lives to become a mid level employee at a job that doesn't make the impact they were hoping to make.
Because we're smart. Besides money can't buy us happiness but it could sure buy us a nice boat to sail around all our misery.
They marry late mostly because girls are into partying and stuff.
And yes they obviously like foreigners too.
boys?
No, girls
Cus they party in their 20s on up to their 30s and by the time they’re 40, most finally have money.. they don’t have to worry about their biological clock.. so marriage and kids can wait for them
If he joined the military at the age of 17 ? instead of party..
Some are more focused on the career early and they become successful. Marriage is not really a concern for them when their career is their top priority, and like I said, their stern doesn’t die as fast as a woman’s eggs.
Sperm *
And I don’t think it’s a good idea to marry a military man.. they’re gone for so long.
A lot are unfaithful
Or at least, the wife is
HOW?
What do you mean how?
A lot of young people put off getting married to work on a career or pay down student loans.
The better question is why do men want to get married at all with all the bullshit involved.
Not this kid, there’s too many women out there that just want sex with no commitment to settle down with 1, and the nanosecond you get married the blow jobs stop the sex stops, you go to work and she’s screwing the plumber, no thanks
This is not a problem in America, it is a problem all over the world. Even in Turkey, the age of marriage is now 30 40.
One word: Money!
No money usually means no love.
Because marriage has very little if any benefits for men these days.
They marry late because they wanna find the right person. It's very difficult.
They basically want to sew their oats
what does it mean?
Most men do not marry late. Most men usually are married with kids by the time they are 36.
I assume by American you mean white?
Americans come in a variety of colors, just like paint.
@ToastyOats - well seeing as the first Americans would be native Americans so not "white" best you go back home across the pond & off American soil.
@BlackBeauty90 you first African.
@rcljr Yes, and I thunk its relevent the ethnicity of the asker, her country and culture and the assumed ethnicity of the Americans she's interested in. In America, Blacks rarely marry, hispanics marry young and have a lower divorce rate along with muslims and other Semitic proples. Whites are all over the place depending on their particular community and political beliefs. There did used to be an "American culture" because there was only one dominate demographic. The question is just not relevant to a multi ethnic Empire.
@BlackBeauty90 , geez, that’s not very nice. What happened to give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses? Mind you I’m Conservative , never have and never will vote for a democrat, but America is the great melting pot.
@rcljr No one want to actually take on poor and tired masses of people. Couldnt make it where they were, they're just going to live off the work successful people here. Send em back!
@rcljr What are you blubbering about, you ignorant uneducated American? The byproduct of people who couldn't make it in their home countries.
@BlackBeauty90 , excuse me? I think you replied to the wrong person.
@rcljr No I replied to the right idiot American. It was you who said this > What happened to give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses? Mind you I’m Conservative , never have and never will vote for a democrat, but America is the great melting pot.
No need for racist remarks... yeah white
White Americans have their own culture that has been given to them by the mass media. African Americans have rap and hip hop, some is authentic but most is corporate crap. White Americans have "pro" Wrestling and Big trucks. There is also a lot of pressure from the Corporate media to change peoples normal behaviour. Its way better to have 1-2 children but have the generations close together. Even after the lifespan went way up at the end of the industrial revolution people were still having their children close together. You see all kinds of social changes from no fault divorce, abortion and lowering wages so women had to work too as well as all sorts of propaganda telling men and women to have children later or that their is no reason to at all. White americans were the most numerous and wealthy people in America so they were the early adopters for all of that from fast food and frozen dinners with testosterone lowering ingredients, to buying their daughters teen vogue and sending their sons to college. Their also the early adopters of organic and local. You would be likely to find a young working class person who has seen through the media manipulation would be wanting to settle down whatever their race.
the best answer thanks
@BlackBeauty90 , and do you get your social assistance check in the mail or is it direct deposited?
Well, nobody I know married at that age range. It was all between 25-35. And nobody I know married a foreigner.
Because women are too picky.
sounds like you need a green card
absolutely
Thanks for being honest. Where are you from?
hahaha that what it seemed like to me as well. I need to get married to lower my tax liability. the problem is divorce, I dont want to give split my money after that.
My friends are all under 30 and married
wby? lol
Nah not that stupid
would you consider getting married?
No I wouldn't
I got it.
Marriage is worthless to men.
Because American women prefer to wait till later….
And that's exactly what feminism wants them to do. Hence the low marriage and birth rate.
@MalesGOD1 I hear about American women being a lot of feminists.