Every relationship is different. They will all have different dynamics that my not follow the "traditional" relationship/marriage.
That is what you get when you have two different personalities. Having your future husband as "submissive" is not a bad thing. Now if he is 100% "submissive" and doesn't even question you or provide any of his own input in the relationship, then that is an issue. Just as it would be an issue if the gender roles were reversed.
At the end of the day, there is no rule book stating who should be the "dominant" or who should be the "submissive" partner in any relationship. In fact, there doesn't even have to be a dominant or submissive.
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no, he's not supposed to be submissive to you at all. in fact he's supposed to protect you and provide for you. you're not supposed to be his servant or anything, but no real man likes to obey his life; that's for sure
I believe in traditional relationships so my answer is: Absolutely not BUT maybe he is not yet the type of man who inspires you to be submissive. See my Mytake Equality in a Relationships & Leadership
I don't even think you should get married if you guys aren't on the same page on this stuff.
So from what I gather you're a liberal and he's a conservative
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This can only go one way, take it away Tammy
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Why? You want him to be?
And do you mean for making decisions that would affect the relationship and the family, or do you mean just for intimacy/sexual stuff?Yeshua Cresto en Caelum...
JUST DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT!!!Only if he's kinky. You'll miss his masculine energy once he divorces you for treating him like a second class citizen.
Lol. No.
Y'all better not get married. Call it off now. You're going to get divorced. I guarantee it.Some guys like a dominant woman in bed I only had sex once but I know I'm submissive type
Sounds like both of you want to be the leader. Should've had a V-8
Women like to be dominated he should lay you down spread your legs and piledrive you like a man
Not unless that is your personal dynamic with him. You wouldn't be the first
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No you’re supposed to be submissive to him
No lol. You know you're supposed to submit to him.
That's between you and him
Are you both dominant
Uhm…. no.
Not in my world
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