Guys/married man, husband is there are times where you dont love your wife anymore? and what is the reason? and what did you do?

[Anonymous]

guys/married man, husband is there are times where you dont love your wife anymore? and what is the reason? and what did you do?

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have you cheated or chatted or talking with other women behind your wife back

[WanderingLoveWizard]

My sweet baby girl died before we could get married, but we were together for 6 years and owned a house together, so we were basically married.

There were times when I didn't feel "in love" with her, but I never once felt like I didn't love her anymore. I'd get really mad sometimes and tell myself I didn't, but I still knew deep down that if she was in any danger I would happily die to protect her in a heart beat.
I just wish I could've saved her from herself. I'd turn the gun on me and tell her to take me instead if I had the chance.

[Asker]

what she died?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yeah. She shot herself back in August.
Sorry that's TMI. Not trying to start a pity party. But to answer your question, there were never any times when I truly didn't love her.

[Asker]

why she shot herself? nothing to do with you

[Asker]

sorry to hear that

[Asker]

have you cheated or chatted or talking to other girls behind your wife back

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No, nothing like that. She was in a rough place in her life and she wasn't thinking straight. I did fuck up though. I missed all the signs and I just assumed she would be ok and didn't pay enough attention to ask her how she was feeling about life and if she was ok. I'll hate myself every day for the rest of my life for not being there in the way that she needed me to be. I vowed to protect her and give her a happy life and I failed her

[Asker]

what signs she does that you never notice

[Asker]

whats the reason she was like that? is she depressed or something

[WanderingLoveWizard]

There's so many reasons it's not even worth going into. She was dealt a rough hand in life.
A couple of the signs were her saying she didn't want kids anymore and staying on the couch all day instead of wanting to get out and do things.
Both were way out of character for her.
She felt hopeless and gave up. Her disability and family history of mental illness didn't help either.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

In hindsight, she was obviously depressed. I just didn't realize at the time because I was too focused on things going on at work and other meaningleas bullshit.
And people who take their own lives typically don't come out and let people know how they're feeling. They bottle everything up and act like they're ok, then towards the end they seem like they're all better and feeling good. That's because they've finally decided there's a way out and there's nothing to worry about anymore

[Asker]

sorry to hear that, if you know the signs, what you should have done to avoid it?

[riverrat3]

It's not that I do not love wife, just would like something different

[Asker]

what you mean

[riverrat3]

Sometimes just want to talk to or be with a different woman

[Asker]

have you cheated or chatted or talking to other girls behind your wife back

[riverrat3]

Chatted

[riverrat3]

Have you done either

[Asker]

you chatted other girls while your married?

[riverrat3]

Yes, just talk

[Asker]

and you flirt and ask them pics

[Asker]

talking to girls online is cheating

[Asker]

and you have a wife

[riverrat3]

i never ask for pics, and i never said i flirted