If you were a high value man and could attract beautiful women, who would you choose to marry?

[Adaeva]

Updates

+1 y

As of 4/18/23, 9 people selected the virgin. 6 selected the classy 25 year old, 4 selected the hot 22 year old, 1 person selected the pretty 19 year old, and 1 person selected the rich 30 year. The sexy 27 year old has not been selected.

Studies show virgins have the happiest marriages and are the least likely to divorce. People who avoid sex before marriage might simply value marriage more highly. www.theatlantic.com/.../

Updates

+1 y

I would have liked to includes more information about the 6 women but was prevented by GAG's character limit. Therefore, I had to combine photos, or else, I exceed GAGs limit. For example, if GAG allowed it, I would have said the 19 YO had sex one time on prom night with her high school boyfriend and lots of other information about her and the others, but GAG's character and/or photo limit prevented it. Therefore, to answer the question, assume all unknowns are equal and acceptable.

[D_Bone_Steak]

18-year-old virgin. Her ability to pair bond isn't fucked yet by a high body count, and she could provide many years of fun before she hits the wall... and the wall is undefeated. The vagina is guaranteed to not be blown out... the chick with 1 in her body count might of been getting blown out and left dripping and walking funny on her way to the bathroom who knows how many times. Chad Thundercock probably blew out her butthole as well and now she has 'issues' at holding her poop. She might even be alpha widowed and will compare everything I do to Chad T. I don't want that.

Plus I like that new car smell. Have you ever gotten a rental car and you just know the last dude to rent this thing smoked weed in it and let a dog shit in the back seat? I want that new car smell.

[Adaeva]

Your choice and the reasons for your choice are logical. However, regarding the 19 year old, extremely rare exceptions don't make the rule. If she as perverted as you describe, her body count would be greater than 1 and probably greater than 50. However, if, as in the first case, you are logical and assume what would be the case 95% of the time for under age 20 pretty girls, she would have had term penile-vaginal intercourse one time or else for only a brief period of time.

[D_Bone_Steak]

If I have more options than 1, I'll take that all of them except the bottom 2. But under the assumption I can only marry 1... I'll just take the best deal I see.

These are just ideal scenarios though... IRL these kinds of options are few and far between. IRL I'm still grabbing the best deals I can see around me.

I'd be highly suspicious of the wealthy 30 year old though... why is she wealthy? Did she get it from winning all the cash and prizes from two divorces already? I'd be very cautious and insure she can't also divorce-rape me as well.

[Ironic_Method]

I'd choose my wife, again.

[4ngelic]

if i was a hot dude the same age i'd take the hot 22 yo. think she's the best looking face wise and has a really good body in the pics, is the closest to my age and i dont think if a girl is a total virgin that would be like the best you know for me at least. also not into the older girls cos i'm younger than them, 18 is almost pushing it a little age wise like i'd have an almost 4 year diff with her and the 19yo wouldn't be my type physically

[Adaeva]

I believe based on your stated reasons, you choice of the hot 22 year old is logical. Certainly, the hot 22 year old is beautiful. So far, the only woman that no one has selected except as a second choice is the pretty 19 year old.

[Sugar100]

I’m not a guy but I would choose 25 year old classy blunt count 4 🤣 I guess cuz she resembles me & we look alike

[Adaeva]

Guy value purity but in our society that is hard to find. Therefore, I am certain that most guys in their upper 20s to mid thirties would be delighted to have her, especially since they probably would not have much in common with a teenager.

[Sugar100]

The classy 25 year old?

[Adaeva]

Yes! In case I didn't make that clear.

[virtue2332]

To each his own but To me if a man has some bodies under his belt and looks down or is somehow turned is probably just intimidated or insecure. He knows he is not putting down like that so he wants her to have zero or as few as possible because he just doesn't have the confidence to deal with that. Thats just my opinion and what i have gotten from conversations Iv'e had with guys like that. This is strictly guy that have had a bunch of experiences. Guys that have 20 plus bodies but wants to call a girl a ho if she has more than 2. If a Guys a virgin and wants a Virgin to experience this with after marriage that's on them. But back to the question looks and body count would be further down the list than personality, loyalty, goal driven or if they are family oriented want kids etc..

[AdithyaR]

Can't choose, none of these tell me anything about what kind of person they are. Looks only go so far for me. I'd need to know what kind of person they are, their likes and dislikes, hobbies, dreams and aspirations, morals. There's a lot of factors I'd look at while choosing a long term partner.

[Adaeva]

Don't go off the deep end. For the purpose of answering the question, other than the known--looks and a brief description--you should assume all other characteristics are identical and and acceptable.

[AdithyaR]

Then the 22 year old since she's the same age as me

[Adaeva]

Based on your reason, I believe that is a logical choice.

[ColHathi]

Maybe the classy or sexy one. I imagine I'd have a higher chance of getting along with one of those. Like what Fireguy17 said, my priority wouldn't be their looks, their money, their body count, or their sexual prowess. That's all nonsense that doesn't matter. Superficial things.

[ColHathi]

Regarding the update, I don't know if you counted my maybe's, but I did include the sexy one in that.

[Adaeva]

At first, when counting, I was giving 1/2 when there was two choices. However, GAG's character limit, prevented me from including all of the second paragraph, Therefore, to include the second paragraph, I deleted 1/2s and just counted the first one listed. Even so, I was right at GAG's character limit.

[Berethor]

Young women tend to have better looks and lower body count so they tend to be superior.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/no_hymen,_no_diamond

[Paul_in_Indy]

I would choose to have sex with as many of those above as I could. Getting married would really limit me

[Adaeva]

I cannot say, that is not logical.

[Paul_in_Indy]

All of these look attractive. I think the girl on the boat would be my first choice, though

[BungusHighFivePizza]

As a guy with lots of money (not sure about high-value), I got my share of lap dances and even from 3 girls at one time. I've kind of matured to a point where I just want to talk a woman before I decide if she's attractive or not. Not talking personality so much as compatibility.

[BCA6010]

Ignoring the photos, teens are too young. 22 is really pushing it, and would have to be like a 1 in 10,000,000 to be considered. The remaining 3 would be on more or less equal footing without more information.

Taking looks into account, the 25yr old looks the best, period. None of this really matters though because if they don't have personalities I like, then none of them stand a chance.

[notwoke]

in these pics, the 19 year old. you can see she is naturally thin and not prone to weight gain, other wise the 18 yr old, one more year of good sex you'll get out of her. Asian is always an advantage of course

[Adaeva]

You are the only person that selected they 19 year old. For the reason you stated, I believe that is very good choice. Also, studies have shown that women with body counts of 0 and 1 are the least likely to divorce.

[sunflower00]

You think sex with a woman is only good until she turns 19?

[Adaeva]

@sunflower00 Probably not. However, I believe most men, provided they could attract them, would prefer to have sex with a girl in her late teens and early to mid twenties over a women in her mid thirties.

[notwoke]

@sunflower00 no, but whatever age that ends, the 18 year has one additional year before she hits that wall. Somewhere between 50 and 70, women just stop having any desire to have sex which results in her either cutting you out altogether or placating you which is nearly as bad

[sunflower00]

@notwoke what wall?

[Adaeva]

@sunflower00 Can you not read? He described the wall as between 50 and 70.

[sunflower00]

@Adaeva he said the 18 year old has one additional year before she hits the wall, which I was confused about but now I understand after looking back, no need to be rude lmao

[Adaeva]

@sunflower00 What possible difference would a year make when the wall would not occur for another 32 to 52 year and, since all women different, the 18 year old may hit wall before the 30 year old does. Therefore, I should have been tactful and I feel adequately chastised for my rudeness.

[notwoke]

did i mention how nice and skinny the 19 year old pic is? YUM

[mobiusforniner]

I married the virgin.

But if you asked me again, I'd go with the 25 and classy.

[Adaeva]

That is interesting.

[OfMiceandMen]

Wealthy 30 year old. She's more "age appropriate", next door girl pretty, and it looks like a nice ⛵.🤔😂

A body count of nine is no big deal.

[FilmGuy93]

Probably the classy lady, but it's a split between hot and classy.

[Adaeva]

At your age, you might not have a lot in common with teens. Therefore, for you, I believe you made excellent choices.

[wannabecuck-2]

I dont care about body count aslong as she was loyal and decent looking and not fat and complaicent of a person.

[wannabecuck-2]

A person can be on a hoe phase and not commit. Tru testiment of a person is when a person denies all offers when they are commited.

[wannabecuck-2]

Body count is not a criteria to tell someones loyality but it is a factor that could help u find if someone had cheated someone in past.

[Adaeva]

@wannabecuck-2 Re: your comment "had cheated..." It might also, indicate if they are more likely to cheat.

[wannabecuck-2]

If someones likely to cheat i d rather walk off cuz i care more about stablity in life of me and my family.

[wannabecuck-2]

The decision is for me family not me better to walk away from such scums

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't marry, why would i want to do that?

If that were my situation I would have all the pussy i ever wanted and could father as many children as i cared to.

Marriage offers no benefit what so ever to someone in this position.

[Jamie05rhs]

None of the above. Because I do want to marry a virgin, but 18 is way too young.

[Jamie05rhs]

"I would have said the 19 YO had sex one time on prom night with her high school boyfriend". I don't care why, when, where, or how she had sex. The fact is that she did it.

[Adaeva]

@Jamie05rhs Would if matter if one time on prom night or if 200 times with her boyfriend starting at age 14 until she graduated high school? If only one guy, in both cases her body count would be 1.

[Jamie05rhs]

@adaeva It's all the same to me. But losing her virginity on prom night is particularly repulsive. Because it shows poor judgement and a lack of self control. And it's an extremely trashy thing to do, because you're going straight from a formal dress-up event to getting naked and getting dicked. The contrast couldn't be any more glaring. And such a short turnaround, too. Going from a lady to a ho in the very same evening. It's just super cringe. I could never respect a girl who did that.

[Adaeva]

@Jamie05rhs Then since that is how you think, obviously, she is a not a girl that you should consider. However, there are not many virgins after age 20. According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the average American who ends up having penis-and-vaginal intercourse does so for the first time around the age of 17. This age has something to do with how stable your family life is, peer pressure, personality and, according to a recent study, even your genes. But between 12-14 percent of adults aged 20-24 have never had sex. This number drops to around five percent for adults aged 25-29, and by age 44, only around 0.3 percent of adults report never having had the type of sex that could end in somebody getting pregnant. Keep in mind that these statistics are for Americans. health.howstuffworks.com/.../...never-have-sex.htm

[Jamie05rhs]

@Adaeva Yes; I am fully aware of that. Yes, I know that the odds are stacked against me. Yes, I know that my pool of potential prospects is shrinking every year. I do accept that, and I accept the potential reality that I may never find her.

It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Believe me, if I knew how to find the woman that I was looking for, I would have done so LONG ago. I simply was not equipped with the right tools (to search for her, and then also to woo her.)

[SunnyRS]

According to the options I would say the classy 25 years old as she is the same age as me.
But if according to the photos not age then I am a sucker for red hair girls so that's another option I would like to choose.

[Miristheiss]

18 year old virgin... of course.

I don't even have to think about it.

[RavVid]

I would look more for a high value beautiful character than a beautiful body

[Freyke]

The only one who I see has something other than looks is the classy one. So I pick her. Having class is attractive.

[Anonymous]

I’d go 22 year old body count 3. As much as I would like 18 year old virgin I think the maturity level difference between an 18 and 22 year old is probably huge. And 18 is potentially too problematic.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually screw it id roll the dice and go 18 and deal with whatever shit comes my way

[Anonymous]

I'd take the 30 year old, she's wealthy and probably therefore understands business

[Adaeva]

That might give you a lifestyle, you would otherwise have.

[Opinion Owner]

See if I'm high value I'll be doing 100 hours a week so marrying someone doing similar makes the most sense

[HighValue]

Which one will agree to a prenuptial agreement, have no tattoos, no past of using drugs, no contact with any ex, and doesn't post provocative/revealing pictures online?

[Anonymous]

Well I'd probably look for the most compatible in my age range I think for dating, with the lowest body count ideally that I'm attracted to. It's a very big and adjusting scale I think. And it depends how much the photos provide account for it as the personality is unknown from this which is a big thing. As no point if you can't stand each other.

[misogynistic_pig]

Virgin of 18 years, although it could be less since in my neighborhood there are gypsies and the minimum age for marriage is 14 years.

[VikingWarLord]

high value dudes like me would figure out a way to get MULTIPLE of these heauxs at one time.

I've already been there and done that. They actually want you MORE when they find out you already have a harem of them too.

[SawerBrown]

The one thst looks as cute as you but had a mature great outlook on life and a personality to match.

[invalid1]

It doesn't matter! as long as I have the connection with her.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’d marry Noura. She’s a tad younger than I, and I care not how many dudes She screwed, although I reckon She’s virgin.

[Trapgoose]

Whichever one that actually was attracted to me

[ImalwaysrightOK]

18 yo virgin obviously.

[Adaeva]

Before posting, I was going to say, "I believe most men would choose the virgin" but I didn't so as to not influence the replies.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I wouldn't mind any of those ages actually, but I do believe that a wife material girl is better a virgin.

[PointTaken]

I would choose the one I get along with, have some in common that we always have fun and laugh, the one that I fall in love with.

[Fireguy17]

the one with the best personality that best matches what I am looking for in a partner.

[Adaeva]

Interesting choice.

[ilovelamp]

This, which should be obvious, but somehow isn't.

Adaeva would you marry a man, choose a life partner with looks as the most important quality?

[Adaeva]

@ilovelamp Looks may be the most important quality but it is not the only quality and it is not more important than all the other qualities such as education, occupation, income. family, personality. Therefore, even looks is 30% and none of the other factors is greater than 25%, I would not choose on looks without considering the other factors.

[Adaeva]

@ilovelamp Nevertheless, what is known from the question are looks and a brief description. Therefore, in answering the question. assume all other factors are equal and acceptable.

[ilovelamp]

Ok well assuming they all have the same qualities that i would want in a wife. Such as loyalty / fidelity which is a unicorn these days.

Which makes this solely based on the looks and body count, i'd go with the 30 year old.

These are all relatively low body counts.

[Adaeva]

@ilovelamp Per Andrew G. Thomas Ph. D., Psychology Today:

What if you have a bit of a past, or maybe none at all? Should you be worried about your mating prospects? Perhaps, but I wouldn’t worry too much. As I mentioned earlier, this study excluded many of the rich cues we use when choosing mates. Sexual history might be important to some, but it might be trumped by other, more important, traits. More research is needed, but I suspect an “undesirable” sexual history might matter less than being a kind, intelligent, and ambitious suitor.

[Fireguy17]

like Judge Judy says, beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why is body count increasing with age?

I am 26 and have only had one partner- my ex fiance.

[Adaeva]

It is a fact that body count increases with age. Even though you are a rare exception and have a lower than normal body count for your age, your body count has increased with age. At age 12, you body count was zero. Now that you are older, your body count is greater than zero. That is proof that your body count has increased with age. Furthermore, almost certainly before you are age forty, you body count will increase again. If by chance it doesn't, that will prove that not only are you are rare exception, you are not a normal human female.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Adaeva Don't call her "not normal.". That isn't right. I have to object to that.

[Adaeva]

@Jamie05rhs Good grief! Did you even graduate high school? If you did, you should know the meaning of "if."

[Jamie05rhs]

@Adaeva Yes; it's a conditional phrase. I am aware of that. But IF she were to meet the conditions described in that scenario, then you WOULD be calling her that. Simple mathematics.

[Adaeva]

@Jamie05rhs That would 14 years in the future. Only you can predict what would happen that far in the future. I don't have that ability.

[Jamie05rhs]

None of us can.

[soe11]

Loyalty, personality, education skills are paramount.

[noohair]

Humans all have equal value. If everyone understood that, we would stop fighting wars and killing each other.

[Imsmurter1]

I'm 33 and I chose the 25 year old.

[Adaeva]

For you that is an logical choice.

[Imsmurter1]

Thanks

[Imsmurter1]

Oh the 30
Year old looks fine too

[MementoMori777]

The 18 year old virgin

[Buttajah]

Wisely, someone that first understood
what the covenant of marriage means and shares that knowledge and understanding.

[Anonymous]

The same woman I marry now. Greater options doesn't mean BETTER options.

[alearningboy]

18 year old virgin, because im still a virgin

[Adaeva]

Since guys date down for sex and girls date up (typically only with the top 20% of guys), at your age there are more guy virgins than girl virgins. That is because, a guys that is an 8 will have sex with a girl that is a 4 and maybe even a 3. Therefore, since, for sex, girls can do better, even a girl that is a 3 will reject average guys.

About 1 in 3 men 33% ages 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year and 19% of women. www.healthline.com/.../young-adults-especially-men-having-sex-less-frequently

[alearningboy]

wow thats a lot

[KostasKouvalis]

Virgin would be best

[Anonymous]

Probably the 18 year old virgin.

[Anonymous]

The one with the best personality and traditional values.

[Adaeva]

The only knows are looks and a brief description. Therefore, to answer the question, assume the values, personalities, and other unknowns are identical and acceptable.

[msc545]

Nobody. Doing so is asking for trouble.

[Adaeva]

That could be true. Especially, in our modern society.

[slatyb]

Alexandra Botez.

[Cheerfull009]

18 old virgin

[Iron_Man]

None of them

[Anonymous]

18 year old virgin.