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Early dating days I'd give him money for Uber. He spent so much on restaurants (so did I ) and Ubers that's he didn't have money to go home.
I loved him so much and felt so bad that he's suffering financially. Gave him money for his family and him to move.
Later after marriage I kept finding out he takes money from his friends (all of them do) because they're new job holders and don't earn that much. But I always paid it off when I got paid.
And found out his credit card bill is so high that they're gonna come for him if he doesn't pay in two days. I sold off two gold rings of mine. the money was lacking and I asked him to sell a ring his uncle gave him he said no he'd be upset if he doesn't see it. So he took Another small loan.
But he thanks me but later gets angry during fights and says I've made him his slaveand arrogant because I spend money on him. Should I stop?
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Seems he could be using people for money. You seem like you have done a LOT for him. It’s sad he acts this way.
I never wanted to say I did a lot for him. I loved him so much. I didn't GIVE him. He felt insecure I understand but to mock me and insult me for it?
Asker you have done a lot for him. If he’s mocking you and insulting you for being good to him that’s really shitty.
I couldn’t do anything for someone who did that to me ever again.
You said you have him money at some point. So you did do something for him
It sounds like you have been very supportive of your partner and have gone above and beyond to help him financially. However, it's important to recognize that constantly bailing him out of financial problems may be enabling him and could be contributing to a pattern of financial dependence.
It's understandable that you love and care for your partner, but it's also important to prioritize your own financial stability and well-being. If you continue to bail him out of financial problems, it may put a strain on your own finances and create resentment in your relationship.
It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and discuss ways to address his financial issues together. This could include creating a budget, finding ways to reduce expenses, or seeking out financial counseling or assistance.
The decision to stop bailing him out of financial problems is up to you. However, it's important to consider the long-term impact of your actions on your own financial stability and the overall health of your relationship.
Rule number 1
Never date broke guys..
Well I'm broke too. And he wasn't broke before he just wanted to spend every day together and spend money which led to him having less money after a few months.
Dude so you're the reason he became broke?
Did you not read it? No I'm not the reason. Half the time I paid in the restaurants. He didn't earn a lot. I didn't either but it was more than his. He got mad if I didn't wanna go to a restaurant.
Damn so he wanna go to restaurant even when he don't have money?
Yeah for example he had 700 he'd spend 200 on meal because he was feeling low self-esteem because he couldn't take me to a fancy restaurant. which was never something I wanted.
Lol talk to him