She’s 100% going to cheat in some way. Once you’re married, you forego all the party/club/bar scenes, and if you go, you go with your spouse. But these places are for young people to waste their money on anyway.
Most vacations, my relatives were always accompanied by their spouses. However, my mother did travel Europe with one of her family friends. You just spoiled that child hood memory for me.
He shouldn't be asking if he can go. It's an all girls trip. What is he gonna do? Tag along, gossip with the girls, get his nails done, and sip tea? Its a woman's trip
Lmao he was asking to go but be in a separate place with the kids. For example, you go to the beach with the girls. He goes to the beach or hotel with the kids. At the end of the night, you go be with him and the kids
I do not see the problem. Both women and men are allowed to do things with their friends without family. Nothing wrong with that. Especially if you see each other every single day. Time off from each other is great to do.
I trust until I have a reason not. to. This may end up being the reason not to but I would trust her until then. I would also remind her that a man trip around spring break may be coming up too. lol
exactly. i could see if she had naybe disagreed on grounds of taking the kids being stressful in a stress relief situation to which he could then counter with offering to get a family member or very trusted sitter. but instead her no has undertones of "i dont want any of y'all there to hinder me" (likey to seek another's attention)
sorry not sorry but any girl of mine can't go anywhere far without me especially a beach or a bar, her ''girlf'' friends can't protect her from hungry mutts there and a trip none the less? nope not happening.
That is completely unacceptable and I would tell her that if she wants to do that she might as well stay down there because it will be over and she won't be welcome back.
If my girlfriend would want to have a girls weekend or trip with her girlfriends I be okay with as long she didn’t lie where she be going and give me a call while she is there.
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I would be shocked if I WAS invited. Those kind of outings are critical. Time apart is as important as time together.
Time apart is fine. But i want us next to eachother by that night.
If I had a partner that wanted to go away with the lads I would totally understand it he would have peace from me lol
Haha
Honestly he would be sick of me haha
She’s 100% going to cheat in some way. Once you’re married, you forego all the party/club/bar scenes, and if you go, you go with your spouse. But these places are for young people to waste their money on anyway.
I don't know if she’ll cheat but yea when married, you gotta drop some old habits
I'd tell her when she got home kids and I would be gone! Your married for christ's sake and you have kids, so grow up your an adult now.
Yea she's acting like a teen or college kid whose “just dating”
Personal space is still needed in relationships to spend with your own friend's. You can't keep living in one another's pockets as it's not healthy.
Personal space is fine. doesn't mean you can't come home at night
Yeah saying that to your partner and then running off to a huge party city like that is pretty suspicious I'm not gonna lie.
Very!
Lmao besides nothing good ever comes from hearing girls trip in the US from your partner -_-.
Guys trip either lmao
That to lol.
Most vacations, my relatives were always accompanied by their spouses. However, my mother did travel Europe with one of her family friends. You just spoiled that child hood memory for me.
What you think she was up to no good?
Oh my god, stop it. You’re planting bad seeds in my head that I don’t need to think about.
He shouldn't be asking if he can go. It's an all girls trip. What is he gonna do? Tag along, gossip with the girls, get his nails done, and sip tea? Its a woman's trip
Lmao he was asking to go but be in a separate place with the kids. For example, you go to the beach with the girls. He goes to the beach or hotel with the kids. At the end of the night, you go be with him and the kids
He shouldn't be asking. He sounds controlling. Why go if he's not going yo be around them as he claims. If that's the case he could just stay home
And he suggested staying home long as she came home at the end of the day. She has kids now. May as well
He's controlling
I do not see the problem. Both women and men are allowed to do things with their friends without family. Nothing wrong with that. Especially if you see each other every single day. Time off from each other is great to do.
Time away yes but doesn't mean it has to be an overnight thing
I trust until I have a reason not. to. This may end up being the reason not to but I would trust her until then. I would also remind her that a man trip around spring break may be coming up too. lol
Lmao
grounds for divorce in my book. too high of a chance she will wind up cheating and sounds like she plans on it.
He never told her no but she quickly told him no. She sounds sus af
exactly. i could see if she had naybe disagreed on grounds of taking the kids being stressful in a stress relief situation to which he could then counter with offering to get a family member or very trusted sitter. but instead her no has undertones of "i dont want any of y'all there to hinder me" (likey to seek another's attention)
No way would this be happening just like i know there is no way I would be going to Vegas with a bunch of my friends.
Smart man
not happening.
she isnot going anywhere without me and that's final.
Lmao i mean ain't nobody said all that 🤣
do i sense sarcasm here?
I think its okay to go places without eachother. I just dont think some
Hoeass beach is the place to go without eachother
sorry not sorry but any girl of mine can't go anywhere far without me especially a beach or a bar, her ''girlf'' friends can't protect her from hungry mutts there and a trip none the less? nope not happening.
Your response oddly turns me on. I like it
glad to hear, care to tell why? i feel like i will enjoy the answer.
Cause i like when a man “cares”
well of course i care if my girl is eye fucked or actually fucked by other dudes, what am i? a cuck?
😂😂😂
That is completely unacceptable and I would tell her that if she wants to do that she might as well stay down there because it will be over and she won't be welcome back.
Lmao i dont blame you
I'm not insecure at all...
never had to be either
Im starting a petition to outlaw marriage and do away with
"IM LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP (a mundane prison sentence).
I'd be cool give me time to focus on work, just bring me back a 20 balboa
Lmao
If my girlfriend would want to have a girls weekend or trip with her girlfriends I be okay with as long she didn’t lie where she be going and give me a call while she is there.
My wife and do stuff separate sometimes. We are best friends though and share the same friends so we both usually prefer to hangout together.
I see
Bruh, if you wanted to party around and have fun and be sketchy, you should not have said, “I do.”
Exactly