Sexless marriage can it work? If so how?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Only if they both agree on it , if not , Nope it won’t work , it will just be a matter of time before that partner that wants sex either cheats on them or leaves them for someone else , that doesn’t with hold intimacy and affection from them. Why sexual compatibility is very Important in relationships, if you aren’t sexually compatible with your partner , then that relationship will more
Than likely fail, if things don’t change within reasonable time . Me personally will not stay with a girl that withholds sex for long periods of time and treats me like I have to earn it from her all of a sudden when intimacy was never an issue before with us , , to me , she is already cheating on the relationship, if she doesn’t have valid reasons to do so , she can use every excuse in the book , but I won’t tolerate it , if it isn’t a valid reason. I will end it with her and go find someone else , unless that someone else , is already waiting for me , which has happened to me before as well , I didn’t go look , she found me , that isn’t cheating , only If I go to that other girl without talking to my partner , then that is cheating , but I will immediately end it with my current partner , because the way I look at it , is my partner was already cheating on me by constantly denying me sex , so I start to cheat on her by opening my eyes to other girls’ I wouldn’t of opened my eyes to those other girls’ if I had a girlfriend that was amazing to me. Cheating is only bad , if you cheat on your partner and then try to go back to them like nothing happened , Cheating isn’t bad, if you are being neglected in your relationship and your partner isn’t making any attempts to change for the better , if they are being selfish to you , it’s ok for you to be selfish to them , never be a sitting duck to someone that treats you like a convenience, you should be her priority the same way you make her yours, Have a sit down talk with your partner and express your feelings of concern , and tell them how you truly feel and tell them if nothing changes for the better you are leaving , if they love you they will change for the better , if not then leave , it’s not cheating if you are honest with your partner about your feelings , it’s only cheating if you keep secrets from them and blind side them , Always remember this , because that will help you one day if you ever end up with someone that only thinks about themselves that doesn’t consider your feelings as well ,

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

No sex ever in the relationship? Had sex but stopped after you got married? No sex because of a physical impairment, disease, disability? If it is a loss of libido, have you or she been evaluated by physician to consider medical reasons?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My husband was gone for almost 4 years attending to a secret service investigation and we had to be this way. It wasn’t suppose to be this long but I felt the entire 4 years when he came back lol

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

It only works if both parties agree not to have sex. Sex and affection are very important in a marriage it wouldn't work for me.

Avicenna · Answer

I suppose it can if both parties are truly happy with that, but I very much doubt that is going to be the case- one of them will want sex.

Slapmynuts · Answer

There comes a point in time where you go from sex like rabbits to long... very long dry spells but it's going to happen! At that point, the both of you already begin to accept it and it really isn't a big deal. Some individuals are freaks of nature, they need it all the time their whole life! To those individuals, you need to start incorporating new things to the bedroom, toys, roleplaying, or whatever! Yes! There is some effort involved but that's love/marriage! Sex is just a thing! Yes it's important but not like in your early years! Everything tapers off and so do expectations!😁

DextroShade · Answer

No, it can't unless they are both really old and neither no longer has any desire for it or she's a beard for a gay guy. For the rest of us, why in the hell would we protect and provide for a woman if she's not fucking us? You are seriously telling me that if there's an intruder breaking in I have to go risk my life to defend a woman who isn't even sucking dick? GTFO!

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

I think I could make that work; I have a hand. Loss of affection and other forms of intimacy would be the bigger problem. My wife is much more than a sexual partner. We mutually grow from each other and keep each other's spirits high.

SphynxUK · Answer

It can work for many. Sexless doesn’t mean there’s no physical intimacy elsewhere.

Billlewis · Answer

Yes, as long as the woman can have casual sexual relationships with other men. Every relationship I've been in for the past twenty plus years has been a non penetrative arrangement, and I was only allowed to perform anilingus for her.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

It wouldn't work for me. If it had to work, I'm not sure, maybe it's a marriage of platonic love aka two people who are not physical with their expressions of lovemaking or loving. It's possible, though to me, so not my jam 🍓

JacobJordan · Answer

Sure if the one that wants/needs intimacy looks elsewhere. Which of course leads to divorce. Taking care of your husband or wife is a huge part of marriage that includes being intimate

Mangospacho · Answer

If you have a physical disability preventing you from having sex, then yes, it can. It’s not ideal but it can work. If you’re just deciding to purposely not have sex as a married couple, that’s not a marriage and it won’t work.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Not really. I have been living in a sexless marriage for the last 10 years. I can't touch can't look and show any advancement to my wife. She has totally lost interest in sex because of menopause.

Anonymous · Answer

She’s not sexually attracted to you 🫵 Cause women go on heat right before the period and crave sex. If she don’t give it to you. She doesn’t desire you. She just wants a companion.

Tharithi · Answer

According to every religion a man who asks sex before marriage must be shunned , and must shun a women if he’s denied after marriage

Subflics · Answer

There will be sex. Either with the 2 beloved or someone else. There has to be sex

aceleon · Answer

only if there is asexuality in it or else not happening.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

That's called a friendship with shared assets

Dou1994 · Answer

No. God created it in marriage to share a bond with each other. That’s intimacy and a way to express your love to your partner in marriage. Shout out to a Pastor name Steven.

Anonymous · Answer

i've seen it happen, but only if BOTH of them are okay with it and agree with it. otherwise, cheating will happen.

Yannae · Answer

It can. Just have two people who don't care at all about sex.

Novemberr_ · Answer

Definitely not. Almost every person gets married to someone for having sex. Love is the key role but sex completes the game.

litty736 · Answer

It can. Just a reminder that It's okay to have sex in marriage.

Alex-Snow · Answer

It would not work for me. I need at least one orgasm a day just to function.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Different people have different desires and needs.

Awantika03 · Answer

If live together I think it will not work long time

Alina_980 · Answer

Nope. Before marriage I want to try guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if you’re in your 70s , otherwise someone is going to be resentful

RefriedBeans · Answer

Yes, until it doesn't work.

NathanDavis · Answer

never heard of it...

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No….

WhitneySnow · Answer

If you’re both ace

Akam93 · Answer

You already know my opinion.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Catholics have a Josephite Marriage.

clubboss · Answer

It can never work mate.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

My weenie would go on strike

Kykiono1 · Answer

I don't think so

IDoNotConsent · Answer

What a creepy question.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

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