Cheated on my husband lastnight should I tell him?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

You've gotten yourself in a very delicate position and really made things complicated by breaking a serious breach of trust. As to whether you should confess or not, it's really up to you. Only you can decide this. We can't tell you. If you had unprotected sex and are at list of either giving him an STD or getting pregnant by the other man, that it wouldn't be fair to keep that a secret. That would be something very serious.

Follow your conscience (which I hope you have one) and seek individual counseling or therapy for that destructive behavior.

[PhilRod]

Go ahead, I'm gonna fuck my neighbors wife

[Vesuvius87]

@PhilRod
I'm not the OP. I'm replying to the anonymous female poster's question.

[idonotlikeyou]

You had a good time and now you want to brag about it to your husband? Do you think telling him that another man used you will make him happy? What are you trying to achieve? Absolution? Divorce? Giving him a heart attack? Get a grip, woman. If you don't want to live with your husband, file for divorce, but don't ruin another person's life just because you're a whore.

[Tomisworthless]

they used each other. Her mistake was getting married in the first place. "Till Divorce Due us Apart" in Jesus name

[Crimsyjo]

@Tomisworthless wise words!! Sex is a two way street. They always say guy used woman. But they use eachother. For pleasure.
As for question.. I'd need more context but bottom line is if a person is unhappy and or wants to mess around... be single and free to do so. I don't condone cheating!!

[Anonymous]

What you did was WRONG….. what if you get pregnant? What if you get a STD? Don’t be a coward and face your actions. It’s not just about you. You need to confess.

If you feel remorse, guilt, shame, etc. It means you still have good in you despite doing a horrible thing. You need to pray and repent over this as well. Nobody is perfect but if you keep doing it. You can be turned to a reprobate mind.

Don’t excuse what you did. You need to break it to him. Before this gets worse and he finds out later. You don’t want that

[OlderAndWiser]

No, you should just announce that you want a divorce and walk away from everything, leaving him at least intact financially. Then you should find a good therapist and start working on why you did such a horrible thing.

[Finchie40]

The fact that you cheated on him , means you don’t truly love him and care about him , so the best thing for you to do is tell him the truth and move on from him

[DrPepper12]

Not necessarily

[Finchie40]

Unless he is willing to stay with her and try to work things out

[AviatorTom]

Do you want to tell him? What do you expect his reaction will be?

It's your decision, not some random people on the Internet.

[DishLady]

Sigh... Yeah, of course you should.

[PhilRod]

I heard of a Bride to be loved getting fucked before the wedding

[icedragoom]

If you loved and or had feelings for this man do you dare fucking lie to him you already did something that most men can't forgive and dont try to deny or push what you did on the other person it takes two to tango be straight with him and honest let him decide what comes next and accept the consequences

[HawkPerception]

Yes you should. And leave him. You don't deserve him. Man I'll never understand cheaters.

[Kelley1]

G

Generally women keep it secret.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Context would be useful. Did you plan it, or did it just happen unexpectedly? We're you out with friends? Did you drink a little? Did you use protection? Did the other guy know? So. Many. Questions.

[molonski2]

NO , under no circumstance disclose , total and utter denial unless other evidence surfaces , and even then blame someone else , but NO you never , ever disclose.

[Purpleronnie]

No ! Just keep living the lie that is your marriage. Covering up and lying actually makes your marriage stronger. Your life is great , you’re a wonderful person !!

[Billlewis]

In my opinion, no -- unless you have a sneaking suspicion that it would turn him on tremendously.

[avery58]

Better he find out from you than someone else somehow

[MisterWack]

Yea! Be crystal clear and honest, apologize and never do it again!

[EmmaMary]

What do You think you should do?

[Summeroflove]

I think she knows she should tell him. But

[EmmaMary]

@Summeroflove

Precisely... However you do realise that this is our usual daily Troll, who manages to think up these wonderful imaginary stories... But sadly lacks manners or common courtesy in ever replying to any of the comments/opinions that get posted.

[Summeroflove]

It can be hard to tell whose trolling and who isn’t sone people are just stupid. But I figured this one may be.

But it could be helpful for someone who is strolling across this

[Summeroflove]

Look. Most cheaters go to great length to cover up their actions. When they can’t lie anymore. Here comes all the excuses and justifications as to why they did it.

If at some point beinf sorry is the only thing to cover their ass. They may say it but never mean it

[Summeroflove]

And a lot of people post questions like this. But they don’t get the answers they want to hear. So either A they ignore them or B they get extremely hostile

[Tim2nice]

Not unless you know he would be ok with that. What he doesn’t know won’t hurt him

[Account]

I am going to make it short for obvious reasons.
Yes, you should tell him.

[Juxtapose]

This is a troll because you are anonymous and cheaters like to have long explanations.

[Alex-Snow]

I guess to answer that is why did you cheat? Did you use a condom so there is no chance of giving him and STI? How is your sex life with ur husband?

[RavVid]

You should be honest and not compound the dishonesty by hiding it.

[Julian7312]

Yes, although I imagine it's a very difficult situation.

[Anonymous]

Yes, tell him so he can divorce your worthless POS ass. Women like you are monsters, you're evil, you aren't capable of loving anyone but your self, you exist without empathy, without a soul. You aren't human.

[DarkLegacy]

Good comment but it is a troll asking this

[Iron_Man]

Immediately right this second now you’re gonna have to suffer the consequences of a divorce, but you deserve it

[Anonymous]

It might be kinder to just leave while he's gone. The pain from that loss would be less than being cheated on.

[Anonymous]

No, what’s the point.

Now he’ll just divorce your ass. Just wait for him to Cheat back 🫵

[Brady]

If it's somethin u need 2 tell 2 get it out of your conscionce then yes. Othrwise no but nevr do it again.

[HotManPlayboy]

No, of course you shouldn't say it. But if your conscience is not clear, you can do other things. act wisely

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Do it while handing him divorce papers while you’re at it. Because that’s what you should do

[gorydetails]

Just let him know you're a whore and he deserves better.

[jahaims]

You should jump off of the highest thing you can find

[OhLongJohnsoning]

yes, as that's not fair to him.

He needs to know if he should leave you or not

[pethouse]

Yeah you should. Are you really gonna live the rest of your life pretending it didn’t happen?

[CubaPirate]

Yeah if you can live with the consequences. No if you can live with that the guilt.

[justacoolpoet]

You should definitely tell it. Bit first slap yourself 100 times on rhe face the hardest, for cheating on him

[Alex_m25]

Did you cheat with your hand or your pillow? 😄

[Anonymous]

Don't tell him, divorce are too ugly, too expensive and very painful.

[rosemilk]

yes you should

[PeachyPie93]

Yes, everyone deserves honesty.

[Alex_m25]

She is fake

[PeachyPie93]

@Alex_m25 How are you positive tho? lol

[Alex_m25]

I don't understand 😒

[PeachyPie93]

@Alex_m25 I mean, how are you sure she is fake, it is just an anonymous post?

[Alex_m25]

It is evident even from the way he asks questions. There is no sign of regret or happiness. The person who actually did this would give a long explanation. be sure.

[PeachyPie93]

@Alex_m25 I see

[Alex_m25]

👍🏻👍🏻

[Alex_m25]

Heyy

[Vesuvius87]

@Alex_m25
It sounded like a bait question but it was still worth answering. I suppose it wouldn't hurt in case it's real.

[Summeroflove]

@Vesuvius87 it’s hard to tell what questions are baiting and what aren’t. But someone may come across this someday and find it useful

[Summeroflove]

@Vesuvius87 most cheaters have very frustrating logic. Many times they are very self righteous and do come up with long exclamations justifying and excusing why they cheated. Most cheaters are cowards and won’t tell their partners

[Vesuvius87]

@Summeroflove
Yeah I can't tell anymore if it's real or fake so I just answer as if it were real. I don't see the point anymore in insulting them and saying they're worthless if it's likely they won't even care or they aren't going to confess. Plus I've gotten tired of insulting people (esp anonymous users) online, waste of energy.

[Summeroflove]

@Vesuvius87 yeah insulting them tends to make them angry. I had someone the other day telling me to kill myself because this Individual didn’t like my answer.

It really shows you why people get into such bad situations and why they attract shitty people into their lives

[PhilRod]

If he had a bigger cock why not

[PeachyPie93]

@PhilRod?

[WhitneySnow]

Probably but I need more context

[DrPepper12]

Without context who TF coukd answer this?

[Makeushiver]

Only if you're prepared for unknown consequences.

[In_Trance]

Yeah I'm sure he'll love to find this out

[bravesfan44]

How far did you go last night?

[noohair]

If you want a divorce, yes.

[OddBeMe]

I would. Would you do it again? Will you?

[Luckycharms12]

Yes don't expect good reaction

[you_asked]

NO.
Give me a call
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[Summeroflove]

Did you really post your nukber for people on here to have? LMFAO. A website full of loonies

[controlleddecent]

yes he might want to join

[Dongie]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Nooo wtf u wanna tell him what?

[sirderpsalot123]

Yes.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.

[NotSlowestSloth]

Cheat on him again.

[zombiewoof]

Will you do it again

[jjj101010]

Probably not