Besides adultery, what is one absolute marriage killer?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just name one.

[Garud]

I have seen something like this with some couples.
Whenever the husband tries to talk to her wife after an exhausting day, she keeps crying about every little thing.
For ex. She says I did this, I wiped the table, I cleaned the sink, because of this my back is paining, and I am feeling cold, I was so busy that I forgot to take medicine, so after cooking food and arranging these things, can you also clean the utensils along with the whole house?

She will do only a little work but will talk so much that it seems like she has done a lot of hard work.
And she doesn't even want a solution for whatever problems she is ranting about.

If her husband says that you can't do it then don't do it. Then she will taunt who will do it then.
If her husband says that I will do it then immediately she leaves it to him and starts crying about another topic.
If he says that if you are unwell then take medicine, then she will say I don't feel like it.

This is very unbearable for me to look at and I can see the faces of those men, it is like a volcano ready to erupt.

It is better to stay alone than this

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Contempt, resentment, lack of communication.

My wife actually warned me about this - as long as she keeps nagging, arguing (within healthy limits of course) wanting to talking things out I got nothing to worry about. But if she starts going " 'kay" with everything, not bothering arguing and so on, it means she stopped caring and soon will be out of the door.

[CarolinaGirl5]

I hate to say this women. I have seen so many women ruin their own marriages due to listening to outside sources such as bitter single women and just overall through accusations. My friend did that. I was like the only girlfriend of hers to tell her she was wrong but no she didn't listen. He was a good man and now he is happily married with children to someone else. She regrets what she did

[Unit1]

Let me guess. She consumed Tik Tok propaganda and took it seriously?

[CarolinaGirl5]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 @Unit1 yes !!

[Unit1]

That's an easy one. Girl's minds are vulnerable to it and they don't know it.

[CarolinaGirl5]

@Unit1 but don't tell them that they will attack you. I've tried and they get mad and call me a man. i just find it insulting and embarrassing these ladies don't have common sense ot logic

[Unit1]

Gotta agree. They are ew, yuck and married to their phones and social media. 🤪
Oh well.
Other than that i love women 🥰

[Daniela1982]

Cheating, which doesn't necessarily mean adultery. The 2nd would be Mistrust. When you can't trust someone anymore, it's already over

[AviatorTom]

Control. When one spouse wants to totally control the other. That may last for a while but the marriage eventually ends.

[LazerBean]

Being self centered for sure. If you see a exceptionally happy couple, you are seeing a couple who is constantly thinking of ways to show their love for the other.

[ProbablyClueless]

Any kind of keeping score, and the bitterness that breeds.

[manhattan_betsy]

Lying, lack of communication, and disagreement on finances.

[NathanDavis]

well... murder, obviously

[NathanDavis]

also known as... mariticide and uroxicide, if I remember correctly

[NewWaves]

Laziness.

[Pete671]

Voting for Brexit!

[jahaims]

Lying