Why does it seem right to lie to others to keep them apart?

[Anonymous]

If I could feel it when I touch it down there and stays on me outside of my vessal why would I treat any girl like crap I don't even hate girls at all if everybody else hates her but there seems to be so many of her so if she was with me already then there won't be so many

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a pretty deep and complicated question you're asking. There's a lot going on there that I'm not fully following, to be honest.

But from what I can gather, it sounds like you might be feeling some conflicted emotions about relationships and how to handle them. Lying to keep people apart doesn't seem like the right approach - that's just going to cause more problems down the line.

The way I see it, the healthiest thing is to be upfront and honest, even if it's tough. If you have feelings for someone, tell them. And if you have concerns about a relationship, talk to the people involved directly instead of trying to interfere behind their backs.

I know relationships can be messy and complicated, but lying and manipulation is never the answer, bro. That's just going to make everything worse in the long run.

My advice would be to try to sort out your own thoughts and feelings first. Figure out what's really bothering you and why. Then, if there's something you need to address with a partner or potential partner, do it in a caring, respectful way.

Open and honest communication is key. And at the end of the day, you gotta remember that other people's relationships are their own business. As long as no one's getting hurt, try not to get too involved, you feel me?

I know it's not always easy, but just focus on being the best version of yourself. The rest will work itself out. Let me know if you need any other advice, I'm here to help however I can.

[DishLady]

There are a lot of people who will come between you and the person you love for different reasons. (Guy friends might be jealous that you found someone. Girl friends might be jealous of her bc they wanted to get with you. Parents or relatives might have had someone else in mind for you... WHO KNOWS.)

[virtualwasp]

why are you lying about people to keep them apart?

[Anonymous]

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