Guys, How long did it take you to realize you wanted to marry her?

[beenherebefore]

[Summeroflove]

I’ve never been married and sometimes people know when they know but people need to be extremely careful not to just marry for the sake of being married and marry the wrong person or much worse marry someone whose pretending to be someone they’re not. The other extreme is if someone’s future faking wasting years of someone’s life because they never really want to marry them. They are just too cowardly to break off the relationship as well as that someone’s the best option they have at the time meanwhile the other genuine loves them.

[sawno]

As long as it took me to want a future in her country because marriage is required for that. Its the only scenario I have seen where marrying benefits me making it the only scenario i'd do it.

[beenherebefore]

How long was that?

[sawno]

As long as it took to fall in love with her and discover she was the one for me. I think somewhere between 6 and 12 months but we were a very unconventional case.

[YourExLover69]

I think I need 2-3 years of I know her already very well. And she's super loyal, nice, clingy to me exclusively. Then I will marry her.

[dudeinohio]

About 10 months in. I was hurt in a car accident and hospitalized for 3 weeks. She was with me every day. She's a keeper.

[serious]

Never met anyone like that so no such realisation.

[eagle1951]

first date